I'm not interested (cause I'm not particularly looking) but just wanted to say that its a great Ad!!
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DreamerHelen
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 47
0 miles · Greater London
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Quote by fembernie
Congrats to you both. I know you dont know myself and my partner Bassman (at least I dont think we have met- although could have passed each other at some munch somewhere along the line) Anyway, we would love to come along and join in the celebrations - and I am sure my good friend Corriefem can vouch for us
Best of luck to you both
I'm happy to vouch for Bernie and Bassman WRATS, they are lovely and respectful and just generally great to have around....
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: The only answer I have for you is that it depends on the woman.....
I know some women that love recreational sex and don't need any form of attachment to them, it's a case of any cock will do. But I also know some women (me included) that prefer to have sex with friends and people they know a little bit about....
The best thing to do is to discuss it with your wife, and then discuss it again, and again and again....and then think about trying it....and make sure you both know what your boundaries are...for example:
Kissing or no kissing on the lips?
Giving oral to the bloke, swallow or not?
Condom or not (although hopefully most people say yes to this one!!)
And then you have to think about whether you want a friend already in your life to fulfil your fantasy (although that can get a bit sticky) or whether you want to advertise on here for a single man...if you do then take these things into account:
Age, upper and lower age limits.
Size of body (thin, fat, average or you don't care)
Size of cock (or you might not care)
Do they have to be closeby to you or are you prepared to travel.
Can you accommodate?
What do you like/not like sexually speaking.
If you get a single man that you think is right, try meeting him down the local pub first to see if you all get on and don't be afraid to say "no" if you feel any discomfort or if you simply don't get on with him.
I know it all sounds complicated, its not really once you have talked about it properly and you know what your limits are...just make sure you stick to your limits or talk about it before you change them.
Have fun and feel free to PM me if you want more advice.
I know some women that love recreational sex and don't need any form of attachment to them, it's a case of any cock will do. But I also know some women (me included) that prefer to have sex with friends and people they know a little bit about....
The best thing to do is to discuss it with your wife, and then discuss it again, and again and again....and then think about trying it....and make sure you both know what your boundaries are...for example:
Kissing or no kissing on the lips?
Giving oral to the bloke, swallow or not?
Condom or not (although hopefully most people say yes to this one!!)
And then you have to think about whether you want a friend already in your life to fulfil your fantasy (although that can get a bit sticky) or whether you want to advertise on here for a single man...if you do then take these things into account:
Age, upper and lower age limits.
Size of body (thin, fat, average or you don't care)
Size of cock (or you might not care)
Do they have to be closeby to you or are you prepared to travel.
Can you accommodate?
What do you like/not like sexually speaking.
If you get a single man that you think is right, try meeting him down the local pub first to see if you all get on and don't be afraid to say "no" if you feel any discomfort or if you simply don't get on with him.
I know it all sounds complicated, its not really once you have talked about it properly and you know what your limits are...just make sure you stick to your limits or talk about it before you change them.
Have fun and feel free to PM me if you want more advice.
Can I just post something about trainers please....I wear trainers all the time, even when I'm out at a Nightclub or a Munch....the reason for this is that I have extremely large feet (size 9) and find it difficult to get nice high heels that are comfy.....
If people don't like it then they don't have to say hello to me...it's their loss as far as I'm concerned.
As for the topic in hand, I think its good that you know you're not ready for a meet yet...just relax and maybe get yourself to a Munch...
If people don't like it then they don't have to say hello to me...it's their loss as far as I'm concerned.
As for the topic in hand, I think its good that you know you're not ready for a meet yet...just relax and maybe get yourself to a Munch...
Two days ago I passed a milestone and didn't even realise....
Two days ago I have been on this Site for TWO whole years!!!
I just wanted to say a big thank you to those who have been with me all the way and to the friends I picked up on the way...
When I first came here I was a shy little thing (okay not so little!! LoL) and wouldn't say boo to a goose but this place cherished me and slowly I flourished as I went to my first Munch (thank you Marcuso!!
) and then it started from there...
I love this place and all the people that make up the regular core users....I even love the wankers that PM me with a "wanna shag babe?" posts...but this place wouldn't be the same without them.
So thank you everybody for making and continuing to make my time here feel like home...
Two days ago I have been on this Site for TWO whole years!!!
I just wanted to say a big thank you to those who have been with me all the way and to the friends I picked up on the way...
When I first came here I was a shy little thing (okay not so little!! LoL) and wouldn't say boo to a goose but this place cherished me and slowly I flourished as I went to my first Munch (thank you Marcuso!!
) and then it started from there...I love this place and all the people that make up the regular core users....I even love the wankers that PM me with a "wanna shag babe?" posts...but this place wouldn't be the same without them.
So thank you everybody for making and continuing to make my time here feel like home...
Okay I'm going to get the Business out of the way before I post my Thanks....
Firstly....Chesty was right, about 45 didn't show up although quite a few of those either called me or PM'd me. I am NOT out of pocket so please don't worry everybody. We paid Dawn back for the Room Hire which was £50, and then £125 for the Bouncers....that was all paid from the Entrance Fee which everyone kindly paid. And then a whip round was done for AlexDJ and £132 and some change was made for his wonderful Services.
Secondly....I have PM'd Dambuster myself to sort things out but I wanted to publicly say that I totally accept his apology and even the Manager said that the Bouncers overreacted...next time (if there is one) I will know better than to have Bouncers there...so that's my apology for everyone that there were Bouncers there!!
Now onto the Pleasant Things:
My thanks go to the following:
KazSwallows and SirLee - Thank you for the wonderful badges and for keeping me company on the Door for a lot of the night
AlexDJ - Thank you for getting there early and for the great music
Marmalaid - For being my knight in shining armour and for the lift at the end of the night!! You're a diamond hun
Good to meet so many people, I'm not going to name names as there are too many of you to thank...but I had great fun meeting everyone...
Roll on the Next Munch that I'm not organising so I can relax...LoL....
Firstly....Chesty was right, about 45 didn't show up although quite a few of those either called me or PM'd me. I am NOT out of pocket so please don't worry everybody. We paid Dawn back for the Room Hire which was £50, and then £125 for the Bouncers....that was all paid from the Entrance Fee which everyone kindly paid. And then a whip round was done for AlexDJ and £132 and some change was made for his wonderful Services.
Secondly....I have PM'd Dambuster myself to sort things out but I wanted to publicly say that I totally accept his apology and even the Manager said that the Bouncers overreacted...next time (if there is one) I will know better than to have Bouncers there...so that's my apology for everyone that there were Bouncers there!!
Now onto the Pleasant Things:
My thanks go to the following:
KazSwallows and SirLee - Thank you for the wonderful badges and for keeping me company on the Door for a lot of the night
AlexDJ - Thank you for getting there early and for the great music
Marmalaid - For being my knight in shining armour and for the lift at the end of the night!! You're a diamond hun
Good to meet so many people, I'm not going to name names as there are too many of you to thank...but I had great fun meeting everyone...
Roll on the Next Munch that I'm not organising so I can relax...LoL....
Right that's it.....this is the last time I'll be online so any last minute requests will have to be done by phone.....
I will have my phone on intermittently during the day, for some I'll be on the Underground so it won't be on....but just leave a message and I'll call back....
Woooo Hooooooo (tm Missy) it's TODAY!!!!! :bounce:
I will have my phone on intermittently during the day, for some I'll be on the Underground so it won't be on....but just leave a message and I'll call back....
Woooo Hooooooo (tm Missy) it's TODAY!!!!! :bounce:
