Thanks to you all for your nice comments and your criticism. Everything I said was true. I discovered who and what I am too late. Since then I have absolutely been having my cake and eating it.
I defy any man in my position to deny himself the pleasures of a wonderful family life combined with another life of pure unadulterated hedonism.
I came on this site because swinging is an integral part of what I am looking for.
I will retire gracefully now and shelter from the firestorm my post created.
Good luck to you all
All the best
JD xx