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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 66
0 miles · Derbyshire

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Quote by Hillfolk
without these so called free members who are paying nothing this site would not have been worth having, as there would have been no members here.
no one held a gun to your head and made you pay? i understand its free to join and take a look around and then make the desision to part with your money?? or not.
the extras lounge is for those who have paid for the extras membership.
the stealth cammimg idea was reviewed and the desision was taken to remove that aspect, rightly so. Im sure most members are pleased that this happened as alot of people felt more comfortable with gooing on cam again.
xx lou xxx

.... So what's you point Lou?
I think the point's pretty clear. The majority of people here joined a free site set up and run by swingers.
The site was sold to a company who made it into a pay site. As a result some members have already left and set up a free site of their own. Most of the old members use both sites.
Now the admin aare here to make a profit and they didn't just give us a year for free out of the goodness of their hearts.
In order for the dite to be worth the money new members are paying they need a large membership to attract Swingers. The reality is if the old members had to pay from the offset, they would have left in droves.
If when you originally joined the site, the forum and chatrooms were empty and there were hardly any ads, would you have parted with your hard earned cash? dunno
I don't think you're doing anything particularly wrong - just having a run of bad luck.
As for the "meet for drinks and see what happens", I think that's sensible. Like others have said, would you really want to guarantee a shag with somebody you haven't actually met?
If you're specifically looking for a guy to go with a club with you, why not look for guys who are already members? If they're already a member at least you know they do actually go to the club and they're probably more likely to turn up.
No I definitely couldn't do it.
As a side issue I once played with a female off this site before I'd met her husband. There was a possibility of us all playing together - that is until I met him.
If anyone remembers the cult series Twin Peaks - he was the spitting of the killer :shock:
I was supposed to be staying over at their house 1 night and there was just no way. I felt like some dumb blonde in a horror movie :scared:
We'll definitely be there this afternoon.
Not sure about the evening as I tend to turn into a pumpkin after midnight :shock:
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:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
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I've heard sooo much about this peachy, perfectly rounded bum I'm rather looking forward to a feel myself :twisted:
Quote by dambuster
I can view (letch) profiles, but ................................................
I've lost the letch count from my homepage

He's been like this ever since he got that bloody wink rolleyes
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Quote by Jags
Which is why the name is not suitable, appropriate or relevant.
6 Tops doesn't have the same ring to it!!
redface

And The Southampton Six makes them sound like a bunch of bank robbers :giggle:
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Quote by Noel
I do believe it's Elliots round.

In that case I'll have a dry white wine.
Oh and Elliot, do make sure it's chilled!
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Quote by lilnfil
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whats the weather like at loch baghasdail this morning lol
fil

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It's lovely and sunny, which is good, bacause the cold weather starts to hurt when you're 108 like me wink
Quote by lilnfil
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whats the weather like at loch baghasdail this morning lol
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It's gorgeous and sunny, which is a good job because when you're 108 you really suffer in cold weather wink
Quote by rolo
i agree what is the point in joining sh and not putting any ads or pics or profiles it is so annoying when u are chatting to someone then u look in ther profile and nothing is there its bloody annoying maybe there just perverts lol wink

Emergency!!!
Please leave the forum by the nearest fire exit if you don't use the ads.
Do not run down the corridors, but move quickly and don't stop to collect you belongings!
Rolo's arrived and shown us that there's no point in us being here.

Yep.
There's no point anyone signing up to swinging heaven, unless they're using it for the exact same reason and in the exact same way as Rolo.
And to all those who have been doing it wrong all these years, please thank Rolo for showing you the light and how not to be perverts
I'm sure if all the doggers, club only swingers and those that don't want to receive loads of crap 1 liners as a result of having an ad realised that their lack of information caused you such personal annoyance, they'd have filled out their profiles and ads ages ago. rolleyes
Quote by dambuster
How to become a Mod ?
as far as i remember - it used to that you needed to shag Mark, or at the very least, 2 senior Mods.
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What if you don't want to be a Mod but you do want to shag them?
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Quote by melons45
No Pics. No Ads. No Profile. Someone please explain whats the point ......

