i think a slut is someone who just sleeps with people for the sake of it. not because of the enjoyment or the attraction of it all.
i think its because young guys just find an older experienced woman a big turn on.
not that there is anything wrong with younger woman just something that most of us younger guys want to try.
its defintely the experience and because to me it seems kind of naughty which is a big turn on.
i think she just needs time to get herself sorted out, in my opinion its a cry for help.
good luck to her and hope she gets back to her old self.
not having actually had my first swinging experience i would like to think that i didnt get emotionally involved. I have a partner who i am very happy with and i have that special someone.
if it was going to get emotional and more complicated i would have to walk away.
guess we will have to see when it happens.
i have often wondered about some things i have posted but generally it wont come back to bite you.
if i was posting very explicit pictures of myself or with someone i would think twice.
generally though i am not too worried.
as said up above, i dont think its worth it really. dont mind who checks my profile and if they get in touch even better.
maybe as time goes on and i get to know a few people better on the site i may go for the extras.