48 year old male, married, poly, professionally employed, and frequently found halfway up a mountain wondering why skis/climbing boots/hiking packs all have to hurt quite so much.

My wife and I have been together for nearly 20 years and built something solid, trusting, and refreshingly drama-free. We both have demanding careers and spend parts of the week living separately, which leaves room for independent connections and adventures.

Mr OC IS heterosexual; Mrs OC is bisexual. We’re very open and honest with each other, and while a threesome isn’t completely off the table, this profile is primarily about Mr OC finding his own connection — ideally an ongoing friends-with-benefits dynamic with someone in London who enjoys chemistry, conversation, flirtation, and the occasional inability to keep hands to ourselves.

Mr OC can be shy at first, but warm up quickly with the right person. Expect quick wit, intelligent conversation, sarcasm in healthy quantities, and a man who’s more “active dad bod” than gym narcissist. He would much rather take you hiking, or make you laugh over wine than pose shirtless in a bathroom mirror.

Discretion matters. Kindness matters more.

Not looking for a unicorn, not looking to “spice up” a marriage in crisis, and not looking for endless messaging with no intention behind it. Just hoping to meet someone bright, attractive, emotionally intelligent, and interested in a genuine ongoing connection with mutual attraction and zero dishonesty.

Mrs OC is fully aware, fully supportive, and happy to reassure anyone who prefers openness from the outset.