Looking for saphire to my steel, secret rendezvous, great connections, fun, honesty and of course fantastic sexual chemistry.

I'm married, we're happy and enjoy life, holidays etc but our sex life has dwindled to nothing over the last few years. I want to feel the touch of a woman, the anticipation, the heart racing excitement, their skin against mine, their lips on mine, heavy breathing in my ear as my hands and fingers explore. I'm a genuinely considerate guy, a thinker and a passionate person, more sensual by nature. I'm not into pain or humiliation in any way so if your looking for someone like that then I'm not your man. I am however happy for some naughty role play wether that be the dominant one tying your hands to the bed posts or a sexy handyman with a good set of tools and ready to I serve.. I guess I'll see how it goes, have been on here a while but it seems half the time my messages get lost in the ether, either that or unlike myself, everybody else gets thousands!! So, in short, a fun, intelligent, happy, tall, good looking, fairly fit (gym and yoga) type of guy that is just bored of his situation in terms of sex and wants to change that, not permanently but in a way that excites and satisfies, nothing heavy or demanding, a friend with a shared passion, maybe a lover, a secret affair, afternoons in beautiful hotels, beautiful crisp sheets and passionate fun, that's all I want............