You will need to be very patient as we are both new to this and my wife hasn't been naked in front of another man for at least 40 years, and I'm the only person ever to have fucked her. She will be very nervous and shy when it comes to getting naked in front of someone else, so if you do get to meet her it's unlikely she'll undress, or at least not completely, on the first occasion. She likes to fantasise about being shared by two men, but does not want me in the same room. She probably won't mind if you get your cock out, and she might well have have a play with it. If you're expecting firm tits and a virgin tight cunt I suggest you look elsewhere as she's given birth twice. She is not shaving her pubes at the moment and is used to having my shaved cock inside her, but I'm sure she won't mind if you don't shave. She responds well to gentle foreplay and usually produces plenty of lubrication, so penetrating her should not be a problem, even if you're well endowed.