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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
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DarkfireYes I/we meet people
I joined this site as a single but am now part of a couple.
I have never had an ad on this site and have always met people through the social events here or by arranging meets with people I've met through the forum.
The main reasons for this is are:
a) as a female I tend to get pm'd a lot from people I don't know even without and ad - I dread to think I'd get if I did have 1.
b) There are so many people in the ads posing as something they're not. Why spend time sending emails back & forth trying to find out if someone is genuine..
c) Time wasters/people I dont connect with - why travel for miles for a meet that might not show, is nothing like they said they would be, I just don't get on with now I've met them?
d) As a single female I never really liked the idea of going to a meet on my own
Meeting through social events allowed me to get to know who people were in a non pressurised safe environment.
Not everyone's preferred way to use this site but it's certainly mine
I joined this site as a single but am now part of a couple.
I have never had an ad on this site and have always met people through the social events here or by arranging meets with people I've met through the forum.
The main reasons for this is are:
a) as a female I tend to get pm'd a lot from people I don't know even without and ad - I dread to think I'd get if I did have 1.
b) There are so many people in the ads posing as something they're not. Why spend time sending emails back & forth trying to find out if someone is genuine..
c) Time wasters/people I dont connect with - why travel for miles for a meet that might not show, is nothing like they said they would be, I just don't get on with now I've met them?
d) As a single female I never really liked the idea of going to a meet on my own
Meeting through social events allowed me to get to know who people were in a non pressurised safe environment.
Not everyone's preferred way to use this site but it's certainly mine
Quote by dracae
Morning Folks
Could I get a cup of coffee and a few slices of toast please?
hi HLB.................try todays special................just what ye need after a period of ilness
hope you're proper well now
:shock:
I was feeling a bit better till I saw that.
I think I'll stick with my coffee & toast if it's all the same
Funnily enough you got the directors cut.
I was going to post
You're a genius - a geek but genius.
I know you've just walked in here and been the voice of reason, but you can't blame a girl for wanting to take piss.
And besides - if I made you sound too great you'd end up with more spam mail than Dawnie :giggle:
I was going to post
You're a genius - a geek but genius.
I know you've just walked in here and been the voice of reason, but you can't blame a girl for wanting to take piss.
And besides - if I made you sound too great you'd end up with more spam mail than Dawnie :giggle:
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im a long standing member and i dont think ive used it that much.............. if i was a newbie i would be put off by the certified by so & so and wotsit blah blah........... why is the certification there......... newbies are put off by it. it says there is a clique when there isnt.
Who cares who is certified by who, do we need certifying..... do new people need to feel they need to be certified????
: when i joined i saw certification as part of the fun and banter and didn't find it off puttingat all.
I agree.
I think if the certification thing was limited then it would become clicky.
It was orignally brought up in a p*** take thread and has remained as such.
Only last week Sarah did a "who needs certifying thread" and this was open to all and many newer members were certified for completed silly things.
When it's done in this way it actually has the effect of drawing people into the community IMHO
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im a long standing member and i dont think ive used it that much.............. if i was a newbie i would be put off by the certified by so & so and wotsit blah blah........... why is the certification there......... newbies are put off by it. it says there is a clique when there isnt.
Who cares who is certified by who, do we need certifying..... do new people need to feel they need to be certified????
You do have a point there although I've never actually thought of it like that
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as a newbie it has help me know end to get talking to you guys (bit shy really
so its a good thing i can take complete bollaxs and not feel an idiot(unless i am having a w**K)
that post made me cringe............. the site wasnt about having a wank in Oct 03
Whereas as that's not off putting to a newbie at all
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I cant be blamed for the sites echo.............. call on the four tops about that............. yawn, bedtime i think
Thanks for coming :thumbup:
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Yep, agree with HLB damn good post Pete and not a lot I would argue with. :thumbup:
My thoughts on these type of threads and the GFZ are well known, can't abide em, but I can see that folk get a bit of fun out of them, hence I don't even bother having a peek through the crack in the door.
Me & you both DaveJ - althoug I do like to have a peek every now & then, but thats because I'm a nosey bleeda
On a practical point though I think it's a thread that needs quite a few members on line for it to work and that's probably why there weren't many posts when it opened early today.
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