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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London

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Quote by Pete_sw
hopefully you can make the next one, have already started to make enquiries about setting up the Avebury meet for next year.

i'm coming to that if it bloody kills me! date please asap and i'll book it off as a weeks holiday lol I'll get train tickets so nowt can go wrong with the car, and start saving up my coppers in jars now lol
I dont think a reference from SH would help somehow :shock: - and i'm even more doubtful that I'd actually get one :giggle:
Thanks folks biggrin
Dark's got a new job!
i'm still keeping the current one cos I love it too much to pack in :shock: but taking a new additional part-time post doing something (a) i can do standing on my head with my eyes shut and (b) it's pissed me off for a long time that I have the bits of paper but aint done anything with them rolleyes - well, now i am :bounce: :bounce: :happy:
Wont start for a couple of months yet though due to paperwork, refs and clearance checks etc, but its got my name on it and i'm a happy wee lassie today lol - and, i can stop saying 'no i cant make it sorry, i'm skint :cry: ' lol
thanks for listening passionkiss lol
If anyone has to pull out of the Munch and their place becomes free, Those on the reserve list will recieve a pm, You have 3 days to reply at which point the place will be offered to the next person on the list

people have pm's!
Shite and bollocks Pete! redface
i've just had it pointed out to me, cos i'm a twat redface that I cant make this now :cry:
I had the 22nd stuck in my head as 'booked' and being in Wilts.... but have also now been booked all day work-wise on the 23rd and there's no way I can get out of it or do the drive in time to get back to Derby.
Pete I'm sorry luv, I'm not gonna make it :cry: redface
I've got a course in Derby all day on the 23rd so I might make this, depending what time we get finished - can I be a provisional please, but also I wont be able to 100% confirm until the day itself loon
Quote by claicerrig
happy to drive people staying there to the venue to save taxi costs.
Regards
Clai biggrin

Clai ! passionkiss you are a star!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/85888.html
:thumbup:
Quote by Dee_Vic
if we are accepted could you also sent us a list of the hotels as well lol
thanks

Hiya you two wave
I did have a few places for guests of the other 'birthday people' lol but I'm afraid at this late stage they have now been filled - i'm still awaiting confirmations and last minute drop-outs so if you're happy to sit on the reserve list for a space to come free, i'll add ya :thumbup:
pm on its way too wink
Brilliant! :happy: :happy: saves me a job Mano :thumbup: *runs round like blue-arsed fly*
there's really no need to be nervous though but a small gathering for hellos and natter is always good :thumbup: It's not really the event of the year though ffs! its just a munch lol
Its highly likely I wont be able to pop in for one with you, but I'll see you on the door :happy: :happy:
Is this the bit where I roll over and pander to the views of the 'majority' ?
whatever.
Evidently I was wrong, therefore Mr Steve, I do apologise for 'hijacking' your thankyou for our gangbang thread.
someone throw me a bone, cos I aint biting the bait flipa
:laughabove: :thumbup:
yeah, go on then Marcuso , you can get excited now rolleyes lol
i'm off shopping for a dress sommat to wear :scared: lol
awaiting a pm ....... if not, i'll open it just for tonight and hand over if the Masters arrive biggrin
There will be a private after-party after this event, and i'll be doing a seperate thread in the next day or so for those who are specifically interested in that. It is seperate to the Munch itself and being organised by me so hold fire on the after-party stuff til the thread goes up please :thumbup:
For those who usually stay at Marcuso's, or have arranged to for this event, please do the bed & breakfast thing directly to him by pm :thumbup:
How many sleeps?? :happy: :happy:
rolleyes
no, its not against the AUP. But there IS the unwritten ' way things are done' here - the etiquette - and imo the thankyou's in this thread are being done for the wrong reason - verification (oooo she said the V word again smackbottom lol )
A genuine thankyou where an event is not a social should be done in pm, imo.
There is always a need for discretion here in my oppinion. You are welcome to yours.
:shock: more posh frocks :twisted:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
afterthought: jesus I really do need to find something to wear!! :shock: bolt
and Sarah - there are no safe crash diets! :jagsatwork:
Quote by northwest-cpl
What's the difference between a thank you after a meet and a thank you after a munch or party? Why don't munch-goers just pm the organiser to say thank you? Why the need for discretion? No names were mentioned.

see above.
no names need to be mentioned, because they've joined the thread to confirm themselves! lol
Quote by bing_steve
the main reason i posted a response like thank you for the meet guys, was for the following reasons:
1. so many timewasters on this site so nice to meet genuine people
definately :thumbup:
2. the people who dont believe you are genuine now do
ooo verification? bolt
3. this site is a swinging site and what is wrong with saying thank you
unless its a social, and you're saying thankyou generally and dont mind confirming to the site you were 'there', thankyou threads for anything else are best left to pm - because as has happened here, the other people who were there (and it wasnt a social it was a gang bang) then come along and confirm their attendenace too. That's not discreet at all.
4. allows other cpls/single males/fems to know there are other genuine people out there
Yep. It also shows that people are happy to shout it from the rooftops when they do meet. Catch22.
if i am wrong and have made a mistake posting a thank you message then i apologise but it was not offensive to anyone
No hun it wasnt offensive - i'm simply suggesting that it could have been done by pm for reasons of discretion, because of the nature of the meet.
rolleyes
Bandit, its snipey little comments like yours that bring attention to posts like this -
So, Mr Bing - thankyou for telling us all you had a meet - marvellous. Why not just pm the people concerned ? ohhhh thats because its a 'look at meeeeeee' post isnt it rolleyes
Discretion Discretion Discretion :jagsatwork:
Quote by Chaotic_Spirit
After much talk with friends i have decided to risk being kicked, despised and prob being hounded at the next munch or social....

I do hope that was tongue in cheek.
but just in case, you're down for mine in 2 weeks time, and it wont be happening there, or any other Munch wink Just thought I'd clarify :thumbup:
Quote by mazandden
...and a separate forum room to introduce unfamiliar chat users to the forum.

It already has - the Chatroom lounge. Unfamiliar chatters now have their own forum hun.
edit : whoooosh, and as if by magic, here we are lol
Can people please check the list - if you think you should be on there but arn't and i've somehow missed you off - or you've confirmed by pm but havent been 'bolded', pm me asap! Similarly, if anyone cant make it etc, please let me know :thumbup:
Steff35 you're on the main list awaiting confirmation
DeeCee you're on the reserve list wiating for a pm from you lol (was that a request for an invite yesterday dunno lol )
any last minute requests? I'll be closing the guestlist on the 29th (2 weeks time) and removing all those who have not confirmed / not picked up or replied to pm's wink - i will do this earlier if there are people on the reserve list waiting for places (those who have pm'd me and are waiting for sitters etc will stay on the list til the 29th wink )
Cheers drinkies
H you will be fine hun, anything you need, pm me. kiss
hand-holders at the ready, lots of people you're familiar with from the forum and chat, we'll all 'look after' you, you'll have a great night biggrin