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Gufuncouple
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 68
Straight Female, 68
0 miles · Surrey

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Quote by starlightcouple
there was one guy but he faled to turn up as arranged. has anyone had any meats here?

We had some spam (mails) does that count? lol
On a more serious note. Yes, we've met loads of fellow SH'ers over the years % of which have been super people to know many of which we now classify as close friends.
Mrs Gu is almost exclusively a Chanel girl. Anything else tends to end up as a missile aimed at my head. lol
Me - I'm a Hugo Boss devotee. :thumbup:
Tillie,
Is this an 'academy' secondary school or an old fashioned 'state' one?
There is a difference in how they handle bullying.
As a School Govenor:-
State schools process is:-
The Anti-bullying policy (they must have one it's mandatory) is available on request to the school secretary (they may make a minimal charge for this).
In the 1st instance, the complaint should be made in writing to the Head Teacher / Principal (you should also .cc this to both the Chair of Govenors and the Local Education Authority Chief Executive).
Depending on the terms set out in the Policy, the school should provide a written acknowledgement of your compaint in 5-28 days.
Again depending on the terms in the policy, they should then respond officially within 2-6 weeks.
If you do not agree with the response, you can request that the Governors review the findings. Most Boards of Governors have an allocated Governor who Chair's any complaint reviews and logs the decision in the Governors meeting minutes.
Should you still feel agreeved, only at this point can you engage the LEA to investigate the incident via a neutral review panel and their decision is final.
If the bullying results in 'physical harm', then the Police should also be notified (at the time of the incident) as this may then lead to a prosecution for GBH/ABH or a restraining order issued. In these cases the Police Incident number should also be quoted in your letter to the school.
The Process for Academy's is slightly different and this should be detailed in their Bullying Policy as they do not have 'Governors' or the LEA and are directly controlled by the Dept of Education for escallation.
Quote by MartnJewl
What a truly awful idea. Am I right in assuming that the majority of winks are sent by basic members? Why not just give them a limited number of messages they can send each month. Might encourage them to pay for a standard membership if they know what's available if they pay and should cut down the number of unwanted winks.

They already do:-
Std Members = 20 winks per day
Extra's Members = 30 winks per day
You got what I said tit about arse Guffers. The non-paying basic member can only send winks, which I feel is where the majority come from. Why not give these members a handful of messages they can send a month instead of restricting them to winks, which the majority don't want.
Ops.. must learn to read and inwardly digest your prose Mart. lol
We get them from basic, standard and extra's members - but you're right it's usually the junior tits that send them :doh:
Quote by admin
We've now added a 'neither' option :thumbup:
Gufuncouple, I've opened the survey back out to you so you can take the survey if you wish to do so now.
Big_Fraser, I've changed your vote to neither.

Many thanks Admin's - done! lol
Quote by Lost
There's good and bad we can see in the wink function. Maybe one idea would be to have winks not be so generically crap and be able to personalise by having just 50 characters space to put your own spin on the wink, Or at least be able to put the members name on it rather than the one click no thought carpet bombing option/s?

You already can - but most people don't get as far as changing the default message in Wink Settings.
Quote by MartnJewl
What a truly awful idea. Am I right in assuming that the majority of winks are sent by basic members? Why not just give them a limited number of messages they can send each month. Might encourage them to pay for a standard membership if they know what's available if they pay and should cut down the number of unwanted winks.

They already do:-
Std Members = 20 winks per day
Extra's Members = 30 winks per day
What's a bus?...................dunno
Argh - Mrs Gu informs me they were withdrawn in 1928 due to a lack of passengers around here. lol
Have you looked outside - it's tipping down here with the associated sound & light show lol
How about the option to remove Winks complelty - now that gets my vote!
Winks or Wanks we don't want either appearing in our mailbox.
Dear Uncle bIoke,
We've been invited for a bbq on sat, should I have the bbq shrimp or the 48oz steak? And do you know should i have the Chardonny or the Merlot as I'd hate to make a spectacle of myself in mixed company...
Dear uncle BIoke,
Some want sensible answers to forum posts - what are we to do????
Yours,
Confused from Guildford.
Quote by Mike2mike
I hold both men in high regard for their respective qualities in turning up to socials with really hot chicks on their arms and driving high-performance Japanese sports cars at ridiculous speeds.
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It must be Woohoo who drives at ridiculously high-speed, I would never do such a thing....:scared: