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NWfunguy
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 60
0 miles · Greater Manchester
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Warming the Bed
i know im being abit phaschious (however u spell it) - FACETIOUS
but when he comes to our house unwashed with clothes that are age 3 on his back well we carnt send him home like that even if we said u just have ur csa money we still have to send him home in new clothes..
maybe this isnt the right place to discuss it it's such a delicate subject!!!!!
what was i thinking????
You are thinking about what is best for the boy. If it's getting to you sit with Col and say everything that you have said here.
A drastic solution would be if you had a child with Col. His payments to her would decrease (please, check this out first!). You would still be buying clothes as you said at the start, but she wouldn't be getting anything else.
Good luck
but when he comes to our house unwashed with clothes that are age 3 on his back well we carnt send him home like that even if we said u just have ur csa money we still have to send him home in new clothes..
maybe this isnt the right place to discuss it it's such a delicate subject!!!!!
what was i thinking????
You are thinking about what is best for the boy. If it's getting to you sit with Col and say everything that you have said here.
A drastic solution would be if you had a child with Col. His payments to her would decrease (please, check this out first!). You would still be buying clothes as you said at the start, but she wouldn't be getting anything else.
Good luck
Warming the Bed
Should we have to pay for two holidays?????
Absolutely not! If Ex wants to take him on holiday, fine but you don't have to pay for that.
we have him nearly every weekend fri-sun and buy him whatever he needs trainers,shoes,coats,school uniform etc..... he never goes without.
That's really good and as you say there are some dads who do a lot less.
Personally i think we are being taken for a ride.
Where does the per month go?
Is there anyone who too is in this situation?
No names. A 'friend' of mine has a child whose mother's monthly income is from the CSA (She has other children also), yet she is also asking for extras (she can only go on school trips if Dad pays for it). It has now got to the stage where his daughter (14) is ringing asking for material items because there is no point in asking the mother. He hardly sees her as they moved soon after the split so that they could be nearer her family. The mother does not work.
Mr bailiff and his boy are lucky to see each other so often. You are quite rightly upset about the situation. What does he think?
Absolutely not! If Ex wants to take him on holiday, fine but you don't have to pay for that.
we have him nearly every weekend fri-sun and buy him whatever he needs trainers,shoes,coats,school uniform etc..... he never goes without.
That's really good and as you say there are some dads who do a lot less.
Personally i think we are being taken for a ride.
Where does the per month go?
Is there anyone who too is in this situation?
No names. A 'friend' of mine has a child whose mother's monthly income is from the CSA (She has other children also), yet she is also asking for extras (she can only go on school trips if Dad pays for it). It has now got to the stage where his daughter (14) is ringing asking for material items because there is no point in asking the mother. He hardly sees her as they moved soon after the split so that they could be nearer her family. The mother does not work.
Mr bailiff and his boy are lucky to see each other so often. You are quite rightly upset about the situation. What does he think?
Warming the Bed
Good luck to your son with his SATS,
Good luck with your meeting with the head.
The choice of not praying is as significant and valid as who to pray to.
If your child has been singled out for this reason, the issue needs to be addressed.
A person wiser beyond her years once compared religion to football: "We all know the rules and what it's all about, it's just that some of us prefer one team to the others"
Amen to Man City
Good luck with your meeting with the head.
The choice of not praying is as significant and valid as who to pray to.
If your child has been singled out for this reason, the issue needs to be addressed.
A person wiser beyond her years once compared religion to football: "We all know the rules and what it's all about, it's just that some of us prefer one team to the others"
Amen to Man City
Warming the Bed
Hi Steve and Nicola,
Just to throw my hat into the ring:- I am also North of Manchester (I wonder if we all live on the same street ).
Sorry that I missed this weekends message. I had hay to make in those few hours that the sun was out :)
Hope that you achieved what you were looking for and will look out for you again.
Just to throw my hat into the ring:- I am also North of Manchester (I wonder if we all live on the same street
).Sorry that I missed this weekends message. I had hay to make in those few hours that the sun was out :)
Hope that you achieved what you were looking for and will look out for you again.
Warming the Bed
Suze43 wrote:
Confidence and sexiness comes from within.
So true suze.
First attraction for me is curvy. Stick insects can be sexy, but I prefer a breast or buttock that can be cupped rather than searched for.
Second attraction is always the eyes. (Was it Mike Harding who said "She rolled her eyes at me, so I picked them up and rolled them right back to her")
Third is the voice. I cannot stand shriekers or whiners.
Fourth is the bank account. I would like to be kept in a manner that I could easily be accustomed to.
Personality will always be the main attribute (but shagging on the first date will do no harm
)
Confidence and sexiness comes from within.
So true suze.
First attraction for me is curvy. Stick insects can be sexy, but I prefer a breast or buttock that can be cupped rather than searched for.
Second attraction is always the eyes. (Was it Mike Harding who said "She rolled her eyes at me, so I picked them up and rolled them right back to her")
Third is the voice. I cannot stand shriekers or whiners.
Fourth is the bank account. I would like to be kept in a manner that I could easily be accustomed to.
Personality will always be the main attribute (but shagging on the first date will do no harm
)
Warming the Bed
Yep. A cooling-off period could work. But an asshole is still an asshole 7 days later.
Sorry, I don't mean to be flippant but in the example you cite, you will still have the idiot moaning after 20 minutes.
What if they cannot bump their own threads in the Dogging section? Or if the Dogging section is split like the ads into couples seeking..., etc. and single males cannot post unless looking for other males?
