Mature and experienced married man. Happy relationship but without a physical element for a long time. Now seeking to share those physical pleasures on a no strings basis. Well educated, intelligent and with a good sense of humour I am generally considered to be good fun and good company. Average build, I keep myself fit with regular exercise. No extravagant claims about looks, but I have been told I am attractive and that is something you will have to judge for yourself. Facial shots in private pictures (when I get them uploaded!).

I don't seek one-night stands as something more lasting is always more satisfactory. But I have enjoyed a one-off in the past so don't rule it out. Just embarking on the party scene but would prefer to have a regular partner for those. Equally happy with one-to-one.

I would describe myself as adventurous but not outrageous and am open to new experiences and ideas.

I prefer the slow and sensuous to the fast and furious, but the latter has its place at the right time! I have a dominant side which I have found it interesting to explore but I am not interested in extremes or cruelty. I have a bit of an interest in Japanese rope bondage.

I believe mutual respect and communication are essential and safety is of the utmost importance. I understand the need to listen to my partner (with eyes and mind as well as ears) to understand her wants and needs and to respect and meet them. There will be times when all that is wanted is a hug and reassurance, at other times something wilder!

I work away from home in London during the week where I can accommodate in my centrally located flat near Waterloo but I am also prepared to travel within reason. My working hours are flexible and though I don't have a great deal of availability it can be at flexible times, daytime as well as evenings and nights.

I am completely straight sexually but not prejudiced! I have experienced very pleasant times with a lesbian couple (of whom one was slightly bi) in the past. I generally dress smartly but have a relaxed outlook on life!