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Naughty_Wigan_Couple
4 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 56
Straight Male, 70
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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Anyone who wants meet me, has to lower themselves :sad:
Im only four foot, eleven and a half inches tall, so very low for most people :sad:
Quote by deancannock
take it as a compliment.... they must find something about you attractive if they contact. A simple thanks not my sort of thing...but hey good luck and have fun reply, is not such a difficult thing is it.

Exactly, a compliment is a compliment whether it is off a man, woman, or both. take it good spirit, say thank you but not what I am looking for. wink
Quote by NikonPro
Blimey..... Cant even give it away lol

Nickers, I told you before, move to Wigan and we will keep you busy wink
Hi guys welcome to the site and really do hope your meet goes well on Friday night.
The main advice I would give, is not necessarily for the actual night, but is more for the before and after event. That is TALK, talk and then talk again. It is very important you are both 100% comfortable with what you are doing and that you fully understand both your limits and that of your partner. We found the best way to do this, was to keep talking.
For the meet its self, I would say do not do anything that you are not comfortable with. If at any time either of you feel uncomfortable, stop. It really does not matter if you upset the other couple, and if they are decent, they would understand anyway, but if you do something you are not comfortable with, and then regret it, you cant turn the clock back.
What ever happens, remember there is no rush to do anything at all, and sometimes, the nice leisurely journey getting there is much more enjoyable that reaching the destination wink
Lets just say, I got some ideas for this but not risking telling you :twisted:
See you all on Saturday and so looking forward to it wink
Thanks for all the help with places to go dogging in Kent and we will be arriving early next week, so if you see us, come and say hello wink
Just going to Bump this back to the top of the page incase anyone fancies sending a nice pm to James or ourselves with some places to go dogging around Kent.
We get there on Sunday and would love to get out and about for some naughty fun wink
Quote by Mick-southport
I know where you mean but have never been there dogging, is it always good or was it a one off?? x

We used to go regularly, but there is a lot of police activity at the moment and has been for around 12 months. This is mainly due to complaints being made about the litter (read condoms etc) being left behind and a lot of about daytime activity going on and the impact on families who also use the area.
Used to be a brilliant place and hope that from reading the post above, it may be getting back to what it used to be wink
Hi James, cant help you with any places which are being used at the moment, but if you do find out about any, can you (or anyone else) drop us a message as we are down there next week wink
When you put your photos on, the site asks who is in the photo rather than which type of profile the photo belongs to. So if it is a single female or male, and you rate it as this, it will go into the gallery for for photos of single males/females and not couples.
Hope that helps, but the gallery rating is for the kind of photo, not the type of account it belongs to.
Hi Hugh, you need to alter your 'profile' settings.
click on the Photos button on the left of the page and this will take you to a page where you can view all your photos. You will need to decide which one you want as your profile picture and then click on the little down arrow below that picture and set it to your profile picture.
This will then show on any adverts you place (as well as the ones you decide to put on your advert).
Not that I have been perving, but the body pic, with the tie and open shirt would be a good profile photo :twisted:
Quote by pumkin16542
oh ty babe i do try my best to make them work xxx wink
i wil be wearing my basque again lol

If you are trying to make me even more sad cause I cant come, then you are managing it :sad:
See you at the July one hopefully xxx
Quote by hornygirlanhim
The area to your right as you go in is actually designated cars only so that is my point but I agree that you do get a lot of cars in the wagon parking area but we will persevere
and am sure we will be out again this week

Fingers crossed for you both, and if you see us down there, give us a wave wink
:sad: :sad: hope you have a brilliant night (know you will, cause they are the best nights ever) but sorry, we cant make it to this one :sad: :sad:
At the end of the day, the wagon drivers have as much right as you or me to be in the car park, it is a public place and if anything, it is the us, the doggers/couples/those putting on a show, who are in the wrong.
We have used that place loads of times and yes, there is always a lot of wagons parked up, but it is a waggon parking area, always has been and probably, always will be. The doggers stray over into the larger car park which is normally occupied by the wagons and so the wagons stray over into the smaller car park.
If you dont want any wagon drivers watching you, go very late on, as most are trying to get some sleep, or they are on their way to the ferries. Alternatively, if it is guaranteed fun you are after, do pre arranged meets at a private location, where up to a point, you can control who watches/joins in.
Quote by mixerspike
there is some right ones i can tell you stories from so called couples that turn out not to be couples lol anyone pm me for them don,t feel right to pubicise them lol

It is also against the site rules to name and shame, so please dont do it publicly. However, if you are aware of any profiles which are set up as a couple and who should really be a single, then we also ask that you report the profile so that we can investigate and make sure the status is showing as correct wink
Hi and welcome to the site, really do hope you find what you are looking for.:welcome:
One post which is probably of use to you both is this one, which provides some good back ground info and good general advice on dogging and the (sometimes followed) etequate wink
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Another way of getting some advice or help is to probably ask specific questions and then hopefully one of us will come along and give you a bit more information, cause its a bit difficult to give advice when not sure what you are specifically after.
What ever you decide, be safe and have fun :wink:
Quote by Dawnie
I wasn't expecting to make friends on here, but I'm really glad I have.

Same here :thumbup:
Same here :thumbup:
Same really as what Nola said, two of our closest friends we met through this site and although we are not play friends, we do go to clubs together, go out for meals, go for normal days out and we probably are closer to them than we are to other friends we have met outside of swingin. That could well be because we can all be open and dont have to come up with excuses as to where we are going at weekend, and why we buy baby wipes and condoms wink
yes we do, well some do, and some dont, same as some men do and some men dont lol
Have to say that in a real life situation, a few times I have picked up on colleagues who are gay/bi where it has not been openly obvious, but a friend/colleague also picked up on me being bi, and she does not even know we swing wink
Perhaps they check out who is in the car park and then do a runner as there is no one around they would consider playing with?
Perhaps they get a call to go home, domestic emergency?
Perhaps they just get cold feet and decide it isnt for them (not literally cold feet, but over winter, that could be the case)?
Thousands of reasons why they go, but for us, it is usually the first reason, and that the doggers act in a pack like manner and scare the living daylights out of us.
I once did something similar, getting all coffuffled about swinging and sex related things.
I was in a meeting at work, and have to admit, I felt totally out of my depth with the conversation and it was showing. During one of the breaks, some of the attendee's where talking about a local shop being broken into and having around £50,000 in goods and cash taken. I decided to join in the conversation and said how suprised I was that a Porn shop had so much stock, only for one of them to pipe up it was a Pawn shop.
Quick exit for me redface
AndSam, why do you keep asking if people remember seeing you at a club? What is so important about it?
Wouldnt it have been easier telling people your user name whilst you was in the club rather than do a post about it?
Thanks everyone, and so glad you all had a good night. As for sore feet and heads, no sympathy for you, serves you all right for beint total party animals lol
As for Dawnie, well all I can say is 'she made me' bolt