Quote by bikerchick21
you should have the profile filled out completley before sending msgs or using the forum and chat

There are many reasons for this. Here are a few I can think of.
People who don't meet people from the site and just Swing in clubs
Those interested in swinging and just dipping their toe in
Those people sick of cock shots, I line pms & winks
Those protective of their identify and personal information
One of the things I love about swinging is the respect of people's boundaries.
For me this is not just sexual boundaries but also respecting the information people wish to share.
As with the act of swinging itself nobody should be forced or expected to provide information just because other wish them to.
Tolerence, Understanding, Respect
Quote by davej
Am I missing something here? dunno
Last time I checked (that'll be last night then) the mods looked after the forum and the chatroom ops looked after (yes you've guessed it) the chatroom.
Now I understand that people get frustrated and need to let off steam - god knows I do it often enough lol but I have to ask, If I came into one of the chatrooms while you were watching a couple on cam, and started moaning that a mod had locked my thread in the forum, what would you say to me?

based on the original gripe.......show me yer bum wink
Already have! It's on my avatar flipa
Quote by da69ve
Perhaps us regular users should all go over the chatrooms and start having a whinge about the forums!! lol

Da69ve
I was sooo tempted to do that once. It was one of those days just after the new chatroom was up and running and there were 6 threads on page 1 of the forum moaning about it.
When a guy went and posted number 7 I started to think about it seriously. I can just imagine a load of people in chat thinking WTF???? lol
Am I missing something here? dunno
Last time I checked (that'll be last night then) the mods looked after the forum and the chatroom ops looked after (yes you've guessed it) the chatroom.
Now I understand that people get frustrated and need to let off steam - god knows I do it often enough lol but I have to ask, If I came into one of the chatrooms while you were watching a couple on cam, and started moaning that a mod had locked my thread in the forum, what would you say to me?
Quote by mistress_sassy
When you decide a date can I come too please?
If its Manchester then let me know - I can advise on venues and even over space for some to stay over, well depneding on the date and If I'm here! lol lol

Does that mean you're going to become an honorary member of the Midlands trollops too? lol
Basically
The 'puters have turned us into human duracel, but have given us a nice film to watch and star in to stop us getting bored whilst we're living are lives in a cocoon of red goo.
And it also stops us realising we are human duracel just sitting in red goo.
The 'puter geeks and a good looking guy and girl escape from the red goo and take on the mean and nasty 'puter people in the hope that everyone can live like normal and not have to sit in the red goo all day.
Hope that helps Jags kiss
Quote by miss
can someone pm me I want to come

Yeay another Derbyshire girly. :happy:
I'd be happy to pm you what's happening miss - just as soon as someone tells me lol
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Can we put our names down also please as a 90% chance of comming?
We really want to come but have to sort out the babysitter and hotels ect first
Shaz x

Hiya you two. I've sent you a pm
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I understand you're p**sed off (trust me nobody hates the winks more than me).
But there are so many different threads about this it's easier to try and keep them all in one place.
If you do a search and post your complaints in the main wink thread, you'll be perfectly entitled to your opinion (as long as it's within the AUP) and you won't be alone :therethere:
Go to the post you want to quote and click the quote button in the top right corner.
Have a practice and try & quote this
Quote by da69ve
I did that under our other username that we use for our ad as a couple forgot i was still logged on under it....rather than my more well known username!.....but you quoted before i edited it! redface

Ahh so dammie and I aren't the only one's with alter ego's lol
Remind me to pm you if we do another masquerade wink
Quote by londoncouple69
May God have mercy on the people of the area....where ever you go!! bolt

smackbottom
We'll be good - honest
Quote by sussexguy
You know it's not right when you get to a couple's house and they tell you......
The kids are asleep, there's beer and food in the fridge and we'll be back about 2am

You know it's not right when
He invites you round to his place for a special night for 2 and tells you he wants to share something meaningful in his life with you..
And it turns out you'll be watching "The road to The Valley - The Charlton Athletic Story" :doh: