What as opposed to the internet?
Hmmm, well I am kind of worried to try this now. After all the stories of being beaten up and chucked out.
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Me and my gf go to one gay bar/club a lot. Mainly because it is a fun place to go and we always get in free ( and sometimes free drinks) because we are friends with some of the bar staff.
Have totally been guilty of snogging in there. No one seems to mind too much though. I am just friendly but back off when guys hit on me. I don't mind it.
The way I see it we aren't some straight couple fraudulently trying to take advantage of some scene where we shouldn't be. My girlfriend is bisexual, it is part of our sexuality, and like it or not we are part of the scene.
Have totally been guilty of snogging in there. No one seems to mind too much though. I am just friendly but back off when guys hit on me. I don't mind it.
The way I see it we aren't some straight couple fraudulently trying to take advantage of some scene where we shouldn't be. My girlfriend is bisexual, it is part of our sexuality, and like it or not we are part of the scene.
Yeah, but we are not a straight couple. My girlfriend is bisexual.
I see what you mean though. I don't want to upset anyone. It is just a part of sexuality. We are not going to be pushy with anyone - just flirty.
I have put an ad up and maybe something will come of that...but I'm not really in to the whole internet dating thing. If you are confident and attractive and don't mind introducing yourself to new people then I find it easier just to go out on the social scene...at least that is what I do when I am single and want to pull a new girl...just wondered if anyone does the same for threesomes...
I see what you mean though. I don't want to upset anyone. It is just a part of sexuality. We are not going to be pushy with anyone - just flirty.
I have put an ad up and maybe something will come of that...but I'm not really in to the whole internet dating thing. If you are confident and attractive and don't mind introducing yourself to new people then I find it easier just to go out on the social scene...at least that is what I do when I am single and want to pull a new girl...just wondered if anyone does the same for threesomes...
Hmmm, well I don't want anyone to be getting a black eye.
Well I think the best thing to do is give it a go. We will try out straight places and gay places and see what happens. I don't think anyone will get a black eye though.
Having a threesome is an enjoyable and common fantasy/experience. if you meet some nice people in bar, have a laugh, things get flirty and you end up going home with them ... well it's all good... and if you not interested then that is fine too.
Just like going out and picking up straight birds in clubs.
Well I think the best thing to do is give it a go. We will try out straight places and gay places and see what happens. I don't think anyone will get a black eye though.
Having a threesome is an enjoyable and common fantasy/experience. if you meet some nice people in bar, have a laugh, things get flirty and you end up going home with them ... well it's all good... and if you not interested then that is fine too.
Just like going out and picking up straight birds in clubs.
Interesting. Thanks "guy4fun".
Did you and your GF pick up in mainstream or gay bars? Was it just like going out with the lads and hitting on women?
Maybe stupid questions. Should just try it for myself. I think we will go out for a drink tonight and see what happens. We are both off work tomorrow.
Did you and your GF pick up in mainstream or gay bars? Was it just like going out with the lads and hitting on women?
Maybe stupid questions. Should just try it for myself. I think we will go out for a drink tonight and see what happens. We are both off work tomorrow.
Hi there,
I'm new here. My girlfriend and I want to have a threesome with another girl. We have been talking about it for a few months now and I want to do some stuff to make it happen.
Usually if I want to pick up a girl just myself I would just chat up someone in a pub or club.
I just wonder if any of you swingers ever pick up women as a couple when you go out to bars and clubs?
Cheers,
David
I'm new here. My girlfriend and I want to have a threesome with another girl. We have been talking about it for a few months now and I want to do some stuff to make it happen.
Usually if I want to pick up a girl just myself I would just chat up someone in a pub or club.
I just wonder if any of you swingers ever pick up women as a couple when you go out to bars and clubs?
Cheers,
David
