Hello... its been a long time since I have posted... but it's nice to be back.
I am wondering if any of you lovely people can help me? One of my neighbours has got a bit of a crush on me, and recently went away. I received a card through the post written completely in welsh, and I really don't have a clue what it means... but he keeps smiling at me... :shock:
If anyone can pm me, I will pm the details back to translate!
Thanks in advance xx
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Misskitty_2008
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 58
Straight Male, 67
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I lived near Sheffield near t'pits... and we were lucky as my grandad worked down them so we were ok for coal...
Down here, I haven't had central heating for about five years, and i'm used to it - to be honest my health is better! When I go into a place with central heating I find it quite oppressive.
(good excuse to take a human hot water bottle to bed too
)
Down here, I haven't had central heating for about five years, and i'm used to it - to be honest my health is better! When I go into a place with central heating I find it quite oppressive.
(good excuse to take a human hot water bottle to bed too
) Sitting here thinking about how cold it is, and wondering how many people have turned on their central heating.... two of the old ladies I care for have had it turned on for a couple of days due to the weather, and one of my other ladies has knitted me some bedsocks because I don't have central heating, and my house is cold!
I have got my halogen heater on one bar right now, but if it gets any chillier will be going higher.... my cats are loving it too!
Have you given in yet? or is it warmer where you are... this time last week my thermometer was registering 25 in my bathroom.. its currently on 17... brrrr!
I have got my halogen heater on one bar right now, but if it gets any chillier will be going higher.... my cats are loving it too!
Have you given in yet? or is it warmer where you are... this time last week my thermometer was registering 25 in my bathroom.. its currently on 17... brrrr!
: It's good to make new discoveries... but I am with you on the beebegeebie front.... the only problem with not knowing about what is going to happen.. is not knowing what is going to happen after...
It is exciting though!!
It is exciting though!!
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I think it will be great, although it does give me the heebegeebies thinking about what might happen when they collide :shock:
I did say what happened on page 2 of the thread... but there has been a lot of posts since!
I have just read this thread after spending a few days away from the forums (apart from a quick peep every now and again) and I have read through this thread, and Im sorry but I felt the need to comment on this post.
Im really sorry Miss Kitty, but I have always had the greatest respect for you as a poster, you know that, but this post, at worst appalling, and at best a bad lack of judgement. This was a thread about weather Ms Mirrens comments were right or wrong, not a place to almost demand sympathy for things that have happened to us.
Every reader who read that post may well have though 'oh shit how terrible' or aww thats such a shame', but didnt feel the need to comment on thread about it. Many many posts get lost, overlooked and ignored in this forum every day, it happens.
We all have things that happen to us that we would like sympathy for, the forum is not a place for that, unless its in jest.
I apologise wholeheartedly for singling out a particular post or poster, because its not something I would normally do, I generally like to keep the forums as a happy place, but this post has really got my dander up, and I just felt i needed to voice my opinion on it.
Im sorry that im not in the best frame of mind today, and am truly sorry if I have offended anyone with my post (I will probably be flamed or banned by tomorrow.
Again....im sorry Miss Kitty if it seems I am picking on you, i am not....just that one particular post is all :kiss:
hey miss_ktty please dont feel ignored,but prephaps if you did explain more what happened or if you think it was a we might respond to it,but just saying you were , however dreadful doesnt command any respond according to the thread!
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Hi Mrs B, I understand where you are coming from... but I did post something this morning in response to other people who had voiced the same thing as yourself.... I know you're not picking on me, you are just putting your point across x
I in no way wanted sympathy -and I didn't expect any either... I just wanted to put across my point and hope that some would reply to me - I understand that some that have experienced this dreadful thing would not want to talk about it, and I totally respect that. I myself kept it quiet for years... I respect all the opinions of the other posters, and hope they will respect what I post too.
I hope you have a good evening Mrs B -for you xxxx
Keeno, I'm wondering why no-one has responded to my previous comment... this has actually happened to me.. yet no responses.....
I have just read this thread after spending a few days away from the forums (apart from a quick peep every now and again) and I have read through this thread, and Im sorry but I felt the need to comment on this post.
Im really sorry Miss Kitty, but I have always had the greatest respect for you as a poster, you know that, but this post, at worst appalling, and at best a bad lack of judgement. This was a thread about weather Ms Mirrens comments were right or wrong, not a place to almost demand sympathy for things that have happened to us.
Every reader who read that post may well have though 'oh shit how terrible' or aww thats such a shame', but didnt feel the need to comment on thread about it. Many many posts get lost, overlooked and ignored in this forum every day, it happens.
We all have things that happen to us that we would like sympathy for, the forum is not a place for that, unless its in jest.
