Quote by ockysweeties
My family is like the mafia and my mother is like the godfather... I'm not kidding. I fly home to new york for more family events than anything else, and I've spent equal time there and here since moving over to Oxford.
My mom and I have a volatile relationship too, I am the baby of the family and everyone has a certain opinion of me that is unfounded and my Mom still resents me kinda for growing up as I was supposed to stay young and needy and live at home with her. But I love her and I want to please her too, it's what all kids do, except she makes my life miserable so often.
given the situation and that you want conact with her, is show her and yourself that you are making an effort to patch things up. Reach out to her. Don't let her abuse your affections however and if she isn't ready, let her know you want a relationship when she is, but start to realize that you are strong and that you've done what you can.
I am the oldest and I have told her to phone me when she is ready but she wont. It was my birthday on the 22 April and for the first time is 32 years I never even got a card from her, not even a call!
good luck
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Thank you for that. My sister is still close to her which herts. I know this will sound funny but I bought her a tree last year for her birthday. I thought she could watch it grow and think of me and her grand children when she sees it. She moved in Feb and left it behind. She dident even give me her address or tel number. I miss her but I am fed up with trying to make her happy.
I am writing this as I am finding my relationship with my mother very hard. Our relationship has not been good for about six years and I am finding myself always trying to please her. I love her very much but I dont feel she feels the same about me. We had a falling out over her new husband who did something to me when I was 17 (no need to mention what). She only found out years later but I have always felt like the black sheep. We once went shopping together and enjoy each others company. We were very close and now we dont speak. Do I let her get one with it and waite untill she calls me me or do I carry on trying to get her affection? Is there any one who have had problems with their relationships with family? If so what is going on now with them? Sorry this is a long message but I really dont know what to do so your advice will be appresiated. Sorry about the spelling.
Quote by Maia
Was your first experience with a man better than your experience with a woman or was she for all the questions but I am just starting out so having input from another woman is very interesting. I cant waight for my first experience with a woman. Mind you hubby cant ether. (Pervert)
My first experience with a man was horrendous! It hurt like anything and he managed three thrusts before i told him to stop - to top it all, i got the condom stuck in me :shock:
Mind you, i recovered the next time ... :P
Which do you prefer then a male or a female?
Quote by Maia
What was your first time like?
Funnily enough, my first ever sexual experience was with another female. We were both 17 and went to the same all girls school (OK OK, enough of that sort of comments about girls who go to a Convent school). I was staying at her house and we sort of started messing around and things intimate. It was really special and fantastic because the oral sex was so brilliant and it really set my standards high for subsequent partners. We carried on having sex for a while after that - it was great, no guilt, nothing.
Was your first experience with a man better than your experience with a woman or was she for all the questions but I am just starting out so having input from another woman is very interesting. I cant waight for my first experience with a woman. Mind you hubby cant ether. (Pervert)
Quote by Maia
That is what I said but it is a matter of finding the right woman
You know, you took the word right out of my mouth. Finding the right woman is harder than finding a suitable man. Do you find that your expectations are higher? In the 15 years that i have been sexually active, i have only been with three women as opposed to the men I have been with.
Yes I think it is harder finding a woman. We are more critical about our selves and others. At least I know it is not just me. But to be quite honest I havent been with a woman as yet (not one for trying) and cant waite untill I do. What was your first time like?
Quote by little gem
I'd come back as an animal that does very little and sleeps all day.
Oy! Shurrup at the back I'm nothing like that anymore!
How about a cat?
Hmmmmm,
Yeah, that could work, cuddles, strokes, lick my fur.... Oy shurrup! 
Don't know if I could cope with hocking up furballs though. Pandas don't do much do they? I think I'll be a panda.
I dident think aboout the furballs but just think about the rest of the things a cat does.
Quote by little gem
I would be a male lion so I could lay under a tree licking my balls all day while the female went out hunting for my dinner.
Sooooo true. Mind you some of them men I have come into contact with through one of my ex's are very much like that. Have to so much as rinse a cup and they complain.
I'd come back as an animal that does very little and sleeps all day.
Oy! Shurrup at the back I'm nothing like that anymore!
How about a cat?
Quote by Ice Pie
hi i wonder if there is sex in the next life, if so do you get the chance again to shag all the people you shagged in this life, there are some people no doubt you would rather not shag again for various reasons. but one of rules is you have to, or you get shaggs at all, what would you do.
Yes there is sex in the afterlife. The Gods aren't stupid, they wouldn't have invented it just for us. Humans instinctively know that sex is a divine experience, which is why we tend to pray at the moment of ultimate pleasure.
As for having to shag the same people all over again, that's fine by me, I've never shagged anyone I wouldn't want to shag again (although I had a near misslast weekend - hopefully if there's alcohol in the afterlife, it won't make you quite as stupid as it does down here :shock: )
Near miss?!!!!!!!!!
So are you really the android in your avitar?
Quote by freckledbird
If you get bored with your flexable friend let me know
Ill bring over somthing more ridged for you to try
in kent next week so ill try and stiffen it up before then ;)
Do you mean ridged as in 'with ridges' or do you mean rigid as in 'stiff'?
Hey I'm not fussy. Either way is okay with me.
