Male: I love watching my wife getting fucked by another man that is turned on by her, or her being turned on by another man and her trying to turn him on so he fucks her. I love seeing, and letting or arranging, her getting sexual pleasure . The flushed look of ecstasy on her face is worth it all.

Female: I love straight no nonsense sex. Cock in pussy as intended. Don't mind sucking cock first. You showing you want me with an erection makes me wet, then you can put it in. Simple. Just make sure I know you want me. And it turns me on so much my husband wants me to get this attention too.