Only basic member for now, so limited messages. I may upgrade if I like the site.

Been off the site for sometime. Just Jack here at present.

Our circumstances have changed. Sometime ago Diane told me that sex was no longer important to her and that she no longer wanted any sexual involvement. We have not been intimate sice then.

It was solely her decision and came out if the blue for me. I've tried to talk about it with her a few times since but she says her mind is made up.

My issue is I dont believe that she is no longer a sexual being as I have heard her pleasure herself in the shower so I know the flame is not extinguisher complely

I will add that I have no reason to believe she is "getting it elsewhere" ... I could be wrong. but I don't think so.

I am looking for advice from men, couples who have been or are in a similar situation.