hey,
think i have stepped on some toes!!! i didnt say what im going to do or planning to do, did i? everyone's comment is gratefully appreciated and by telling more people about this i have found different solutions.(alcohol and avoidance being the main ones!!!) but more seriously; im still undecided and trying to prolong this decision, hopefully i'll feel less towards her (eventually). cant even go to my favourite pub or the cinema, which play all the odd/foreign films, cos she lives around that area. i cant even seem to talk to new people (let alone women), so im tryng to keep my self busy otherways.
p.s. for the members i troubled; what is the quotation line at the end of your posts.
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Neoamara
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 42
0 miles · Greater London
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hi,
thanks for the replies but almost everyone is telling me to move on with the next woman who is single. i would be gladly willing to do that but its been almost 2 months since i saw her last and my mind is still messed-up/even worse. thought this feeling would go away after a few days/weeks but still feel as poignant as the day i saw her.
please dont stop the advice muchly appreciated
p.s. special thanks for 'fabioplum' and 'tyracer' for your support
thanks for the replies but almost everyone is telling me to move on with the next woman who is single. i would be gladly willing to do that but its been almost 2 months since i saw her last and my mind is still messed-up/even worse. thought this feeling would go away after a few days/weeks but still feel as poignant as the day i saw her.
please dont stop the advice muchly appreciated
p.s. special thanks for 'fabioplum' and 'tyracer' for your support
hello fellow adventurers,
the following dilemma has been keeping me up several nights and would like some advice, its a very common problem but im finding the advice and answers from the people i have asked (mainly my age group) hard to digest. so i thought i should reach a more experince and knowledgable audience. here goes;
there was this girl (around my age)i used to see when i went to a particular shop whom i really really liked, so after a month or so; we got talking (during her breaks) and we became very comfortable with each other but we never met each other outside her work environment or mine. then i got a job which forced me to stop making my regular visits to this shop for quite sometime (about 5 months). however; while at a pub i saw her, so i went up to her and we started talking, she said that she was very pleased to see me. because she was with her friends i couldnt "talk" to her properly but managed asked her if she had a boyfriend/partner, she said yes and also said that they have been seeing each other for 2 years, i tried to allow the conversation flow till her friends took her away until she hugged and kissed each other (innocent) to say goodbye; just the feel of her skin and the smell of her hair and of the nape of her neck sent my mind in to this current state! the other thing was: while she was leaving with her friends, to the meet another set of friends at the other end of the pub, she looked back and gave me a look of sadness or regretfulness (check spelling and word!) towards me. now i want you enlighten pleasure seekers to help me decide what to do? should i go for her or just find someone else? as i said before my frineds advice has been hard to swallow (no pun intended), so i would like a more mature and knowledgable guidance to this predicament.
this is a very odd topic but needed to know the consensus before i take a step forward from the crossroad i stand and all replies welcome.
the following dilemma has been keeping me up several nights and would like some advice, its a very common problem but im finding the advice and answers from the people i have asked (mainly my age group) hard to digest. so i thought i should reach a more experince and knowledgable audience. here goes;
there was this girl (around my age)i used to see when i went to a particular shop whom i really really liked, so after a month or so; we got talking (during her breaks) and we became very comfortable with each other but we never met each other outside her work environment or mine. then i got a job which forced me to stop making my regular visits to this shop for quite sometime (about 5 months). however; while at a pub i saw her, so i went up to her and we started talking, she said that she was very pleased to see me. because she was with her friends i couldnt "talk" to her properly but managed asked her if she had a boyfriend/partner, she said yes and also said that they have been seeing each other for 2 years, i tried to allow the conversation flow till her friends took her away until she hugged and kissed each other (innocent) to say goodbye; just the feel of her skin and the smell of her hair and of the nape of her neck sent my mind in to this current state! the other thing was: while she was leaving with her friends, to the meet another set of friends at the other end of the pub, she looked back and gave me a look of sadness or regretfulness (check spelling and word!) towards me. now i want you enlighten pleasure seekers to help me decide what to do? should i go for her or just find someone else? as i said before my frineds advice has been hard to swallow (no pun intended), so i would like a more mature and knowledgable guidance to this predicament.
this is a very odd topic but needed to know the consensus before i take a step forward from the crossroad i stand and all replies welcome.
