Hi .. No smilies, no winks or annoying ‘text speak’ .. Just hopefully a genuine attempt to outline who i am... very genuine late thirties male, I’m 6’ 4” tall, medium build and someone who knows what he’s looking for .. I live alone and enjoy all the finer things in life! I’m seeking that extra special lady who also enjoys those extra special things that really adds value to life. Until 4 years ago I was in what i’d position as the perfect relationship, perhaps in a mo i will enlighten you! I work in London and live outside in the commutable counties, work is important as are many things in life but my mantra to stand over would always be “that I work to live. Not live to work”

From a personal perspective I enjoy the company of a woman whom can share all the same things and equally shares many of the same attributes that I have, the ideal partner/friend would also enjoy open relationships of which I have been involved with before, and maybe now time to expand on previous experiences .. my last relationship was long term and sadly ended through distance between us becoming ever more a ‘test’ after we

both got posted to different businesses, we still talk and share experiences, with so many letters and experiences shared by other people

sometimes you wonder just how pitiful it is that relationships end just because folk cant ‘talk’ .. I have a firm belief that talking about sex will only strengthen relationships and that is where so many relationships fall down, whilst the ex and I enjoyed our own company, we too brought some spice into life by attending the odd adult themed party / house parties / holidays .. Marie has a lovely figure, not skinny nor fat .. just type that draws attention! She enjoyed regular sex with a friend of ours and I had no issues with them taking a night out alone now and again and it wasn’t unusual for them to stop in a lovers lane and fuck before coming home, equally and more often than not they’d come home and fuck. A few holidays and weekends away brought in a few strangers which also ‘hotted’ up the relationship, never pressured (either way) and very much ‘what happens happens’ .. people often talk of the rush involved when seeing your partner locked in the throws of a sexual moment and that’s very true ..

So life’s too short! At least that’s my view, I see so many guys here who just want to fuck someone else’s wife or girlfriend but i don’t see them participating with their own! TALK guys who read this, go and speak to your wife/partner and trust me so many women would love a different cock now and again! Trust me! So ladies who are unattached or maybe looking to be unattached and your looking for a semi sort of relationship that might just build into something more longer term, and you enjoy whom you are, maybe want to live out a few fantasies, maybe just want to talk initially, then get in touch! I don’t bite, nor like being bitten! Time together is to be cherished, equally sharing to be cherished too!

I Don’t want to talk about what you preferences are here, its not the time nor the place, equally don’t want to talk about cock size etc .. all that’s to follow!

So in short – not a plea for help ..nor am i expecting someone to fill old shoes! just a genuine guy, genuine thoughts and beliefs and hopefully you’ll be of the same mindset ..