I apologise wholeheartedly for singling out a particular post or poster, because its not something I would normally do, I generally like to keep the forums as a happy place, but this post has really got my dander up, and I just felt i needed to voice my opinion on it.
Im sorry that im not in the best frame of mind today, and am truly sorry if I have offended anyone with my post (I will probably be flamed or banned by tomorrow.
Again....im sorry Miss Kitty if it seems I am picking on you, i am not....just that one particular post is all :kiss:
hey miss_ktty please dont feel ignored,but prephaps if you did explain more what happened or if you think it was a we might respond to it,but just saying you were , however dreadful doesnt command any respond according to the thread!
Hi Mrs B, I understand where you are coming from... but I did post something this morning in response to other people who had voiced the same thing as yourself.... I know you're not picking on me, you are just putting your point across x
I in no way wanted sympathy -and I didn't expect any either... I just wanted to put across my point and hope that some would reply to me - I understand that some that have experienced this dreadful thing would not want to talk about it, and I totally respect that. I myself kept it quiet for years... I respect all the opinions of the other posters, and hope they will respect what I post too.
I hope you have a good evening Mrs B - for you xxxx
I have just read this thread after spending a few days away from the forums (apart from a quick peep every now and again) and I have read through this thread, and Im sorry but I felt the need to comment on this post.
Im really sorry Miss Kitty, but I have always had the greatest respect for you as a poster, you know that, but this post, at worst appalling, and at best a bad lack of judgement. This was a thread about weather Ms Mirrens comments were right or wrong, not a place to almost demand sympathy for things that have happened to us.
Every reader who read that post may well have though 'oh shit how terrible' or aww thats such a shame', but didnt feel the need to comment on thread about it. Many many posts get lost, overlooked and ignored in this forum every day, it happens.
We all have things that happen to us that we would like sympathy for, the forum is not a place for that, unless its in jest.
I apologise wholeheartedly for singling out a particular post or poster, because its not something I would normally do, I generally like to keep the forums as a happy place, but this post has really got my dander up, and I just felt i needed to voice my opinion on it.
Im sorry that im not in the best frame of mind today, and am truly sorry if I have offended anyone with my post (I will probably be flamed or banned by tomorrow.
Again....im sorry Miss Kitty if it seems I am picking on you, i am not....just that one particular post is all :kiss:
I in no way wanted sympathy -and I didn't expect any either... I just wanted to put across my point and hope that some would reply to me - I understand that some that have experienced this dreadful thing would not want to talk about it, and I totally respect that. I myself kept it quiet for years... I respect all the opinions of the other posters, and hope they will respect what I post too.
I hope you have a good evening Mrs B -
for you xxxxQuote by Bonedigger
Keeno, I'm wondering why no-one has responded to my previous comment... this has actually happened to me.. yet no responses.....
I have just read this thread after spending a few days away from the forums (apart from a quick peep every now and again) and I have read through this thread, and Im sorry but I felt the need to comment on this post.
Im really sorry Miss Kitty, but I have always had the greatest respect for you as a poster, you know that, but this post, at worst appalling, and at best a bad lack of judgement. This was a thread about weather Ms Mirrens comments were right or wrong, not a place to almost demand sympathy for things that have happened to us.
Every reader who read that post may well have though 'oh shit how terrible' or aww thats such a shame', but didnt feel the need to comment on thread about it. Many many posts get lost, overlooked and ignored in this forum every day, it happens.
We all have things that happen to us that we would like sympathy for, the forum is not a place for that, unless its in jest.
I apologise wholeheartedly for singling out a particular post or poster, because its not something I would normally do, I generally like to keep the forums as a happy place, but this post has really got my dander up, and I just felt i needed to voice my opinion on it.
Im sorry that im not in the best frame of mind today, and am truly sorry if I have offended anyone with my post (I will probably be flamed or banned by tomorrow.
Again....im sorry Miss Kitty if it seems I am picking on you, i am not....just that one particular post is all :kiss:
Agree with you both... I didn't post what happened to me to get any sympathy, agree with you there Winchwench.. and I am sorry if I upset anybody by saying people made comments without actually knowing how it feels... I hope you will accept my apology in the spirit its meant.
All I wanted to do was to let people know things are not clear cut, and it is very difficult to talk about. The way that victims or survivors are treated these days, is so much different to the 1980's, and unfortunately so many people did not come forward to report their experience.
And just another quick slant on the media article... how do we know that is exactly what she said? I have been in my local papers for various charity things, and have been misquoted more than once on a small article... might be something worth thinking about....
:thumbup: I should've read this first before posting my bit - totally agree
All I wanted to do was to let people know things are not clear cut, and it is very difficult to talk about. The way that victims or survivors are treated these days, is so much different to the 1980's, and unfortunately so many people did not come forward to report their experience.
