Quote by LittleMissCali

As someone that has been swinging for nearly 3 decades now... I have done most of mine. The ones I can't do won't ever happen due to safe sex being something I won't compromise on. Or requires timing.

Some of my fantasies were better than I ever thought they would be... others a disappointment and I may try them again.

So do you still have a big list... have you found things better left as fantasies?

Yes... fantasized about my wife with my best buddy and it happened. Long story short we are still friends but seeing them was a roller coaster of emotions. We 3 started playing after too much wine and erotic talk... as we played he positioned himself between her legs rubbed her pussy and she was bucking for him to enter.. he looked to me, I nodded yes.. and he did... then she lost focus on me and just enjoyed having him fuck her... as he pulled out she (and here is the kicker) pulls him back in and demands he cum in her, put his seed in her ... I felt ill, then great, then ill again.

Well we started with Yoni massage and she loved it... was not open to it until we just did it (ordered it). The masseuse was super professional... as far as her fucking him.. nope did not happen. But she had a great orgasm.

A tough one... communication is key... I had a friend and his wife in the lifestyle for years and they helped me bring it up as my attempts failed. What I learned was that woman to woman explaining the benefits helped a lot and more so than husband "pushing" wife to do it.

She warmed to it after a few conversations with my friend´s SO and then we finally tried it. Kind of set up as a "drunken" 3 some whereas I told my wife another guy in the mix would be good and she was like "ok"... vs.."ew"... we found someone and when it went down at a nice Inn... it was amazing... an emotional roller coaster mostly from the second she accepted his cock in her to the second he was about to cum and pulled out and she put his cock back in her... We have done it a few times ...