Friendly, thanks for being well so Friendly in the Chatroom this morning, really cheered me up
And thanks twos-company but I think I'll just keep out of the limelight for now....
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DreamerHelen
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 47
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Just an Update for you all.....
I took off the dressing last night and found a big hole there....LoL......it looks gross (which definitely means no sex before Christmas) but the good news is that it will heal fairly quickly I hope.....
Thanks for all the best wishes and PM's.......you're all wonderful and it is sooooo much appreciated.
I took off the dressing last night and found a big hole there....LoL......it looks gross (which definitely means no sex before Christmas) but the good news is that it will heal fairly quickly I hope.....
Thanks for all the best wishes and PM's.......you're all wonderful and it is sooooo much appreciated.
Awwwww thanks everyone......I appreciate all the best wishes....
Don't worry, I WILL be back at Munches and Socials.....
Kcshaggers....I wouldn't let anyone near me at the moment, it does NOT look pleasant...LoL....but tell your other half, thanks for the Offer....
Steph hun, I will try to call you over the next couple of days.....I'll be starting work from home (chatline work) on Sunday for the week but not back to Uni Work probably until Monday 14th.....
I'll keep you all informed....
Don't worry, I WILL be back at Munches and Socials.....
Kcshaggers....I wouldn't let anyone near me at the moment, it does NOT look pleasant...LoL....but tell your other half, thanks for the Offer....
Steph hun, I will try to call you over the next couple of days.....I'll be starting work from home (chatline work) on Sunday for the week but not back to Uni Work probably until Monday 14th.....
I'll keep you all informed....
Hi Everyone......some of you will know this but some won't so I'm going to tell everyone and then that way everyone will know 
I am taking time out from SH Events (ie: Munches and Socials) for a couple of months.
The reason is that I have just had Surgery for a rather large Abcess at the top of my leg, the Doctor said it was the biggest he'd ever seen...LoL. I am in rather a lot of pain at the moment and can't walk properly....
The Doctor said it should heal in 6-8 Weeks so I have decided not to come to any Events or Socials until after Christmas. Just to make it clear, I am NOT leaving Swinging Heaven in any way shape or form and I WILL still be around the forums but for those used to seeing me at Munches and Socials and organising them I won't be doing so until after Christmas.
The Midlands Munch is still going ahead with me organising it as that is well after Christmas.
I will miss all the Munches but I will look forward to some serious partying in the New Year!!!
*Hugs and
* to you all....
I am taking time out from SH Events (ie: Munches and Socials) for a couple of months.
The reason is that I have just had Surgery for a rather large Abcess at the top of my leg, the Doctor said it was the biggest he'd ever seen...LoL. I am in rather a lot of pain at the moment and can't walk properly....
The Doctor said it should heal in 6-8 Weeks so I have decided not to come to any Events or Socials until after Christmas. Just to make it clear, I am NOT leaving Swinging Heaven in any way shape or form and I WILL still be around the forums but for those used to seeing me at Munches and Socials and organising them I won't be doing so until after Christmas.
The Midlands Munch is still going ahead with me organising it as that is well after Christmas.
I will miss all the Munches but I will look forward to some serious partying in the New Year!!!
*Hugs and
* to you all.... I have had an Email from the person I organised it with.....he said something like "Everything went fine, glad you had a great time, let me know if you need something organising again in the future"
I think that means he doesn't mind about the £500 not being spent at the Bar....or if he does he is hiding it well....LoL...
So I think that is the end of it and I'm going to take it as such.....
Thank you again to everyone for what you all did for me last night.....it was very very very much appreciated!!
I think that means he doesn't mind about the £500 not being spent at the Bar....or if he does he is hiding it well....LoL...
So I think that is the end of it and I'm going to take it as such.....
Thank you again to everyone for what you all did for me last night.....it was very very very much appreciated!!
Thank you to those who have offered to top up the Funds for the Evening.....
We paid the Bouncer which was £50 and had about £7 leftover which I gave to the Barman as a tip.....
We were supposed to spend £500 at the Bar but I doubt that happened.....if it didn't I don't think there is anything they can do to me given that they only have my Phone Number and not my address or anything.....so I will apologise and hopefully that will be the end of it....
Thanks again to all that did turn up for a great night out......
We paid the Bouncer which was £50 and had about £7 leftover which I gave to the Barman as a tip.....
We were supposed to spend £500 at the Bar but I doubt that happened.....if it didn't I don't think there is anything they can do to me given that they only have my Phone Number and not my address or anything.....so I will apologise and hopefully that will be the end of it....
Thanks again to all that did turn up for a great night out......
Thank you for all your support guys.....I really appreciate it.....
I am still really really angry but there isn't much I can do about it now.....I don't think I will be organising another London Munch anytime soon.....
I think the Idea of there being a Centrally Held list of people who don't turn up is a great idea......I might take you up on that Dawn hun
I am still really really angry but there isn't much I can do about it now.....I don't think I will be organising another London Munch anytime soon.....
