Thanks to all so far for your replies.
Lil, you are right more a bad use of words and not the situation!!
Peanut, I think you hit the nail on the head, I am sure that for both of us it is just that what we fantasise about is not the "Norm" in society and because we are both (as I am sure most swingers are) very much normal, we sometimes question our "normal" thoughts for our right to have fun!!
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