Like many people, I've got a few different sides.

I'm naturally affectionate, tactile and attentive. If I really connect with someone, I like paying attention to the little things, finding out what makes them melt and giving them my full attention.

But there's another side too. More confident, more intense, a little darker, with some mischief and trouble thrown in. I'm told I have a strong presence. I like that point where something soft and playful can become a bit firmer and feral.

For me, the best connections are where there's enough trust to explore all of that together. Tender, intense, playful, provocative, whatever feels right between two people.

I'm pretty open minded and relaxed about it. Everyone's different, and half the fun is finding out what works between you... I enjoy tender missionary as much as something much more...

I split my time between Derbyshire, Sheffield (weekly) and London (monthly) and whether it is vanilla or not, I'm looking for something a little less ordinary x

For those that care, I'm 7" long and 5.5" girth, above average in both regards but not huge