Can you learn to be dominant? I do occasionally take that role but I will always change to submissive after a little while as I feel more comfortable with that.
I only got the experience with this from my current partner. In past relationships where I had asked to be spanked, tied up etc, they were always scared they'd hurt me too much, but they didn't mind me being bitey or scratchy!
It will be a lovely learning experience for you both though. :-)
Thanks!
Sorry for the lateness in reply but life gets in the way sometimes! You all seem great fun and I think we'll fit in just fine.
HI! Thanks for the welcome. Still a little nervous but I'm sure that will change!