And just another quick slant on the media article... how do we know that is exactly what she said? I have been in my local papers for various charity things, and have been misquoted more than once on a small article... might be something worth thinking about....
Quote by jaymar
it may have been asa measure to keep the thread on track about the origional post and to try and not make this a personal thing or to try and judge on an individual matter.
sorry that makes sense to me
xx fem xx
:thumbup: I should've read this first before posting my bit - totally agree
Thank you Cherrytree :kiss I had a think after I posted it.. and said to Keeno I thought it might be because people didn't know what to say. I just felt I had to say something, as people were making comments without the actual knowledge of the situation, which I had.
But thank you for replying to me.. it means a lot. If people don't feel that they can post on here, I am happy to get pm's and will try to help people to understand....
It is a very difficult subject....
Hey
I understand and appreciate what you are saying Miss K.
I am guilty of not responding to your post. The reason, and maybe it's not a good one, is that after hearing what happened to you, I was so overwhelmed by a "oh my God" feeling, that I couldn't think of anything appropriate to say.
If I'd said "I'm really sorry that happened to you Miss K" (which of course is what I do feel), it seems to somehow make less of it than it was... like as if I was saying, "I'm really sorry you had your car pinched" or something on that level.
If I'd said "Oh my God, how horrendous that must have been, " again, that sounds like trivialising it, as I feel no one could understand how horrendous something like that is, unless they have experienced it.
So...... I'm sure people are not just ignoring your post. I think, like me, people sometimes say nothing, rather than risk saying the wrong thing.
But thank you for replying to me.. it means a lot. If people don't feel that they can post on here, I am happy to get pm's and will try to help people to understand....
It is a very difficult subject....
Quote by Cherrytree
Keeno, I'm wondering why no-one has responded to my previous comment... this has actually happened to me.. yet no responses.....
Hey
I understand and appreciate what you are saying Miss K.
I am guilty of not responding to your post. The reason, and maybe it's not a good one, is that after hearing what happened to you, I was so overwhelmed by a "oh my God" feeling, that I couldn't think of anything appropriate to say.
If I'd said "I'm really sorry that happened to you Miss K" (which of course is what I do feel), it seems to somehow make less of it than it was... like as if I was saying, "I'm really sorry you had your car pinched" or something on that level.
If I'd said "Oh my God, how horrendous that must have been, " again, that sounds like trivialising it, as I feel no one could understand how horrendous something like that is, unless they have experienced it.
So...... I'm sure people are not just ignoring your post. I think, like me, people sometimes say nothing, rather than risk saying the wrong thing.
Calista... I agree with him on this one... why do you think I didn't go to the police when it happened in the 1980's? things were a heck of a lot different then.....
Pah! All that means is if I wear a short skirt and go out for a drink then 'mea culpa', not the person taking advantage of that?
Sadly that used to be the case! Most legal professionals try not to make such crass judgments anymore, but I suspect it probably still happens more than it should.
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Actually the law does take that into account. If the 'victim' knowingly puts themselves in a dangerous or risky situation, they are generally seen as being culpable.
Pah! All that means is if I wear a short skirt and go out for a drink then 'mea culpa', not the person taking advantage of that?
Sadly that used to be the case! Most legal professionals try not to make such crass judgments anymore, but I suspect it probably still happens more than it should.
Just for those who commented about the AUP.. this is what it says....
Anything illegal and contrary to the laws of England and Wales, including (but not limited to!) the promotion, suggestion or allusion to , or any non consensual acts, drugs (including the misuse of prescribed medicines or the mention of Viagra and Poppers) or any other kind of illegal activity.
Please correct me if I am wrong.. but is the OP thread about what someone has said about and is not promoting etc etc.. ?
Anything illegal and contrary to the laws of England and Wales, including (but not limited to!) the promotion, suggestion or allusion to , or any non consensual acts, drugs (including the misuse of prescribed medicines or the mention of Viagra and Poppers) or any other kind of illegal activity.
Please correct me if I am wrong.. but is the OP thread about what someone has said about and is not promoting etc etc.. ?
Funnily enough, when I spoke to a crisis worker, they said I could claim from the criminal injuries for emotional distress... but I would have to go to court first. I have in my own way come to terms with it, and it has made me the strong person I am today.
And keeno, my friend.. no apologies needed ok?
And keeno, my friend.. no apologies needed ok?
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I can only talk about this as me and I have no experience of .
Crimes against people are very different from crimes against property. Compensation can be calculated if a car is destroyed. You have an insurance value on your possessions.
But , assualt are personal and cannot be given a monetary value. But our legal system is based on money. What can you do?
Sorry MissKItty I think I just rambled round the subject again
