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Quote by PaulLancashire2024

What's the best experience with a stranger encounter

Had a really random one - was waiting for a cab in an adjacent town to my own when a bloke and a woman walked up - asked if I was going to hemel, I said yes so they said good - we're going there too! So we all jumped in the cab and they were the first stop - we had some laughs on the way, nothing dodgy. Assumed they were together but when we got to theirs they invited me in.

Went in and after a while and a few drinks, he went upstairs so I said good night and got up to leave (assumed this was a prompt at the time) - she said, you don't have to go stay for another.....turns out they weren't partners at all, just house mates. We had some good sex and then I called another cab.

No phone numbers exchanged, no emails etc ....Just a out of the blue, crazy random hook up.

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Quote by Smoothchris2022

I started off by shaving my torso and trimming my pubic hair about twenty years ago, then one day I got carried away and shaved the lot off . I haven't let my pubic hair grow back since. I now shave my legs so I am very smooth all over now ..

I'd like to do the same but am plagued with regrowth issues. In grown hairs (loads of them!) and it's like I'm trading being really hairy for being trimmed but covered in in grown hair spots.

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I don't get it at all. Sorry, men in women's underwear just makes me laugh.

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it's entirely possible that nobody knows anything about London Saunas.

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So long as everyone's bits and bobs seen some soap within the last hour or so, I can't see what the problem is! - Personally I love giving and receiving. Had one or two suspect vaginas over the years but mainly nice ....one tasted of strawberry!

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Quote by BewlayBrother

If I’ve had anal I slip a but plug in to keep it in. When I get home I just say on the floor and he’s hard before I can get my panties off. I love squatting over his face my pussy is usually swollen and open, I let him lick and suck my clit first before reaching around and pulling butt plug out. I then position myself so that my anal cream pie runs straight into his mouth. He loves it and sometimes cums without even touching his cock.

How does that work, you're a 66 year old bisexual male???

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I've discussed this with the Mrs many times. Whilst she is waxed in all her 'mechanical parts' she keeps a thin strip of hair, so thin in fact I asked her why she didn't just get rid of all of it.

Well, you'd think I'd shot our dog - totally horrified and linked being smooth (or even me liking it) to ......well, ya know sad

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I've got a BMW X3 M40i - It's an absolute thug! 🤣

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Quote by bradfordbiman

I love watching a woman wank. One of my female buddies likes to watch me wank too. We quite often cum by wanking each other.

Just imagine how much better the world would be if we all had that one friend who would wank us off and them in return! :-D

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Quote by brettboy

I have mentioned to my wife how l would love to watch her take another young mans cock / join in it makes her orgasm like hell as we fuck.....she says she would like to but gets cold feet at the last minute.........

Maybe it's worth explaining that to a prospective visitor that it might not happen - explain to her if she get's cold feet then it's totally fine.

That might help her move forwards knowing she really doesn't have to if she doesn't want to. And if she does get cold feet when it happens, you'll know it's not for her and it puts the whole thing to bed. The three of you enjoy a cup of tea and come chocolate biscuits and that's that.

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Quote by Denk15

Thanks for the link!

as I suspected, I definitely shouldn’t be messaging anyone looking for VWE 🤣

Remember mate, it's not the size of the nail, but the size of the hammer used to bang it in.

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Neither have done it for me really ....can slightly handle nipple piercings over pussy .....each to their own, but lI'd leave it well alone, especially your pussy.

Maybe things have moved on, but when I went down on a woman with a pussy piercing is just tasted of a 2 pence piece.

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Quote by Markglos

So what do you call not fancing guys but likes to suck cock and loves to take a cock in the arse while fucking a pussy at the same time?

Fun? lol

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You can get a cheap tripod and a mobile attachment from most good online camera stores. If you have a Galaxy Ultra Phone you can use the S-Pen to trigger the camera once you're in a good position. Failing that, the good old timer on the phone that gives you a chance to get into a pose. Not a serious layout - £60 maybe, for a tripod.

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I'm going to block you though, because you come across as pretty unpleasant. Thanks for bringing yourself to my attention.

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I think I'd like to try my own - but the problem I have is as soon as I've cum my sexual desire absolutely vanishes. It's like a switch that goes off and everything I needed and wanted is gone the second I'm done.

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This can probably be closed off - I was having a moan at the wording of a message, can't believe how popular the thread is ....should have fallen off the bottom ages ago :-)

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Wish I still had my bike, I'm retired now but in order I had:

TS50X

DT 125R (YPVS)

TZR 125R

ZXR 400

GSX-R 600 (Hump back, carb version)

GSX-R 600 (Sharp back, Fuel injection version)

ZX-6R Ninja

Ended up being a bit of a "Cougar" (As in Top Gun) - Just lost the edge one day and thought it was time to hang up the leathers.

