Hi Snow, welcome to the site and to the forums. I would say don't worry too much about bumping into anyone you know because if you do, it means they are also into swinging so will probably be as nervous as you. Plus they are not going to go round telling people that they saw you at the local swingers club/house party/threesome party as it would just be giving away that they are swingers as well.
Good luck, take your time to settle in, and really do hope you find what you are looking for.
The Guest list is now open for a fantastic new party night on Saturday, 16th August 2014 at Partners in Bury.
Greedy night is especially for all you Greedy Girls and Boys out there, with lots of laughs and fun, in fantastic surroundings, including a large social area, where you can enjoy a drink and chat, go for a lovely warm Jacuzzi and a sauna, play in the dungeon or one of the many private and open playrooms, take a wander through the superb new maze and finally check out the suspended bed specially for all you naughty couples. Doors open at 8pm and membership is not needed for single males so long as your name is on the Guest list.
Add your names to the list here by posting in this thread, or just send a message to and we will get back to you with more information on this fabulous new party night.
So, come on, what your waiting for, get your names down.
Getting all giddy now, and if you are going say hello and hopefully see you all at Partners later tonight x
Ohhhhh, getting all excited now :twisted:
Really gutted as these are always on weekends when we cant get down, and we heard so many good things about Xtasia.
Hope you all have a brilliant night.
The famous and fabulous Black4White party nights are back at partners, in Bury, and the first one is taking place on Saturday, 12th July 2014.
The party is open to everyone, but for any single males who are not a member of the club, Membership will not be required for the night, so long as your name is on the list we will be providing to the Club.
Costs
Couples - £25
Single Male (members) - £30
Single Male (non-member) - £40
The doors open at 8pm and close at 3am, and for anyone who has not been, it has fabulous facilities, a great wet area, free large lockers, a bar area where you can buy soft drinks, tea, coffee, snacks, or they will serve you with your own alcohol. The club has brilliant, friendly staff who are always happy to help and will definitely make you welcome (and we are not in anyway connected with the club, we just like going).
All details of the club can be found on the clubs section of the site.
If you have any questions, or if you want adding to the list, or details of local hotels etc. get in touch.
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Hi, welcome to the site and really hope you have a great time. The forums are a brilliant place to start looking round and when you feel a bit more comfortable, I would definitely say nip into the chatrooms for a natter.
Parties etc are usually advertised in the forums, the Photo Ads or in the Meets section (top of the page, last tab along) or you can check out the calendar to see what is happening near you.
If you do ask to go to a party, just mention it is your first time and most hosts will arrange a hand holder or introduce you to people when you get there, but I think you will find most parties are very easy going, and you are never made to do anything you don't feel comfortable with.
Hope you both have a brilliant time x