high sex drive, no where to dispense it. Looking for ways to do so

I am a black guy.....

I am slowly completing my profile. So things will change as I go along. But my basic rule. My profession requires I be discreet. So I only want to engage in people that know the real meaning. I dont like drama and don't want to be involved in any drama. If you got issues in your life, try deal with it. Getting to know each other a bit is essential. I can do a short term engagement or a long term. I am not looking for some ridiculous desires. I just want fun (kinky but not some beastiality nonsense) and safe play. 

Generally I'm soft spoken. Don't like to make myself noticeable. My life is not in turmoil, just got a thing of wanting to enjoy other ladies. I'm no Casanova, so dont be expecting me to swoop you/your wife or whomever with words. I can hold a conversation on any level. Im respectful, not just writing it. The rest I leave for us to discuss as we go along.