Looking for single fit men, couples and females

Looking to get into the club scene.

Don't like dick pics or filthy language unless we are in the bedroom or we have meet a few times and we are on a message app. 

Not into catfish, fake accounts. Not into turning up like a just eat order. If we can’t sit down together and chat normal for an hour or so over drinks to Build a rapport then you are not for us.
 We like genuine respectful men. Would like the conversation to be like we just met in a pub so don’t want to get straight to business so if we meet polite conversation about current issues is a good starting point. 
 
Husband is ex vet, and is in good shape. Bald and has a beard. (Very alpha male type)
 I like normal looking men. Plus 30 ideally. Don’t have to have washboard abs but look after yourself...
I like going to the gym and I am a size 12. 

We are on here together, and my husband and I both decide together. He normally does all the logistics and arranging  because it’s hard to work out who’s  genuine.  So if we get back means we have both decided together. If we don’t please don’t be offended, sometimes it’s just because you may look like someone we know, or we just missed the message as we do get a lot messages. We don’t always get the time to go through them all. Ultimately we are meeting  up for you to have sex with someone wife in front of my husband, but I don’t like it being to obvious and it to dominate the subject to start. But discussing our mutual likes and dislike, is great over a drink. I find the anticipation a big turn on as we sit and chat. 
We see ourselves as a normal couple. I like a bit of intimacy one on one passionate kissing in a relaxed natural environment.  Husband is happy to watch me have fun and let me decide what happens.
Our last encounter was a few drinks, bit of chat and then went back to host house. My husband observed and let me lead and

let us lead the situation then joined in after a while when i felt comfortable. I enjoy a  encounter with normal intimacy, just like a regular one night stand with a bit of added spice.  We are a professional couple so discretion is paramount. 
Would like to chat for a bit first but not into endless messaging. Happy to join what’s apps group. If you not comfortable using these then that makes us suspicious, and it’s suggests a fake profile  ??  There has been a few catfish and time wasters on here. Not into men in current relationship if partner is unaware of their Fab activity.  
We normally book hotel. 
I am looking fo a genuine discrete guy to have a passionate night with and good relaxed conversation.

 Hope to talk to you sexymen soon. Xxx.