I guess everyone has their own communication style, and their moments. That said, I really appreciate seeing the other person is having just as much fun as I am, big turn on for me.

There is no absolutes for anything, some love, some don't, on both sides.

I personally really enjoy going down on a woman and really give her a good time, but as much as I enjoy getting a BJ myself I try not to count points if that makes sense, it takes away from the fun and feels a bit petty. I'm just happy to be invited downstairs and it tastes all the sweeter if I see it as one fun event rather than a 2 way transaction.

As mentioned above hygiene is a big factor too...

100% agree!! Like, come on guys, you got 2 hands.

Shame, if you know of any other spots I'd love to meet with you guys, send me a message please.

Not accessible by car but you can park, just have to walk like 100 m past the fence

Yes, if you follow the black metal fence all the way to the right it turns into a wooden one, with one bit conveniently broken through which is easy to go through.

Nice little tree área right in front of the Cross scythes pub in Sheffield, S8, go through the fence and a bit into the trees to a bit of a clearing, easy to spot anyone passing by or coming in and very hard for anyone who isn't specifically going there to see you.