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7 Mar 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
being relatively new to this, we still have many questions. one that is bugging me at the mo is the age thing.
i'd like to know wot u all think about meeting much younger people.
so, what i want to know is ----
what do younger guys see in the older woman?
is it the Mrs Robinson experience??
forbidden fruit??
a friends mother??
teacher??
look forward to hearing your opinions
curvy xx

I dont know if it is the same for the guys but when i was younger i always fancied the older men. Not old as in old enough to be your dad but just a few years older. They always seemed to be more experienced more in control and being slightly submissive ( although i didnt know it then) thats what turned me on about them. Maybe thats what young guys like too, the voice of experience.
louise xx
Louise xx
Speaking as a 42yr old single guy I look for a woman with a cheeky sense of humour and nice personality first and foremost, age is irrelevant to a certain extent as long as its legal hehe.... but i do like a woman that knows what she wants and likes although these days i would probably like more experiences with younger women but having said that there are some older women i would love to meet from here too... so i guess i am sitting on the fence on this one...
However, in answer to the question posed there is another possible explanation why some younger men go for the older woman.... had anyone considered that some may do it because they mistakenly believe that older women are easier to attract? Just a thought....
I do not personally subscribe to the view that a woman will throw herself at a younger man... and anyway have been rejected by enough older women anyway to know that for a fact hehe... well ok just a few then........
Graham

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7 Mar 2007

Hiya Cuddles
Speaking as a single guy, one i hasten to add that does not abuse ladies or couples on cam or in chat come to that..... there are a minority of people on the site that feel that they have to upset others...
It would be good to have an ignore button so that you can ignore and therefore no longer see posts from specific individuals although i doubt they will introduce such a feature on the old chat rooms now... Until such a feature is introduced you have to rely on the Host being there to kick the offenders out although if in a general room then you have to hope there is an Op around at the time....
However, what i would say is dont let the buggers get you down.... there are plenty of genuine men and women on the site and if you give in then the minority will do it all the more to others.... easy for me to say i know not knowing what was said etc... but if you are genuinely offended by something said then take it to an Op and they will look at the posts and take the appropriate action against those individuals and ultimately ban them if warranted...
All the best, hope you are having fun ....
Graham

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7 Mar 2007

Someone once said to me "there is no such thing as a friend on Swinging Heaven, trust nobody" Now i wouldnt exactly go along with that entirely but they may have had a point. Giving out personal e-mail addresses can be a risky business and its one that i have to think hard about before doing so...
Its sad that there are a minority of people using the site that find rejection hard to take and feel the need to attack people with verbal and written abuse. But its a sad reflection on those that do it and not on the ones that are unfortunately receiving the abuse.
However, speaking as a single male, those of us that are genuine and adult enough to be able to take a no as a no and not hound anyone whether they be couples, single women or even single males (if thats your persuasion) will prevail in the long run.
Sometimes i think there should be a name and shame board within the site to post such items, however, i appreciate that this would not be feasible as it would no doubt be abused again by the minority who get a kick out of trying to destroy other peoples integrity and reputations.
I hope your problem has now been resolved Angel & H and the advice given by the others is the best on offer..... just banish the buggers into the junk folder for eternity and ignore them in the rooms you frequent and carry on enjoying this site for the purpose for which it was first established...
Good luck
Graham

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