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Gufuncouple
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 68
Straight Female, 68
0 miles · Surrey
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Orgasminator
There's probably as many answers to this as there are members on the site. It a perennial question on nearly all sites and forums.
I suppose it comes down to the usual general answer - "the more you put in the more you get out".
Like many others, we are members on 'other' sites and suffer the same problems there as you are on SH. We don't usually have a problem on here as we spend the greater proportion of our time in the SH community, so know those who are genuine and appeal to us and we take time to nurture those relationships online before physically meeting.
We were given some very good advice many moons ago from a swinging friend that has held us in good stead ever since:-
1 - Always know what you want.
2 - Never jump in too early.
3 - Focus your efforts on those that meet your requirements.
4 - Always read their profile.
5 - Contribute to build credibility.
6 - Be tolerant of others 'preferences'
7 - Nothing happens overnight, so expect nothing and when it does it's a bonus.
I suppose it comes down to the usual general answer - "the more you put in the more you get out".
Like many others, we are members on 'other' sites and suffer the same problems there as you are on SH. We don't usually have a problem on here as we spend the greater proportion of our time in the SH community, so know those who are genuine and appeal to us and we take time to nurture those relationships online before physically meeting.
We were given some very good advice many moons ago from a swinging friend that has held us in good stead ever since:-
1 - Always know what you want.
2 - Never jump in too early.
3 - Focus your efforts on those that meet your requirements.
4 - Always read their profile.
5 - Contribute to build credibility.
6 - Be tolerant of others 'preferences'
7 - Nothing happens overnight, so expect nothing and when it does it's a bonus.
Orgasminator
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This is a stunner from the south of France - excellent with a Roast Beef dinner or a Steak.
a bottle but on special offer atm of 2 for £10 or 6 for £27 ( a bottle!!)
This is a stunner from the south of France - excellent with a Roast Beef dinner or a Steak.
a bottle but on special offer atm of 2 for £10 or 6 for £27 ( a bottle!!)
Orgasminator
We've had this problem before (although not with Opera) but the solution may work for you.
Some browsers reset the Flash Player Global Settings remotely on installing.
I had to reset most of them after installing the latest version of Safari over Chrome.
Some browsers reset the Flash Player Global Settings remotely on installing.
I had to reset most of them after installing the latest version of Safari over Chrome.
Orgasminator
Orgasminator
Having used the Chatrooms for many years now, I've started collecting those great on-line put-downs that appear from time-to-time, that make me chuckle.
Here's a few to get you going....
When we need a Director, we’ll get Spielberg thx.
Last time the Mrs saw something that small, she was giving birth.
M8ty, u couldn’t afford the platform ticket, let alone the ride.
In the event that I need an idiot, I’ll phone 118 118
For the idiots who can’t read a profile:- ..-. ..- -.-. -.- / --- ..-. ..-.
If you wank on cam, then you’re probably a complete wanker in real life.
We’re insured against ‘loss’. However, in your case we won’t be making a claim.
VWE? you truly are an optimist!
The only ‘fun’ to be found in here is watching you lot!
Here's a few to get you going....
When we need a Director, we’ll get Spielberg thx.
Last time the Mrs saw something that small, she was giving birth.
M8ty, u couldn’t afford the platform ticket, let alone the ride.
In the event that I need an idiot, I’ll phone 118 118
For the idiots who can’t read a profile:- ..-. ..- -.-. -.- / --- ..-. ..-.
If you wank on cam, then you’re probably a complete wanker in real life.
We’re insured against ‘loss’. However, in your case we won’t be making a claim.
VWE? you truly are an optimist!
The only ‘fun’ to be found in here is watching you lot!
Orgasminator
Quote by Jazzy-Smiler
how do you get multi room access ?
Select a room and then select "+join in new tab"
Orgasminator
Genuine chatters will always chat regardless of how many rooms they're in.
Cam watchers will always just clog up a room...
Although, I must admit to liking the multi-room access. I preferred them as separate windows rather than tabs, which made responding easier as I could see the chat side-by-side. Flipping through the 'tabs' between typing lines is a lot slower and in a fast moving room is almost impossible to keep up.
Cam watchers will always just clog up a room...
Although, I must admit to liking the multi-room access. I preferred them as separate windows rather than tabs, which made responding easier as I could see the chat side-by-side. Flipping through the 'tabs' between typing lines is a lot slower and in a fast moving room is almost impossible to keep up.
Orgasminator
Quote by Danne
im fed up of people who have mental health issues using the chat room as a way of getting sympathy and all the "im leaving" chat is a pain, just leave and get ur health sorted !
Well said Danne,
What the hell happened to Swinging, fun and having a laugh.... it seems to be in short supply these days.
Orgasminator
Quote by Ben_welshminx
Are we the only swingers in britain without a hot tub!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All invites accepted, inbox that way <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<.
Yep
But hey u got Yew Trees instead :boxing:
Orgasminator
Quote by tweeky
Out of interest do people have them inside or outside? Dont think You would fit one in here??:
We're in the 'outside' league.
