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PaulnOlive
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 71
Bisexual Female, 68
0 miles · Derby

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Went out last night (Sun) unfortunately no other cpls about, fortunately one considerate, very polite and none pushy single guy did get the night of his life hehehehhehehhe.
Will continue to hunt out those special cpls only places in the hope of spreading his good fortune arround a with other cpls lol
Paul n Olive xxxxxxxxxxxxxx biggrin :D :D
Will be about wirksworth matlock areas tonight from around 10-30
Primarily looking for playing cpls (we are players)
ty for those words of advice mr Frogster however we would like to inform you we are well known having been members of swinging heaven for some time now and having met many nice peeps from here at organised munches and privately.
just because we do not put multiple posts up please dont assume we are
1 new members
2 naive
3 not active
4 single guy pretending
Paul n Olive
ps how dare you suggest that you are some kind of member of some inner circle of doggers quote "The more discreet sites are discreet because we don’t tell just anyone that asks".
ok last weekend this did not work maybe this weekend we have better luck.
Anyone know of any decent sites not plagued by single guys in or arround Derby or emids we are looking to have some fun sunday evening
Dont believe this only one pm and no replies maybe we need to work out how to place a pic on here. Anyway for those that dont reply to posts without pics take a look at our add in the doggers section a cpl of pics on there.
Paul n Olive
Come on there must be some sexy peeps in or around Derbyshire up for some fun this weekend
Paul n Olive
Hi guys n Gals we are looking to have a little carpark fun this weekend anyone got any ideas of locations other than the usual well known boy racer single guy crowded venues.
Will be looking primarily for cpls who are players (like ourselves) and possibly a few select singles however would apreciate finding somewhere that is known and used only by responsible players.
Please pm with locations and times if interested.
Paul n Olive
Ok so last night (Sat) we had no replies, how about tonight (sun25th) anyone interested.
Hi we are looking for other cpls for later tonight in Derby, Notts or Liec. We are sick of the popular but little true action venues so if you are out later tonight 10-30 onwards and you are players not just watchers (heheheheh) check out our site add 18413 and if you like what you see email us with venues and times. Alternitevely please pm us here before 8pm
PaulnOlive
MMMMMMMMMMMM wonder if it because we mispelt Derby we not having any replies lol
So just to make it clear we are from Derby and looking for other cpls within 50 miles traveling but preferably local.
Paul N Olive :P :P
Hi cpl looking to have full fun with other cpls tomorow (Sunday) night in or around Derby.
Olive finishes work at 10pm and would like to go str8 from there to good spot and have some fun. we are not inexperienced (been full swinging for a few years) however we feel we may be missing out on some good outdoors fun.
If you are a cpl and would like to meet then pm with locations and we will get back to you.
Paul n Olive :P :P
Whilst fully backing the notion that the offence of is obohrent and repulsive we must point out that no one is guilty of any offence here yet. Should the jury find the acused guilty then he deserves to go to prison for a very long time.
However we feel bye the reaction shown here in this post that we are somwhat guilty of the usual public over reaction to doggers ourselves.
If you look at the facts as reported and take time to reflect instead of react we feel that although a may have taken place the facts do not ring as true as first thought.
Can we believe that someone would actually in a strange land get into a car on the premise of being a jurnalist on a scoop, be forced to take cocain and then believe that out of 6 guys dogging not one would actually have the decency to try and stop it. and what about the acused would you seriously try and someone in front of a croud of strangers in your own car.
it seems to us that although a serious crime may well have taken place the facts may have been somewhat embelished in an attempt to secure a conviction.
we are sory if we offend anyone for our views all we are saying is in this country we have a very good judicial system based on the premise of inoccence until proved guilty and doggers should not be castigared until that guilt is proven
have safe fun Paul n Olive
Thanks Blue it has not put us off just taken the spontinuity out of it as next time we will not go without prior arrangement with another cpl
Oh and rather than knuckle sandwitch a stern "Would you like to fuck off" did the trick lol
maybe we will bump into you some time
Paul n Olive :P
Hi guys we are from Derby and tried dogging for our first time last weekend .
Went to the place you mention (the rear carpark) late Sat night and was very disapointed.
Was no cpls only gangs of single guys (Olive had some fun giving a small show with a little interaction with one single guy) however we did find it a little disapointing and was unsure what to do.
We have since tried a location north of Notts (very well known with a number of alternative areas) and although olive had some extremely horny fun with single guys again no cpls and a cpl of single guys in one car brought procedings to an abrupt end when totaly uninvited the screemed into car park jumped out of car pushed guy Olive was playing with (whilst naked and riding Paul) out of way and demanded she please them.
We made hasty exit and am now considering wether dogging really for us.
Think we may give it one more try after a few weeks break however this time we will try and arrange to meet other cpl on here and arrange a meeting.
Paul n Olive xxxxxxxxxx
Has this thread got clouded in some way. We believe the person that wrote the first post was trying to say "the swinging scene is infected with drug abuse". Well if it is we must be going around with our eyes closed as in the 2 (very active) years we have been swinging, we have only ever come across any drug taking once (apart from some guys and girls using viagra). This was at a club and was a girl who was sniffing a bottle of poppers at the point of orgasm. We did say 2 active years this means we swing most weeks and have travelled very extensively across the country to meet people, we are also very active in the club scene.
We also have adds on many different sites and as far as we can recollect have never come across an add that actually states they take drugs.
Paul N Olive
Hi Gibbles,
We have to admit we are one of those cpls who are guilty of not replying to E-Mails from those that are not for us.