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Quote by Stevieboy26

Me I had prostate cancer 14 years ago after the opp I was told I may have trouble getting hard and had a muscle removed as wall as my prostate. For 6 months had nothing doc give me Viagra still had problems. One morning. I wake up and had a semi. Made Appointment to see the surgeon and he said I need to exercise very often I said what exercise do you want me to do. He said what most men do masturbate I was a little shocked. He said it would strengthen your other muscles get magazines or watch porn. So I did and omg it was good and the most exciting porn was watching two females massaging each other specially when the other one is being seduce. Now 95% good. All I can say is don’t give up anyone 👍👍

Try and use your imagination and limit porn - wanking to porn has detrimental phycological effects as I found out 10 years ago when I went through a phase .......In a nutshell, I sexually desensitized myself which gave me ED.

Took over two years for my bits and pieces to start working again and in that time, no orgasms and no stimulus. It was awful. Lesson learned!

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Quote by osemlover

We have no problem meeting guys who are attached because we realise that love and sex can be very different things depending on the circumstances. We get lots of guys contacting us and the first thing we do is to read their profiles, check their interests etc. If those are not compatible with what we want, that's the end of it. That's not an insult or judgement of the people concerned, just a choice we make based upon our values and preferences. Single guys vastly outnumber everyone else here and that's the problem you face. Having said that, the vast majority of them make little or no effort with their profiles or even the messages they send couples likes us. Yes it does take time. Yes it is hard. Yes we might look at you and think you're ideal except too far away or a smoker for example. Be yourself, be honest and see what happens but these things take time. smile Think about good friends. How long does it take to make them? For many people here this ISN'T just about easy sex after a couple of drinks/meetings. It's about making a connection, building friendships and creating the sort of trust which will endure more than 24 hours.

Thanks for the insight! :-)

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I've been here forever and only ever had one meet. I don't send daft messages and try to connect on the level above the primal urge, but rarely get replies let alone an offer.

Not meant to sound poor me/violins - just my take as a single guy.

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Anyone got an easy way to protect identities (face blurring on vids and pics)

Got lots of content but finding a tool to do the job is a bit of a task?

Thanks.

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Well, what can I say? I'm here because my wife treats sex like a job that needs doing periodically. And yes, I did for a while think "Is it me?" - But in all the years and all the women that have come and gone, nobody has ever said "You're not very good" - in fact, I've always been quite proud of my capabilities based on the responses I've had!

I don't really know what to do about it, I've asked what I can do to make it more ....ya know. She just says it's perfect as it is. I've even laid it bare (no pun intended!) and said "Am I boring?" - You have to be a brave bloke to say that!

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Got to go for the mind first, cock pictures aren't likely to get the girl - but will almost guarantee a meet if she likes you as a person AND you've got the equipment that sets her racing!

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It's moved on from the act of blocking to the aggressive accompanying message about harassment. Scroll up.

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Quote by Lapua

The Generic message is required in a surprising number of cases- you’d be surprised that a few peoples reaction to being blocked is to get riled and demand answers from the blocker, which I’m sure you’ll agree defeats the object of blocking.

I’d ask you to look at the message including a comment about avoiding harassment is nothing more than a reminder. Just like a speed limit sign reminds you of the speed limit, reminding you of it does suggest you’re breaking the rules, just reminding you what they are.

Could the message be softened maybe? Harassment is a serious issue, but not everyone who gets blocked is guilty of it. The message does imply the blocked user is a harasser.

There has to be a middle ground?

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Quote by Woohoo

The "harassment " message is a generic message that everyone see when they try and view a profile who has blocked them.

People block people for their own reasons,might seem odd but it's called freedom of choice.

And right there is the problem - A Generic Message about harassment, when you haven't done anything wrong - it matters.

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So, more thoughts on this - ok, fine block me without interaction. I accept any user can do the blocking if they so wish - it's the warning against harassment when I haven't do anything wrong! that I quite dislike.

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I'm quite interested in sharing my Mrs, but she is incredibly straight acting and I've yet to see any kind of indication of her wanting another man/woman to join us.

I bought her a dildo for her birthday, one of those ones with the suction cups and explained I wanted her to ride it whilst sucking me - maybe it will awaken a 3sum desire of some sorts?

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That's a detailed reply.

Could I just say though I didn't interact with them.

That's it. If people block on sight, it's unfair and suggests that the person being blocked is a problem. If everyone starts doing it, people could get banned.... And for what? Not being someone's criteria?

That's not really what the block button is for.