I’m a mature lady who’s had a ‘traditional’ sex life. My husband feels he is “running out of steam” but wants me to enjoy myself. I am interested to hear from other mature women about their experiences with ‘swinging’, to find out if I’m likely to enjoy this activity after the initial embarrassment and obviously, as a woman, I need some reassurance that I will be desirable to men and, (this is naughty) to other women. Izzi.