HornyLittleBlonde's Forum Posts

12 Nov 2006

Quote by Kaisersose
Hi, we just signed up three days ago and we haven't mastered the forums yet. How do we get a small picture to go under our names on the left hand side when we post messages on the forum?
Do you have to be a site moderator for that?

If you go to "My Settings" then select "Forum Settings" you can select an avatarfor your forum pic.
:thumbup:

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12 Nov 2006

I often find this is a problem when I'm out and dancing.
Luckily I have a male vanilla friend who alerts me to this by shouting "spirit level" at me redface

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11 Nov 2006

Quote by sLeeper

I'd take the logical approach that if they've looked but haven't contacted us they're not interested. Regardless of the reason they'd looked.

dose that meen every time i look at a profile i have to pm them ....bloody hell i'm going to need a secutery lol

Not at all. You may just like perving their profile.
But if you'd looked at their profile and you did want to meet them I'm presuming that you would send a pm?

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11 Nov 2006

Quote by Juniper_couple
Well - Mr Juniper kinda knows my shoes :twisted: so when i say "had em ages" he now laughs at me Now he has bought me some lovely shoe boxes (clear plastic) they all sit nicely piled and i can find both shoes at once

Bloody genuis!!!! worship

off to go point dammie in the direction of this thread :happy:

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11 Nov 2006

Quote by hornyinslough
I have set my profile to kick back winks and send an automated response on receipt of a wink, as follows :
hornyinslough wrote:
Whilst I love the attention I prefer a real mail to a wink, please take a few minutes to make sure that you have read my profile and then why not drop me a personalised message if you think we are looking for the same things..

I have recently received two eager PM's thanking me for my message and they're glad I'm interested dunno

Is it not obvious that this is an auto message or do peeps just see the 're:' in the subject line and think ' someone's replied!!' :shock:
Any chance of including 'this is an automated response' in the standard kick backs pls? lol

I couldn't agree with you more. :thumbup:
It was suggested when the winks were introduced. Have a read of this
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopicpage/88352/20.html

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11 Nov 2006

I don't think it's particularly intrusive, but people shouldn't take it to seriously.
I can see Polo's case for it being misleading in that there are various reasons for looking at someone's ad/profile, but then again if someone's looked and hasn't contacted you then doesn't that tell you something? dunno

I'd take the logical approach that if they've looked but haven't contacted us they're not interested. Regardless of the reason they'd looked.

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10 Nov 2006

Quote by PoloLady
OK - so let me get this right....
I can invite a guy or two around here and let them go on cam and watch everyone else on cam in the chatroom - even though they may not be a member - and as long as they don't break the rules it is OK?

Glad you said that.
I remember we had a similar post (shaz n tony I think) and they were told that non members aren't allowed to go on cam for the reasons you've just stated.

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10 Nov 2006

Quote by essex34m

when I finally plucked up the courage to start posting I felt at home very quickly.

and now we cant shut you up
flipa

Essex_chav_wide_tart wink

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10 Nov 2006

For my sweetheart. :inlove:
There you go
Flashing fever from your eyes
Hey babe
Come over here and shut them tight
I'm not denying
We're flying above it all
Hold my hand
Don't let me fall
You've such amazing grace
I've never felt this way
Oh, show me heaven, cover me
Leave me breathless
Oh, show me heaven please
Here I go
I'm shaking just like the breeze
Hey babe
I need your head to steady me
I'm not denying
I'm frightened a much as you
Though I'm barely touching you
I've shivers down my spine, and it feels divine
Oh, show me heaven, cover me
Leave me breathless
Oh, show me heaven please
Do you know what it's like to dream a dream
Baby hold me tight and let this be
Oh, show me heaven, cover me
Leave me breathless
Oh, show me heaven please

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10 Nov 2006

Louise
I think this part of your quote sums it up really

Quote by louise_and_joe
Weve not been here too long, but i already dont feel like a newbie anymore. For me its a mixture of things, had a few meets, feel welcomed into the forum and got a social coming up ( cant wait ) :thrilled: .
Louise xx

I think it's a decision you make yourself, when you feel "at home"
When I first joined here, I lurked for quite a while, but when I finally plucked up the courage to start posting I felt at home very quickly.
Having siad that, the forum had a different feel back then. lol

Hope you enjoy your first social. Come back and tell us how you got on (said in best Cilla voice)

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6 Nov 2006

Quote by 36openminded
Based on posts I've seen here - it seems some people have had abuse when they have replied with 'no thanks'. Also some feel that the person posting hasn't even read their profile (i.e. male sending posts to a gay female).
It's easy for me to reply to everything I get as I get hardly anything - but if I had 10 mails to reply to everyday and if a small number abused me when I did reply or a small percentage clearly hadn't read my profile then I too would stop replying to all of them.

:thumbup:
Spot on. Except for some of the females get more than 100 a day :shock:

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6 Nov 2006

Nice one Sercher. :thumbup:
However I do believe that you've been slightly selfish here and held a few of your personal top tips back to keep your edge.
In the interests of fairness, I'm going to reveal 2 of Sercher's secrets
Sercher's secrets No.1 - it helps to have a massive weapon

bolt

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5 Nov 2006

Could you send me the hotel list please?

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5 Nov 2006

Kaz
I have to say I think the theme is pure genius. :happy:
Just so we're clear, will there be an award for the biggest hair? lol

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5 Nov 2006

Quote by littlemee
Well, after hours of exhaustive research I reckon HLB (& presumably Dammie) have the funniest picture with their "Swinger Lane" snap.

