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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 66
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Quote by wild rose and the stag
stranger still when i pointed it out to him that the drop from the window behind him was quite severe he only charged me like he was charging everyone else
oh poor horny little chocolate starfish got well and truly fucked by the barman after all and never realised it
Yeah well when he asked for my number I gave him yours
Quote by hisandhers
This is really interesting as we are organising a munch for the first time & haven't thought about this.what to do now? Maybe just one of the regulars should be in charge of a camera & with permission of others take some pics. We then would know exactly who has them instead of everyone clicking all night instead of :smoke: :beer: :happy:
Trouble with that is, are you then going to ask people not to bring mobile phones and frisk them on the way in?
Ooh there's a thought - frisking :rascal: HLB wonders off to find some hunky door volunteers.
Disclaimer: That last bit was a joke
Quote by mdr2000
Have I missed something here?? As far as I know nothing too raunchy happens at a munch as such anyway.... surely not alot of difference to being in the background when in a normal bar or on holiday even!! I don't mind as such.....
Unless they were posted on this site as "photos from the munch" then anyone viewing the site could effectively see them.
Now again munches are a site organised event where everyone is vouched for and if anyone does have a camera, the usual practice is.
1) You ask permission of the people you are photographing.
2) You send a copy to the people in the pic if they so wish it.
3) If you are going to post them on the site, you pm them to ask permission and also check if they want their faces or any distinguishing features blurring e.g. tattoos.
4) If you can't identify people in the background, you crop the picture to edit them out or blur them out.
As others have said, there may be a minority 1% who wouldn't do this, but I don't necessarily think this would solve the problem.
If someone intentionally wanted to take pics without others knowledge, it would be very easily to hide a mobile phone with a camera on and do it discretely.
I think we all have a responsibility to be vigilent of such behaviour at munches or any event (sexual or social).
Quote by wild rose and the stag
1 more thing.
Marcuso - thanks for asking all the ladies to go frighten the new young barman.
It kind of backfired when he turned round and said he "really liked me". :shock:
I thought swingers were supposed to scare vanillas not the other way round :doh:
he scared the fuck out of me when he tried to charge me for a bottle of strongbow :shock:
staggy
How strange. My cider only cost me
Quote by ukswingingcpl
we are a cpl ner Chesterfield and would love to have a invite
best wishers
Nick and Tina
Hiya
As your new to the forum I'll put you on the provisional list for the time being, but if you are know to any of the regular forum or chatroom users, please pm me.
Quote by Sharif
Can little old me attend please
I'm sure we can find room for a little one
Quote by neilinleeds
there's two seperate questions in this thread i think?
the guy who says "why don't i get any replies?" with no profile and no ad the answer is obvious. even i could work that one out?
the lack of a profile in other circumstances is different though, IMO? if i had a profile, with all the boxes filled in, it might suggest to others that i was looking for contacts from people who'd simply done a quick search, or been pointed to my profile, and matched up their boxes with mine, and that's not what i want?
it would be misleading of me to use the profiles / ad system, cos that's not the way i do things? nowt to do with me trying to mislead others???
neil x x x ;)
That's exactly what I was trying to say, but you seemed to do it so much better :thumbup:
Hiya Sarumen :welcome: to the forum.
Good advice given above, but just wanted to give you a little insight into the female mind and how words get translated in our brains (well in mine anyway).
Anything Considered = I'm really desperate
No sick stuff = I'm really ignorant
If you're going to put an ad up hasve a think about what you want and what you're looking for.
If you were going to sell your car in a magazine would you put "Car for sale. Any price taken"? I doubt it.
Don't sell yourself short hun :thumbup:
Good advice given above, but just wanted to give you a little insight into the female mind and how words get translated in our brains (well in mine anyway).
Anything Considered = I'm really desperate
No sick stuff = I'm really ignorant
If you're going to put an ad up hasve a think about what you want and what you're looking for.
If you were going to sell your car in a magazine would you put "Car for sale. Any price taken"? I doubt it.
Don't sell yourself short hun :thumbup:
Quote by couple_ne2000
Sorry to hear that Dammie and I hope they manage to find a suitable course of treatment soon. Have you been tested for EBV IgG and IgM as the Eptien Barr Virus (glandular fever) is a common cause of this condition.
Les x
That's interesting Les
We were told that the cause is bacterial and not viral, but a month before he was ill I was off work with a throat & ear infection and I have have gladular fever as a teenager.
Would seem rather apt if it was down to "The Kissing Disease"
Quote by lets_kiss
OK just wanna apologise one more time. So here it is in as many different languages & greetings card too. :inlove:
Lets_Kiss the first thing I have to say is stop apologising, really. You have absolutely nothing to apologise for.
Reading your posts on here suggests a lack of self esteem and confidence. Have a little more faith in yourself.
If you say something others don't like, it doesn't make you a bad person it just means you have different points of view.
