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Miss_B_Having
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 42
Straight Male, 51
0 miles · Northamptonshire

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Ohhhhhhhh I love dominant men, just the feeling of them being in control turns my legs to jelly.
It's great being told what to do and how to do it, knowing that your actions bring pure satisfaction.
My little one was 10 days overdue, and no amount of things I tried could get him to budge. I guess he finally decided that he was cooked and chose to make an appearance.
Stubborn then and even worse now!!
I didn't really want to join the site.
My ex partner found it on a search engine after a couple of years of badgering me to try and get into the swinging scene.
Needless to say that I wasn't to impressed to find out that he had created a couples profile and had set about finding THE first meet.
Anyhow things happened and we split up.
I forgot all about it....
Until 2 years ago that is when I received a mail into my "normal" email account to say that I had a mail on here.
So I logged in, after having to fish out my password from the deep dark depths of my brain.
It took me a couple of days to have a look around properly, finding the forum and the chatroom. I found out that I actually quite liked the site.
I changed my account from a couple profile to a single one and I guess the rest is history.
I decided to stay because it was something that I could take at my own pace and that there wasn't anyone around anymore to try and make me do things that I didn't want to do.
The decision to keep my account was the best one that I ever made, I've made many friends on here, had some wonderful meets and met some lovely people from my regular room.
So I guess it wasn't the conventional way of finding SH, but needless to say I'm glad I chose to stick around...
Oh god no!!
Only walked into it, not onto it, eeeeeek the thought of that!!
Quote by Peanut
Even after reading the thead and vowing to be extra careful.....
I still managed to walk into one of the bedposts on the bottom of the bed last night.
They are fecking huge, and typically just the right height for my lady bits - I soon fell to the floor not daring to get up for a while!!
lol lol lol

Well given its height and its girth I can only hope you fell against it and not onto it :shock:
Been there, done that.
I've used various excuses from the cars been broken into, having a migraine, 24 hour sickness bug etc.
Hands up to being one that doesn't reply to all mail.
If I receive just a general email then I will reply and get a bit of banter going.
If I get an email asking for a meet then I don't respond, as it's clearly stated on my profile that I am not looking to meet anyone. This shows me that the sender has not fully read my profile and isn't particularly interested in what I have to say - so why waste my time in replying?
I must be one of the lucky ones (or not so lucky) I gush every time I orgasm and it can be quite embarrassing sometimes. I have to pre warn before I start getting down and dirty with someone just so they know to expect it!!
Would much prefer to orgasm the old fashioned way without the need of having pads attached to my ankles
Even after reading the thead and vowing to be extra careful.....
I still managed to walk into one of the bedposts on the bottom of the bed last night.
They are fecking huge, and typically just the right height for my lady bits - I soon fell to the floor not daring to get up for a while!!
lol lol lol
I prefer to talk to a person and find out about them, and vice versa, rather than just jump straight in at the deep end.
If anything when guys start off a convo with "so what size are your tits" this puts me right off them.
I don't really get into sexual chat alot on here, and if I do it has to be a gradually built up conversation where a guy has stimulated my mind as well as other parts of me.
I don't really have a type that I go for, although I am really attracted to guys with a nice smile and lovely eyes.
I'm not one for looks apart from that, making me smile and laugh is far more important that what you look like.
Still in my early twenties and wouldn't dream of shouting about what I'd been up to with anyone.
As far as I'm concerned it's no-one elses business what goes on between two (or more) consenting adults.
I see a fella from SH regularly and we use a chat room on here, people know that we are a couple of sorts but no details are given.
Discretion is very important in this game and I wouldn't be too happy about my exploits being broadcast.
However, some people just can't help themselves - I've seen the posts!!
No surprises why they can't get a meet again....
Ohhhhhhhh one I know yay!!!
Answers by pm??
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I have one for all of u if ya dont mind me joining in ...........Lighter than a feather but no man or woman can hold me for long.........
My fella told me that he gets the horn hearing my voice on the phone, I don't understand it myself!
Quote by Misskitty_2008
I get hot anytime when I look at my other half... I can't help it.... and he knows it.....
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Go to that channel.
Go to Menu.
Audio.
Options.
MTS should be Stereo or Mono not Auto Sap.
Fingers crossed :thumbup:
And bugger me, I should know that after reading all of your posts and having trouble controlling the laughter!
lol
Quote by flower411
Thank god I don't feel like that (not about Mrs F of course) but bloody hell I'd get nothing done!!!
Every time I see Mrs flower !! :shock:
Just makes me horny !!
Morning, noon or night lol
Luckily she seems to think the same !! :thumbup:

rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
S`ok !!! we don`t live in the same house !! lol
It is a bit like paying themselves back with their own money but this would actually be money that she's entitled to. So instead of giving it to her she is paying off her debt.
Personally if they have a debt for this reason I don't think they should get any benefits at all until the overpayment is paid off. Obviously this can't be done as the law states that a person claiming has a personal allowance, which is how much the government decide they need to live off each week.
But grrrrrrrrrr it grates on me!!
Quote by Samndave
What got me on that programme was the young girl with the baby that got found out and was made to pay back the money over paid, so what she did was make a new claim and out of that money the DWP took the money from her that she was over paid, isn't that a bit like paying themselves back out of their own money?
And another thing all these people seem to be able to afford cigerettes but plead poverty, can't feed/clothes kids etc.....GIVE UP THE EVIL WEED!!!!!
Sam x
Quote by Jaq__kryps
must of confused him with all those big words cherry lol

Just say medication, that's one I'm SURE Phuckers must know....
Thank god I don't feel like that (not about Mrs F of course) but bloody hell I'd get nothing done!!!
Quote by flower411
Every time I see Mrs flower !! :shock:
Just makes me horny !!
Morning, noon or night lol
Luckily she seems to think the same !! :thumbup:
Great idea in theory but my god can you imagine the uproar from the people mentioned!
In the meantime if anyone feels like reporting a fraudulent benefit claim here ya go:

Quote by hell1970
mmmmmm maybe someone should start a national web page up to name and shame benefit cheats and force to goverment to act
I'm really not sure on this one, from experience Child Benefit should be paid to the parent or person with care of the child in question. Meaning that it should only be paid for people living in this country....
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I still don't get any benefits, but I don't need much and live within my means. You saying about your dad sounds like one of the ladies I care for - she is 71 and because she has a private pension which her husband paid for before he passed away, she still gets taxed! It makes me mad. She is a very kind lady - my mobile phone died on me today, and I don't have a landline, so she gave me £20 to get another so I could keep in contact with the outside world... and I need it for her too, in case she needs me... I will be paying her back, but its buggered things up a bit for me.
I have just heard from one neighbour that another rented house down my road has people in there that have had cars provided for them to keep in touch with their relatives around the country, and they walk around with better clothes than I wear.. and they're from europe...
It really doesn't seem fair, that people who have worked and toiled all their lives can't get a bean.... or really have to fight for it..... when others get everything... but hearing about these cars really has put my back up!!!
Last year I didn't have enough money to feed myself and my cats, so my cats were fed first... and when I applied for a crisis loan, I couldn't get one... I only wanted £40 for food.. yet someone in the next booth to me wanted £200 and they got it.. because they had been on benefits since the year dot... go figure.
You saying about entitlements... When my hubby died, because it was sudden, and I couldn't get a death certificate until everything had gone to inquest.. it was six months before they even processed my applications....
I couldn't get widows benefit because I was under 45 with no children... if I had children would have got it straight away....... As it was, I couldn't get anything, only half towards the funeral cost... and I have not long finished paying it off three years on.. and it was only a basic funeral...
I really do get frustrated..... I have worked all my life!!!!!

Yours sounds horrifc. I hope things have worked out for you now.
The horrid thing about all this is if you was an illegal immigrant, you would be sent straight to Croydon to register for lots of money!
The system is unfair and unjust. It seems if you are a law abiding person who pays your taxes all your life, when the time comes to claim back something they drag their heels. If you have not paid anything into the system, it seems yopu are given everything. It may not work like that all the time but it seems to happen more than it should.
My Father has worked all his life and paid in for a private pension. He is now 76 and because his private pension and his state pension takes him over a certain ammount, he has to pay tax on the ammount that is higher than what the law says he should have.
Had he not put his hard earned money into a pension he would pay no tax. But that money he paid into a private pension for, was money he had already paid tax on!!
I for one hope they change the rules on this benefit and the ones that deserve it, get it. The others who could easily work I hope they are then thrown back into work asap. mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad
Or one that really annoys me is the ammount of money paid in child benefit to kids that are not even in this country. :shock: How the heck does that one work? mad
Ouch Cherry, I really feel for you. Had it only the once and it's not nice. Sorry I can't recommend anything as Canesten did the trick for me, just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you!
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My opinion is that there should be harsher punishments for people that "fiddle" the benefits system. At the moment these sort of programmes seem to advertise the fact that if you steal thousands in benefits all you will get is community service.
As meat said you can work under 16 hours per week on benefits, and this is taken fully into account and stopped from your benefits - so the people that do declare an income aren't doing anything wrong, it's the people that don't that cause so many problems.
The fact that someone took the time to pm me and ask if I was ok after reading an earlier post has made me smile and also brought tears to my eyes (soppy mare I am).
So I would like to say a huge thank you to that person.
I wouldn't want to cause any embarrassment by mentioning names so I won't. But to the lovely lady that took the time you are an :angel:
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