Well..

I've actually been a member here since Sept '04, which I guess makes me an old-timer! But in reality I'm still very new, as I (stupidly) got myself into a long-term relationship and all of my swinging dreams fell by the wayside :(

However, I'm now very much single again, and raring to go! I shall now talk about myself...

At the time of writing this, I'm 30 years old. I guess I'm good-looking... I've always attracted ladies with no real effort (OMG! - That sounds so big headed!) I'm average build, no fatty deposits (yet!) and above average in other areas, never complaints, usually compliments.

Being new to this whole game I feel that I'd like to be inducted in a gentle way, with little pressure. I'd love to come and watch others, maybe joining in if I feel like it (and I'm sure I will!). It would also be great to build a relationship with a couple on an ongoing basis, and I'm sure most of you will agree these things can definitely improve over time.

I know there are a lot of timewasting guys on here, and I really don't want to be one of those guys. I'll always be honest with you, and expect the same in return. I also understand the need for discretion - we all have professional lives and families!

I'm located around the Ashford, Kent area, and can travel if required.

I very much hope to become a fully trusted active member of this community, and look forward to getting to know you all!