I think the Idea of there being a Centrally Held list of people who don't turn up is a great idea......I might take you up on that Dawn hun
I have posted in here a couple of times with a few lighthearted remarks but for the first time I really have to RANT!!!
BEWARE bad language about to follow!!
I am sooooo fucking mad right now. I organised a Munch last night, it's been planned since May and there were originally 90-odd people on the list.....
Just to make it clear, i have NO problems with those that can't make it for whatever reason and let me know by some form of communication (text, phone, PM, Email or on the thread)....we all know things happen, even on the night that means people can't make it, so please be CLEAR I don't have a problem with those people....
What i DO have a huge fucking problem with is those people that say they want to come, ask to come and even sometimes beg to come and then don't fucking well turn up!!!
:x :x :x :x :x :x :x
I have sent out two different PM's - One saying "You are definitely invited, stand by for details" and One saying "Here is your invite the Munch will be at such and such a place".....so people can't say they didn't get an Invite and if they didn't get an Invite they should have PM'd me to say so!!!
I very nearly didn't have enough money to pay the Bouncer last night, a measley £50 because people didn't bother to turn up!!! We had 25 people that turned up last night out of nearly 90 that were on the list!!!! And granted about 10 people had PM'd me or Texted me to say they couldn't come which was fine, but where were the other 55 people that didn't turn up!!!!!!!! :x
I am sooooo fucking mad right now at the inconsiderate people that almost ruined nearly 6 months of planning and organising.....well I hope you're all proud of yourselves and feel very ashamed of yourselves......If you have any decency you'll send me a PM today about why you weren't there!!!!
Right, rant over......Phew, I feel a bit better now.....
BEWARE bad language about to follow!!
I am sooooo fucking mad right now. I organised a Munch last night, it's been planned since May and there were originally 90-odd people on the list.....
Just to make it clear, i have NO problems with those that can't make it for whatever reason and let me know by some form of communication (text, phone, PM, Email or on the thread)....we all know things happen, even on the night that means people can't make it, so please be CLEAR I don't have a problem with those people....
What i DO have a huge fucking problem with is those people that say they want to come, ask to come and even sometimes beg to come and then don't fucking well turn up!!!
:x :x :x :x :x :x :x I have sent out two different PM's - One saying "You are definitely invited, stand by for details" and One saying "Here is your invite the Munch will be at such and such a place".....so people can't say they didn't get an Invite and if they didn't get an Invite they should have PM'd me to say so!!!
I very nearly didn't have enough money to pay the Bouncer last night, a measley £50 because people didn't bother to turn up!!! We had 25 people that turned up last night out of nearly 90 that were on the list!!!! And granted about 10 people had PM'd me or Texted me to say they couldn't come which was fine, but where were the other 55 people that didn't turn up!!!!!!!! :x
I am sooooo fucking mad right now at the inconsiderate people that almost ruined nearly 6 months of planning and organising.....well I hope you're all proud of yourselves and feel very ashamed of yourselves......If you have any decency you'll send me a PM today about why you weren't there!!!!
Right, rant over......Phew, I feel a bit better now.....
Hi Everyone, since no one has started one yet I thought I'd start one.......just to say a few things that I wanted to say.....although I know a few people have posted in the thread in LMU.....
Thank you for those people that DID come last night.....we were expecting about 80 people but only about 25 turned up but what a 25!!!!
Thank you to those people that contributed twice last night in order to pay for the Bouncer, I know you didn't have to but you did and that was truly truly appreciated.
Thank you to Vicky_UK for attending her own Birthday Munch!!! LoL.....and thanks to a certain few for organising it for her.....it was good to see you all.
I really enjoyed myself and I'm glad that everyone else did too......!!!
Thank you for those people that DID come last night.....we were expecting about 80 people but only about 25 turned up but what a 25!!!!
Thank you to those people that contributed twice last night in order to pay for the Bouncer, I know you didn't have to but you did and that was truly truly appreciated.
Thank you to Vicky_UK for attending her own Birthday Munch!!! LoL.....and thanks to a certain few for organising it for her.....it was good to see you all.
I really enjoyed myself and I'm glad that everyone else did too......!!!
Quote by phil_osopher
Helen,
I guess it's a little late to ask if we can come along - Mrs Phil_osopher was asking me about munches last night, and I thought the next one was next week - logged in this morning to find that it's tomorrow!
Are we too late?
Cheers!
Nope, never too late!!!
I have PM'd you and hope to see you there..... I'll be sending out the PM's tomorrow.....sorry guys I've been caught up with other things....should be tomorrow morning though......tomorrow afternoon at the latest.....
If anyone can't check their PM's tomorrow or Saturday then PM me and I'll send my Mobile Number for you to call me for the details....
If anyone can't check their PM's tomorrow or Saturday then PM me and I'll send my Mobile Number for you to call me for the details....
