Hi there, I'm a 30 year old white male living in the Midlands. I'm 6ft 1ins tall and weigh about 16 stones. I'm quite fit - I play rugby - and the weight is very solid.

I'm divorced, about 5 years ago, with no children and no ties.

I run my own very succesful business in financial services - this keeps me really busy and very happy and fulfilled - in most respects!

I have no time for an intense 24/7 live-in relationship. I have my own life and interests and I want to keep them, not become absorbed into an amorphous 'couple' with no real individual identity. I hope that makes sense.

Instead, I would like to meet women who similarly have their own lives and interests for meetings which could involve meals out, pubs, clubs and lots of sex.

Although in life I am generally an assertive person, I am sexually quite submissive. I am therefore attracted to women who are sexually assertive or dominant. I don't like extreme pain or BDSM but am happy to experiment with other forms of lighter BDSM or role play. This isn't the only thing that rocks my boat and I do not have a one-track sex life, but it is something that definitely turns me on.

Physically, I am attracted to larger women (I love curves and am definitely a 'boob' man). Conventional beauty is not important to me but taking care of your appearance IS. Women who dress well and look good when they go out will always catch my eye. I also tend to be attracted to women older than me, but this is more about state of mind (confident, assertive and in control) rather than physical age.

Anyway, if you haven't got completely bored by the above, please drop me a line.