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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
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and please. when talking puters, i need instructions like you're talking to a 5 year old Quote by littlemee
Being a bit (some would say, a lot) of a shy, boring, miserable old bugger I probably didn't make the most of the excellent hospitality & friendliness of everyone there. But just standing back and watching all you gorgeous people having such a great time was more than enough for my first Munch.
blimey, i wondered who'd dug this one back up
glad you enjoyed it Littlemee :thumbup: - was lovely to meet you - and you wern't boring and miserable, you had good company to attend to
see you at the next one! I have a little problem, so, before i throw the puter out the window i though I'd ask if anyone else is having the same thing or is it just me 
when i type a post then try to add an emoticon from the list, everything I've just typed disappears leaving just the emoticon :mad:
to get emotes into the text i have totypethe code in : code :
is it just me? its only been doing it for the last couple of days
when i type a post then try to add an emoticon from the list, everything I've just typed disappears leaving just the emoticon :mad:
to get emotes into the text i have totypethe code in : code :
is it just me? its only been doing it for the last couple of days
:smug:I ticked 'after Munches or Socials' - but 'after' could mean either that particular night or a couple of weeks after ... but 'after' has kinda become an essential pre-requisite to swinging for me
I cant say in terms of a set or average number of times though - like others, I can go months without playing at all, and sometimes it might be 3 weekends in a row I dont think it matters though, I'm happy with the idea that sometimes I play, sometimes I dont - it depends on opportunity, time and finding people I want to play with (and them me)
I cant say in terms of a set or average number of times though - like others, I can go months without playing at all, and sometimes it might be 3 weekends in a row
I dont think it matters though, I'm happy with the idea that sometimes I play, sometimes I dont - it depends on opportunity, time and finding people I want to play with (and them me) ooooo hello stranger, good to see you back Angel !
ok ok hijack over
but, yeah, if something seems too good to be true it usually is
Does your local PCT run a programme called 'Freshstart' in your area? they're doing it in mine.... and ...... :shock: I'm preparing to start next week :shock: - bonus being, its free, not exactly drug free mind but worth a shot while i have this thought in my head that actually, i'd like to stop now :shock:
ok ok hijack over
but, yeah, if something seems too good to be true it usually is
Does your local PCT run a programme called 'Freshstart' in your area? they're doing it in mine.... and ...... :shock: I'm preparing to start next week :shock: - bonus being, its free, not exactly drug free mind but worth a shot while i have this thought in my head that actually, i'd like to stop now :shock:
Thankyou Staggy & Rose! a very special occasion for two lovely people - indeed an honour to be part of it, I had a blast! photo slideshow on laptop was a brilliant idea too, thankyou for sharing your day, and home with us.
big thankyou's also to Sarah & Mal
, Sassy (and Leonie & Adam) for my new drink of choice :inlove: and to Vicky for generally looking after us all! I have a few more thankyous actually, so will do those by pm
Emerald, i'm still not speaking to you! karaoke in pink flip-flops indeed
a very special occasion for two lovely people - indeed an honour to be part of it, I had a blast! photo slideshow on laptop was a brilliant idea too, thankyou for sharing your day, and home with us. big thankyou's also to Sarah & Mal
, Sassy (and Leonie & Adam) for my new drink of choice :inlove: and to Vicky for generally looking after us all! I have a few more thankyous actually, so will do those by pm Emerald, i'm still not speaking to you! karaoke in pink flip-flops indeed
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
NWC hun, can I have the hotel list please?
if any of the lades want to let me know in pm which hotel you're at, I feel a room 405 re-run coming on :twisted:
Is madammie allowed to come too? :giggle:
most certainly
she's more of a girl than us lot are :giggle: Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
if you're already playing and someone wanted to join in, would you maybe be happy to go ahead because the situation's got you horny even though the person may not be in your "Zone"?
Oooo good question :thumbup:
I think....
I think....No. On the whole, if the person is not of my 'zone' (
) how horny I am wouldnt matter, it'd still be a no....BUT
I think in a club situation my 'zone' alters somewhat, so does that kinda cancel out the above?