We do have good reason for this and that is we firmly believe if we say no thanks we do not have to give reasons, however, we have on a few occassions then had the recipients open into further bouts of e-mailing trying to find out why.
One thing your query has bought to our attention though is we do not (or did not) state this in our add so ty we have now updated our add to read none response means you are not for us.
We all have different oppinions of what is the right or wrong protocol to use within the swinging world but one thing we are sure about is it is individual choice and although you may upset some people some times you need to do what is right for yourselves.
Good luck in your endeavures
:P Paul n Olive
OOOOOOPS bugered that up sory Fred
meant to qoute passage in reply.
anyway point taken we fully acknowledge we was rude to you and have since apologised in room hope you noticed.
Yes i think we all make assumptions at times and can be guilty of cutting people short however we have tried not to recently and mostly you will see our standard reply to pmers.
although our reply apears sharp it is just our light hearted way of informin pmers (all not just single guys) that we prefer to chat in room and those that do single or cpls we will chat to.
please accept our appology for our behaviour when we first discovered this room once again and rest assured we do try to be friendly and will respond positively to any reminders if we slip.
love to both yourself and Wilma
Paul n Olive :P
Quote by Flintstones
Have to agree with Paul n Olive here.
The chat room reflects this thread in that "fit bloke in essex with 12" know - anyone wanna shag" is oft said and more frequently ignored.
As Moderators we get asked regulary why there is not one room for couples and one for single males. It will never work for about 30 different reasons which I won't go into here. But what I will say is that most of the people who get booted from the chat room do so for pvting people without asking or for being abusive. But have to say some couples and single females are offenders as well - let's not just blame the single males!
As to the bleating idiots and one liners - they are just an annoyance at worst and entertainment the rest of the time! There is also some justification for some of their bleating - the number of times these people say hi and get ignored is sometimes rude.
I always say hi when they say hi and wilma will always chat to them when they ask to chat. She always tells em to read the ad and leaves them under no illusion that it is just chat because they are single males- but she always chats to them.
They may seem like dillusioned, diseased, demented dogs at times - but not all of them are! Some of them have become firm friends in the chat room - and if a new single male asks me how it works - I always give them the fartherly advice on how to fit in and then try and introduce them to the room with a bit of banter - I can usually rely on a couple of regulars to help me work them in!
One sad note though Paul - when you first came to the room you did treat me quite badly by chopping me off at the knees when I first spoke to you, and I have seen you do it to others that are regulars that you made assumptions about! When you challenged me as to why we were not called "Fred&Wilma" so it showed we were a couple I could not be bothered to explain that we had to have seperate and clearly distinguised nicks because I was a moderator and Wilma was not because at that point you had been rude to me!
Fred (Male part of the Flintstones - husband to Wilma - but signs in seperately because she lets me out on my own sometimes - even if it is only in a virtual world!)
I always try to be civil to everyone - have a laugh and a joke.
Whilst we agree the chat room of this site can get s/guy top heavy and some of them do act as the originator of this string suggests we wory that there is an over reaction.
4 times this weekend alone whilst chatting in other sites and recomending this site (quickly becoming our favourite) we have had the response "Have heard it is full of people complaining about s/guys and not actually talking about swinging". we have streniously defended the site however we wory that people are going to miss out on a great experience and hope the site does not get labeled.
As far as the forums and adds are concerned (this seems to be the complaint of the originator) we see no evidence of any bleating from single guys at all and very little in the forums so have to asume the originatior actually means the chat room.
Come on guys lets all live together in harmany and if you are anoyed at someones attitude ignore or report to moderator lets not advertise to the rest of the world all our thoughts (risking a reputation of whingers)
Have fun and be nice to each other
Paul and Olive
Hi Guys Paul n Olive here just thought we would add our two penneth worth (oops showing our age should be at least 2 quids worth now).
Anyway well done mark very well put shows us swingers in a respectable light. Only the one negative for us and that is the statement swinging not to be done as a means to spice up you sex life we feel exactly the oposite and would imagine most peeps do it for exactly that reason. Do agree totally about being in stable and loving relationship though (we been very happily married 28yrs), it probably the most important consideration. If your relationship not stable and above all loving then it going to cause inevitable problems.
Thought the guys in the final piece absolutely spot on and the type of couple we would travel to the end of the world for (Paul not bi but they sound like they would respect that totaly).
Now the second piece we deliberately left to last, does any one else get the same feeling as us, the guy is living in a fantasy world. Who would ever choose their swinging couples the same way this guy says he does. We would suggest it has to be the most unproductive way of having swing fun possible (yet he claimes to have slept with 1800 women in ten years is that not 180 per year or over 3 per weekend). Also his terminoligy is likely to sugest the very sleeze factor we all desperate to shake off ie cruising, something a curb crawler may do but never heard the term used in the swinging scene before. And to suggest he been punched in the face by the occasional angry husband also sugests swinging more dangerous that base jumping lol.
Oh well thats our lot keep up the good work and hope we not bored ya all.
Paul n Olive rolleyes
Hi guys we have attended many room meets in the past and always had fun even arranged a big one in blackpool once where we all stayed in same hotel (remember ordering export lager at 5pm gingerjo lol)
anyway we would love the chance to get to meet some of the peeps we chat to regularly online also gives peeps chance to see you are what you claim to be in room lol.
Keep us informed and if Olive not working or she gets enough notice to change shifts we will be there.
Big round of aplause for the organisers we remember just how difficult it is.
:P PaulnOlive