We are a strong minded mid 30s couple from Essex. We are just starting out on our journey into the vast world of sexual adventure. We indeed are complely in love with an unbreakable emotional bond and are looking to take things slowly to the next level to enhance our already great sex life. We have children and a happy home with busy working lives so we are just dipping our toes to see if anything out of the norm is for us. The male in this relationship is 100% straight, but likes the idea of watching his partner with others M or F. The female of this relationship isn't bisexual but is a little curious in soft play and appreciates the beauty of a woman's body. So you can understand we are still discovering. We love to please each other and watch each other have pleasure. We like toys, oral, not yet done anal sex as of yet but that's the next thing on our list. We have our own fantasies and want to try our best to play them out for each other, within reason. As we said, we are strongly bonded together and anything we encounter we do as a couple as a complete unit. Ideally we would like to enter these depths by attending some soft swinger clubs or parties without any pressure to participate for now. So any information for our situation would be greatly appreciated. Thanks 👍 photos will be uploaded as and when we feel is right.