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Anyone got any advice on splitting with your married partner and kids? I am about to move out and finding life very hard at the momoment and drinking far too much,but cant sleep,is it posible to dislike your partner when with her,but miss her like crazy when you know she's not . I know this isnt really a swinging issue,but most swingers seem to be happy and comfortable with themselves and can offer salient advice
Goin thru the same thing here m8. Just split up with my partner of 4 years about 4 weeks ago and left behind my only child, a daughter of nearly 4. I always thought it gets easier.. Ha.. it dont
I love her to pieces but when were together we just dont mix any more.. all the spark had gone.. we barely spent any time together.. it just got too bad to be at home.. and now I thought leaving would make life easier but I wish I had stayed. She now wants a life on her own and here I sit on me onsies :( My advice.. think it through before you go.. maybe a small break appart would help.. absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that.. and now I have time alone.. all I do is think about them and how things could have easily changed.. and how the small things that seemed to ammount to a whole heap of trouble just dont really matter at all...You have my thoughts right now my friend, I know it can't be easy for you.. its horrible for me and we were only together for 4 years! I wish I had some mirracle advice to offer but nothing I have tried seems to work.. I keep busy but thoughts still sneak in.. I have only slept for 6 hours this past week.. and things just dont seem to be easing. So if anyone knows the key to stop all the hurting then please share. :(
Myke