Littlemee
It's a shame dammie took our "circus boobies" video down because that wasn't so much funny as bloody hilarious (even if I do say so myself) redface

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5 Nov 2006

:welcome: to the forum.
Firstly I would bear in mind the number of single guys there are in this site.
If you went into a pub and there were 150 guys & 3 women, it's a preyty safe bet that not all the guys are going to get a shag that night.
The site has a number of ways for people to get noticed e.g. ads, chatroom, forum & site munches & social events, but the reality is there are always going to be more men looking than there are females or couples.
If you're willing to stick with it & put the effort in then great. If you're looking to just get laid in the next week by sending out a few dozen emails/pms this may not be the best place to find it.
Hope that helps.

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4 Nov 2006

Quote by sLeeper
OMG am I seeing things
Sir lee xx

not any more xxxxxx
nice to be back
wave

Sexy
Did you have a good holiday?
Anyone frustrated yet? lol

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2 Nov 2006

Quote by the_Laird
Only two more to go on mine

:happy:
Dawnie, do you think you could put up a public service announcement when the Laird's new pics are approved.
I think there might be a few people who might find this information of interest innocent

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2 Nov 2006

Quote by splendid33
Perhaps I should just mention in my defence, there is a pic of me on the profile, you just need an invite to view it.

where is my invite??????? :shock:
And mine.
I even asked for an invite and he still won't let me in lol

Just because I've met you doesn't mean I don't want to perv refresh my memory innocent

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2 Nov 2006

Most people do the odd bit of flirting and I thinkthat's only natural.
However it can be annoying when the same people do it in numerous threads saying exactly the same things.
Some threads are good for flirting e.g. The GFZ, but if there's a serious debates going on then a flirt hijack can sometimes come across as a bit rude (just like interrupting a conversation).
I personally would like to see a little bit more of a balance i.e. keeping the majority of the flirting in the flirt threads and the majority of the discussions in the discussion threads.
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31 Oct 2006

Quote by tattyxpx
just so I can keep up what is DPA please ??

Data Protection Act
btw Good to see you in here kiss

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31 Oct 2006

Quote by da69ve
As the mods are privy to the reasons why people are banned,then we must take their word for the reasons of the ban,As many are aware this a certain ex-member was one of the reasons for the current rule set up on SH..if i remember correctly threatening members with violence and disrupting munches and socials was his Mod team decided for the safety of the members of this site to bring in this new rule...

Whilst I am aware of this and as I said I understand the reasons totally, if the result is people inviting this person anyway, but keeping it secret, aren't people in more danger.
At least if I know that person is on the list and I don't feel comfortable in their company I can choose not to go.
It's alright banning people afterwards, but by then the damage could be done :shock:

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31 Oct 2006

Quote by Kiss
People don't always know what goes on behind 'closed doors' and why a person has been banned.
Maybe the site owners felt that this rule would add an extra incentive to behave on the site otherwise be forcibly ostracised from social events etc. In reality it may lead to secrets and people worrying if the guest list is the real guest list and who they may bump into. Inadvertedly the 'victim' (if there is one) may end up being the one who is unable to attend.

You managed to put it inot words much better than me kiss

Quote by Medic_1
Clarification is needed, Not from Room Op's or Mods but from You the owners of the site.
I will now await my roasting.
Phredd

I'm not sure the admin would/should.
This rule was brought into effect by the Mods and as munches are the only "site santioned" events, would the admin want/need to be involved?
I do think you (and others) have a point regarding the type of ban though.
When this rule was written, you were either banned or you weren't and if you were banned there was a very serious reason and hence why it was introduced.
Now we have different "levels" of banning, which makes the whole situation a lot more ambiguous.

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31 Oct 2006

I can understand the thinking behind the current rules regarding banned members, but I do have my concerns about them.
I know there have been socials/parties organised on here where banned members have attended, but this was kept quiet so the organiser didn't get banned.
The danger of this is that one of these days someone who is a serious threat to another will be attending the same event/party without their knowledge.
Personally I would prefer a rule that allow people to invite banned members to their social/party as long as they disclosed that a banned member would/could/might attend.
That way the organiser can choose who to invite but the guest can make an informed decision as to whether they are comfortable attending

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28 Oct 2006

Quote by Sarah
Ok
New day, new chapter
So it is decorating day
Paints at the ready
Brushes at the ready
A make over of SH Towers is about to start!
Need someone good with fabric and fluffy other type stuff to do the finishing touches
We have till Sunday night to achieve a full make over

That reminds me. I have to rolls of white paper for you and I still have your bag of random sparkly stuff : biggrin

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26 Oct 2006

Happy Birthday Vicky kiss

I'm sure you'll have a wonderful day and Bazza will spoilt you rotten :thumbup:

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21 Oct 2006

I am sooo pleased for you both :happy:
You are two of the nicest people it's ever been my pleasure to meet and I wish you all the best for the future kiss

btw Will we be celebrating with chocolates? biggrin

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18 Oct 2006

Mrs Felix
:welcome: to SH wink

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15 Oct 2006

Quote by dambuster

Sarah
I think we might need to start digging last years pics out

Or do some new ones cool

:bounce:
Sarah, do you still have the "mountain climbing" Santa & Reindeer decorations?

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15 Oct 2006

Quote by Sarah
H suggested a 'theme' for the girls night in. As we're Xmas shopping in the daytime, who's up for a Crimbo photo shoot then?
Bring your cossies, I'll help you (un)dress :twisted:

cossies cossies lol

Not naked then????
off to the loft on a hunt
:twisted:
Sarah
I think we might need to start digging last years pics out biggrin

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