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Daveyneedsfun
9 hours ago
Straight Male, 46
0 miles · Abergavenny

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Quote by Marcoharper

Unfortunately I have found myself in the same place and spent a long time thinking the rights and wrongs to looking elsewhere and like others starting looking and ended up here and now I see I am not alone in this problem so have started to seek some pleasure outside of the marriage, I love my wife and family and will never think to split but sex is part of the relationship and with that missing it does cause both males and females to explore

Tricky I’m sure my friend. Couldn’t pay myself…the transaction would make little Dave go limp!!!

What about starting with role play in the bedroom about her with another or group. Let it stew….

Buy a dildo and DVP her DP her with it. Telling her how 5 or 6 guys are taking it in turns on her…..

I can come at this from a slightly different angle. I am single and had a friend request on FB from someone I didn’t know but we went to the same school and had mutual friends so curiously accepted.

We got chatting and she said she’s in a sexless marriage but had young kids, didn’t want to split up the family home but loved her husband dearly but more as a friend than anything. She said she’s tried all sorts with him but he’s a bit of a prude. She said they have 2 children so as far as he’s concerned he’s done his bit and that’s it.

She asked if I’d like to be her FWB so she can have what she needs. I thought about it as she only lived a few miles from me but I was in the process of divorcing and I just kept thinking of her fella so I politely declined. A few years later it got me thinking about the what ifs etc. that led me here as I kept thinking husbands may enjoy their wife having a fella on the side and I was right…..