Put it simply. Male friends have ditched Spain for Thailand. Thai girls aren't for me so I've bailed.
A couple who I chat to online said Malaga is ok. As it's not just an Airport but a resort in itself. Been to Nerja but disappointed

We lived in Droylsden many years ago. At that time it was great for couples. Always remember either of us being hit on when either of us went to the loo. There was a few Hen parties simply because women felt safe. Then obviously word got round to Stag doos. Hence we haven't been down for years.