we are both very new to this so we have been thinking of starting off doing a bit of soft swinging, or possibly park up next to another couple in cars and we could both have fun in our own cars whilst we watch each other, right now we are a little shy about this but we are open and would possibly like to hear your ideas on how we can begin trying this without going full on into it. It would be good to possibly meet a couple like ourselves that are new to this but we are open minded so please if you want to just drop us a message.