Two's, we really cannot imagine what you are going through at the moment, and how you must feel. We have both lost people very close to us, and know the hurt, pain and sense of emptiness that is there and will be for a long time, but we all you can do now is take it one day at a time. Do what feels right for you and only do as much or as little as you feel comfortable with (and I am not referring to swinging, I mean life in general).
Some people will feel as if they don't know what to say to you, or how to behave when they see you, and inviting you to their events, is probably their way (rightly or wrongly) of showing they are thinking of you and are trying to be as normal as they possible can be. Don't hold it against them, they are probably just trying to be there for you.
As for what you will do now, there is no need to decide today, tomorrow or the week after. Take each day as it comes and don't worry about things you don't need to worry about. Just make sure that what ever happens, you take advantage of the support of friends and family, they are invaluable at a time like this, and although it is little comfort, just wanted you to know that although we have never met you, we are thinking of you xxxxx
Looking at the responses in this thread, I would say that most people would feel very uncomfortable having a photographer at a club or a party - http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/419983.html
However, one other club in the North West (I think it was the Gatehouse) did do a photography night a few months ago, and that seemed to go down really well and was very popular. Everyone who was going, was told it was a photography night, and it gave them the chance to have some professional photos taken in a quite sexy setting (they didn't take photos of people playing, it was posed photography).
Thanks guys, we have decided we wont risk going to this event and have told the organiser the reason why. They did say they wouldn't take our photo if we didn't want it taken, or they would blank our faces out, but I just don't think that swingers clubs and cameras go together, so would not be able to relax. Just hate the idea of a photo of us ending up on Twitter or the organisers profile on another site.
Just after other peoples opinion on this or to see if it is just us being a bit silly.
A club that we like going to, have started to organise Greedy Girl nights and as this is something we have not tried, we decided we would give it a go, but we have checked with the organiser and he has told us that he will have a photographer at the club on the night, taking photos of the action. I did raise concerns with the organiser but the response was that faces would be deleted if we didn't feel comfortable.
I always thought that clubs and event organisers should have a duty of care for the people attending and aware of the need for privacy. The organiser of this particular event (which is not via Swinging Heaven and is not being organised by the club, although they have given permission for the photos to be taken) does advertise his parties on the Internet and on Twitter, so really do feel uncomfortable about this being allowed.
Is it us being overly sensitive with this?
This may be me being a bit over sensitive but would love to hear others peoples opinions on this.
We have recently found out a club we like to go to is holding a greedy girls nights, and as this is something we have not done, decided we would give it a try. Then we found out, the organiser also has a photographer that goes around taking photos of all the action so they can drum up more business for their next events. It is not the club who is organising the event but they are aware of the photos being taken.
We contacted the organiser who did say the photographer would blank out our faces on any photos, but this has just totally freaked me out that a complete stranger, is being allowed in a swingers club to take photos, and then posts them on other swingers sites and on their Twitter profile.
Are we being to sensitive here, or is a photographer in a club just so wrong?
This may be me being a bit over sensitive but would love to hear others peoples opinions on this.
We have recently found out a club we like to go to is holding a greedy girls nights, and as this is something we have not done, decided we would give it a try. Then we found out, the organiser also has a photographer that goes around taking photos of all the action so they can drum up more business for their next events. It is not the club who is organising the event but they are aware of the photos being taken.
We contacted the organiser who did say the photographer would blank out our faces on any photos, but this has just totally freaked me out that a complete stranger, is being allowed in a swingers club to take photos, and then posts them on other swingers sites and on their Twitter profile.
Are we being to sensitive here, or is a photographer in a club just so wrong?
Was very quite last time we was down and we did notice a lot less people at the usual spots in Kent, but hope it picks up before we are back down next year :twisted:
Oh yes please, love your parties, always the best and if Santa is cuming, then can we cum as well :twisted:
Ohhhh, can we go on the list please
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