To clarify, usually I will only play with people I know , that, among other things, is my 'zone'....but in a club situation I have played with a complete stranger, because they fit with everything else in my 'zone' andI instigated itHowever, although my criteria may change, there are still situations and people I wouldn't engage in play with - I would be very cheesed off if someone who knew I wasn't interested in playing with, tried it on in a club - to me I would see this as "them trying to take advantage of the situation" (and me).
that is spot on :thumbup:
Quote by steanrachy
recently we have been chatting more and more about what we are both looking for in meet ups and cant seem to find any common ground with the people we chat to, we are looking for a quite stringent type of thing (ie meet up first in bar or something few drinks chat and see how we all get along if we do then back to wherever forfem fem, bit of light touching from guys if wanted etc and MAYBE full oral or full swap if we get along and things go that way).
What we really want to know is "are we being pushy or expecting people to do things our way or are we right in telling people what we expect or are looking for before hand and them possibly thinking that we are pusy or that they can change our minds once we get there and pester us for full swap ater we have travelled to a place to meet them?"
You're not looking hard enough
No i dont think you're pushy, I think you're spot on telling people what you're looking for beforehand. Its those who think you might (or think they can persuade you to) change your mind about what you're looking for who have the problem, not you, imo.
I'm looking for the same thing you are, and it has to be 'my way' or no way - my 'approach' seriously limits my swinging activity because its not open to negotiation..... but, I'd rather play once in a blue moon on my terms and find exactly what I'm looking for with people who are also looking for the same so that everyone's happy, than play for the sake of it in a situation I'm not 100% comfortable with.
Quote by westerross
then 5 minutes later they're doing the same thing or behaving in the same way toward others,
Ain't that to be expected on here though - for two reasons. Firstly - the nature of the site and the people who populate it - it's having fun and making contact at the same time. Secondly, because, if there is no obvious reaction to the 'approach' from you, then the other person will fear becoming a pest if they persist. .
Of course Tune, but this is where I cant read the signs...perhaps because it is 'expected behaviour' - is this person's flirty behaviour simply having fun and making contact flirty forum banter that sometimes extends into pm on a matey/ bantery basis ...... or are they interested?
To me, there's a difference, but unless someone just comes out with it straight, no flirty bullshit, I dont really know which is which I cant do signs either, primarily because usually if I think someone's interested, from flirty posts, pm's etc or their approach in person being all attentive and 'into me' , I'll think 'nice one, wonder where this will lead....' then 5 minutes later they're doing the same thing or behaving in the same way toward others, or, it swings the other way and you dont hear from them for weeks... and that makes me think 'ohhhhhh i misread that one then 
' and another one bites the dust
' and another one bites the dust 1 - The last flavour ice-cream you tasted.
Morello Cherry :lickface:
2 – The first alcoholic drink you got pissed on (and can you still drink it now)?
White Lightening, i'm a classy bird me , no, definately couldnt touch it now. Thunderbird comes a close second....in fact, it might have been the two mixed together :shock:
3 – Favourite thing to say during sex?
Taste me :twisted:
4 – Favourite thing to hear during sex?
ohhh you dirty bitch :twisted:
5 – The last gift you bought for a friend?
Julie Bell art cards
6 – Favourite thing to cook on a bbq?
I dont cook, I eat :giggle:
7 – The colour of your eyes?
Brown
8 – What is your ringtone?
PPK - Resurrection :doh:
9 – Something you always take away on holiday with you?
Dont do holidays :shock:
10 – The housework task you most hate doing?
Ironing, hate it with a passion
Morello Cherry :lickface:
2 – The first alcoholic drink you got pissed on (and can you still drink it now)?
White Lightening, i'm a classy bird me
, no, definately couldnt touch it now. Thunderbird comes a close second....in fact, it might have been the two mixed together :shock:3 – Favourite thing to say during sex?
Taste me :twisted:
4 – Favourite thing to hear during sex?
ohhh you dirty bitch :twisted:
5 – The last gift you bought for a friend?
Julie Bell art cards
6 – Favourite thing to cook on a bbq?
I dont cook, I eat :giggle:
7 – The colour of your eyes?
Brown
8 – What is your ringtone?
PPK - Resurrection :doh:
9 – Something you always take away on holiday with you?
Dont do holidays :shock:
10 – The housework task you most hate doing?
Ironing, hate it with a passion
Quote by posh-bitch
Had a mishap driving home from Marcuso's Monday morn as at found my car in hedge. Now off work as my back has totally seized.....but hey no other damage.....I'll recover.
Kas
Bloody hell Kas, am sorry to hear this :shock: Glad you're (semi) okay though :therethere:
i reckon its just an excuse to get off work to recouperate from the Munch though :giggle:
(i'm joking, get well soon
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