I am not techie-aware enough to know if this is possible.
Unfortunately, there is no real fix to this. I am concerned about the physical abuse that has been suffered as reported above and hope that the individual is OK.
Sorry, I don't mean to be flippant but in the example you cite, you will still have the idiot moaning after 20 minutes.
What if they cannot bump their own threads in the Dogging section? Or if the Dogging section is split like the ads into couples seeking..., etc. and single males cannot post unless looking for other males?
I am not techie-aware enough to know if this is possible.
Unfortunately, there is no real fix to this. I am concerned about the physical abuse that has been suffered as reported above and hope that the individual is OK.
Warming the Bed
]I think I like this guy, he has a sense of humour and humility, two characteristics to be encouraged, I think, I look forward to seeing him at a munch or mini-munch one day (obviously not next Wednesday though), come say hi when you get invited.
Chris.
]Marms, your just saying that cos you want to shag him. :P . Bye the way can I have your bacon at breakfast..... your not allowed to eat bacon :twisted: :twisted:
..... or is it sausage ?
The smooth-talking, silver-tongued devil!!! At least buy me a drink first
I hope that you all enjoyed last night.
Chris.
]Marms, your just saying that cos you want to shag him. :P . Bye the way can I have your bacon at breakfast..... your not allowed to eat bacon :twisted: :twisted:
..... or is it sausage ?The smooth-talking, silver-tongued devil!!! At least buy me a drink first
I hope that you all enjoyed last night.
Warming the Bed
I think I like this guy, he has a sense of humour and humility, two characteristics to be encouraged, I think, I look forward to seeing him at a munch or mini-munch one day (obviously not next Wednesday though), come say hi when you get invited.
Chris.
Thanks for the boost, Chris. Will definately say hi if we get the opportunity. Have a drink for me next week.
As it is I would not have been able to attend after all
!!
What started as me swipng at negative posters turned into me being on the defensive. Set Blue onto the politicians, I say. At least you know where you are with her.
Hmm, the Swinging Heaven party - gets my vote!
Chris.
Thanks for the boost, Chris. Will definately say hi if we get the opportunity. Have a drink for me next week.
As it is I would not have been able to attend after all
!!What started as me swipng at negative posters turned into me being on the defensive. Set Blue onto the politicians, I say.
At least you know where you are with her.Hmm, the Swinging Heaven party - gets my vote!
Warming the Bed
Well, that's totally the wrong approach on this forum. It's not a matter of replying to things to get your post count up... chatting on here is a way to get to know people. If you are not prepared to do that, the social nights are not your cup of tea anyways, cos they are all about chatting, socialising, and doing pretty much what we do on here (talk crap) but in real life. (They are NOT about meeting for sex, as the details I will send out in a few days will clarify.) If you don't want to do that online, you won't want to do that in real life, I guess 
. This forum is MUCH MORE than a place to advertise for sex :lol: :lol:
I agree that that's the wrong approach and that's really what I was trying to say. Is someone with 100 posts (all saying that they cannot make whatever meet), more likely to attend than another with 5 posts who can genuinely make it?
A tough call, I know. I don't envy any moderator on any forum or site who has take the crap when someone doesn't like their decisive action. You do a fine job for possibly little thanks. So here is my thanks now.
Enough grovelling? Good.
As to my cup of tea - strong, no sugar please. I realise that the social night is exactly that - a social meeting. That's why I was more determined to make that one. I don't have the opportunity to chat on-line as much as I would like, so I would prefer a real life chat-room.
I will still look out for possible future meets (am I using the wrong term maybe?) and try again if the date/time are OK.
Have fun
. This forum is MUCH MORE than a place to advertise for sex :lol: :lol:I agree that that's the wrong approach and that's really what I was trying to say. Is someone with 100 posts (all saying that they cannot make whatever meet), more likely to attend than another with 5 posts who can genuinely make it?
A tough call, I know. I don't envy any moderator on any forum or site who has take the crap when someone doesn't like their decisive action. You do a fine job for possibly little thanks. So here is my thanks now.
Enough grovelling? Good.
As to my cup of tea - strong, no sugar please. I realise that the social night is exactly that - a social meeting. That's why I was more determined to make that one. I don't have the opportunity to chat on-line as much as I would like, so I would prefer a real life chat-room.
I will still look out for possible future meets (am I using the wrong term maybe?) and try again if the date/time are OK.
Have fun
Warming the Bed
Cos you have posted so little, I am forced to treat you as a newbie. Therefore, unless someone can vouch for you, sorry.... no.
If someone can vouch for you I can put you down as a maybe and send you the details like everyone else. Then if you can't make it, all you would need to do is PM or text me and let me know.
But until you have a voucher, the rest is academic, I guess
Thanks for the honesty, blue - it was as I expected. I admit to lurking waiting for the convenient meet.
But I don't see the point in posting to say I can't go, just to build up the number of posts.
I am more the strong, silent type waiting for the right moment (a bit like my wind
)
Have a good time next week
If someone can vouch for you I can put you down as a maybe and send you the details like everyone else. Then if you can't make it, all you would need to do is PM or text me and let me know.
But until you have a voucher, the rest is academic, I guess
Thanks for the honesty, blue - it was as I expected. I admit to lurking waiting for the convenient meet.
But I don't see the point in posting to say I can't go, just to build up the number of posts.
I am more the strong, silent type waiting for the right moment (a bit like my wind
)Have a good time next week
