Sane friendly, 'normal' male - divorced, non-judgmental, fun and fit - not looking for one-night-stands, nor long term relationships, but ideally something in-between. Not a hardened swinger, but enough experience to be stimulated by taking part/initiating/leading, or exploring most fun/funny sexy/erotic things. All this needs to be discussed and agreed by all involved over a glass or two of wine! Happy to take the lead, but not pushy - unless asked to be. Old fashioned to say it, but gentlemanly/civilised and seeking kind considerate playmate(s) too. Whilst my ideal is a couple (or female) younger than I am, I think the outcome can be satisfactory for all, regardless, as I like all involved to be in a happy situations with fulfilling experiences and good memories. And you...?