As for your original question, yes looks are inmportant to me - that doesn't mean I only want to swing with people who look like Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie it just means I have to find them attractive and have some kind of chemistry with them.
I know there are people who have the "every hole's a goal" approach and if that's what they want that's their choice and their business.
Personally there are 3 traits that turn me off completely - poor hygiene, bad manners and desperation. If anyone falls into any of those categories then I simply choose not to swing with them. My life my choice and I wouldn't feel the need to defend it or justify it.
Have the courage of you conviction and don't worry about what others do or think. :thumbup:
In edit:
If you don't like the unwelcome attention from single guys at the club you go to, have you considered going on a Couples & single fems only night?
Happy Birthday Naughty Nymphos!!!
Thanks to Marcusofor organising another wonderful evening and a special thanks to our chauffeurs aka Darkfireand WRATS
It was nice to see so many familiar faces as well as some of the newer munches.
I'll be back to post a bit more once my Brain has been fully refuelled with caffeine
Thanks to Marcusofor organising another wonderful evening and a special thanks to our chauffeurs aka Darkfireand WRATS
It was nice to see so many familiar faces as well as some of the newer munches.
I'll be back to post a bit more once my Brain has been fully refuelled with caffeine
Fully agree.
I know a lot of people choose not to fill out their profiles or have ads as they don't wish to be contacted by random people and that's fine.
But if somebody is actively looking to meet people it certainly helps to give as much information about yourself and what you're looking for.
You often see people post here that they've been unsuccessful and asking advice on the forum and the advice given is quite similar to what you've said.
I don't think it's just single guys that do this though
I know a lot of people choose not to fill out their profiles or have ads as they don't wish to be contacted by random people and that's fine.
But if somebody is actively looking to meet people it certainly helps to give as much information about yourself and what you're looking for.
You often see people post here that they've been unsuccessful and asking advice on the forum and the advice given is quite similar to what you've said.
I don't think it's just single guys that do this though
Quote by dambuster
I'm sure I've seen that wanker somewhere before :shock:
Does that mean the hand has been verified?
The hand should do well on this site - it's attractive and has been verified as not being a time waster and has good pics not full of exposed digits
I want to meet the hand :happy:
Quote by Jags
Panic set in.
I've just been to the bathroom to check my dangly bits and they are in the correct place for being a woman.
<phew>
Deffo a female with all bits intact and working. OK.. most heading south and swaying in the breeze but not yet rusty!
Best laugh of today - apart from HLB's PM that is.
Well I've met you and you looked very much like a woman to me - unless your a bloody convincing tranny
Quote by Hillfolk
No have not flounced or taken ball home. I was trying to take a mature and adult approach by recognising that I was dealing with SH sycophants and that further reasoned, dispassionate discourse was futile. However Jags could not resist his childish parting shots which says more about him than any more crossing swords could say.
And how did we all know that one was coming?
Hillfolk you are really becoming quite predictable...
1) You post a moan
2) Someone posts a perfectly adult response that is contrary to your own view point.
3) You accuse people of being childish or sycophantic just because they don't agree with you.
You've moaned about the site being down - yes it has, but that's something only the admin can answer.
You've moaned about the rules on pics not being clear.
People have posted the section of the AUP that relates to this.
I fail to see how this is being childish - the only person who does seem like they are throwing their toys out of the pram is you!!!!
Quote by Hillfolk
The posting of pictures on any part of the Swinging Heaven site that you do not have copyright, or posting pictures that are fake, a joke or don't actually contain any part of you in them, or worse, that include a third party without their consent. Photos will be deleted if they contain any of the following: Anyone who looks under the age of 18. Anyone with children shown in photographs. Postage stamp size pictures. Pictures with email address's or other contact details on. Pictures that are not on topic, eg popstars, cartoons etc. Anything that seems to be too obscene for this site. In addition photographs uploaded for photo ads will be deleted if they show people & animals.
Perhaps a re-read is in order, before crying for a re-write
And, yep ..........................................
That's db defending SH 2006 and4T
:shock:
Yes read that. Where have I transgressed then?
Erm well that would be here:
Quote by Hillfolk
This idea about pictures with third parties in them is a new one on me and needs clear definition . There is nothing in the AUP about it or is it another spurious one made up on the fly. After all you can alter the AUP anytime you want according to the rules.
Now everyone knows I speak out when I don't like somethink on this site but I think that's a clear definition and quite a reasonable one at that.
may I pm you about this please?To be honest Pete I can't think of one that goes from the South, but even if it did the reality is it would probably take even longer.
If flying isn't an option I'd suggest driving up to Hollyhead and getting an overnight ferry so you get get some kip in a cabin to break your journey up a bit.
Our thoughts are with you :therethere:
If flying isn't an option I'd suggest driving up to Hollyhead and getting an overnight ferry so you get get some kip in a cabin to break your journey up a bit.
Our thoughts are with you :therethere:
