Hi everyone,
Thought I would have my say! Am really enjoying getting into this whole "swinging" thing. When we first started talking about it I didn't imagine we would actually ever participate in a full swap, but as others have so cleverly pointed out, once the pangs of jealousy fade, there is nothing other than pure erotisism involved. For me, it's the thought of really turning Paul on that drives me wild because of how I feel about him. I don't really think others outside of the scene can appreciate the concept - I certainly couldn't. The overwhelming feeling I've had regarding all this so far is that the majority of people we've met and spoken to are probably the nicest, most honest and genuine couples anyone is ever likely to meet, and I do feel priviledged to be a part of this, hopefully for a long time to come. Am looking forward to many more sexy experiences with my gorgeous partner. Thanks to everyone who has taken the trouble to post a reply.
Paul and Susie (Susie) x
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The jealousy in normal life is always there... not to the extent that it becomes a major problem....I know I get a twinge of jealousy if we're out in a purely social occasion, Susie does to and we both tend to make it very clear, a really teenage way that we are together.
But in the swinging scene, i find myself really wanting to show Susie off cos she's beautiful... no jealousy at all... unless it's a crowd of leering blokes(as happened at first party we went to) then i get very protective.....
Paul and Susie (Paul)
But in the swinging scene, i find myself really wanting to show Susie off cos she's beautiful... no jealousy at all... unless it's a crowd of leering blokes(as happened at first party we went to) then i get very protective.....
Paul and Susie (Paul)
Peterpiper,
I know exactly what you are saying. Susie is an incredibly sexy woman, i don't just say that because she's my partner, it's true. When we go out, to a pub, club adult party etc... it's Susie that gets most of the attention.
Initially, the thought of us 'swinging' was an incredible turn on. Then doubt crept into our minds,(susie feels the same about me with other women) But the thoughts that we had just wouldn't go away and so we decided to just go for it. Although Friday was our first full encounter, we have attended one party, and 'dogged' etc....
Seeing Susie with another bloke although initially a shock... was such an erotic experience and like i said, because of Friday night, our sexual desires reached boiling point all weekend... so.. its all good!!!!
Paul and Susie(Paul)
I know exactly what you are saying. Susie is an incredibly sexy woman, i don't just say that because she's my partner, it's true. When we go out, to a pub, club adult party etc... it's Susie that gets most of the attention.
Initially, the thought of us 'swinging' was an incredible turn on. Then doubt crept into our minds,(susie feels the same about me with other women) But the thoughts that we had just wouldn't go away and so we decided to just go for it. Although Friday was our first full encounter, we have attended one party, and 'dogged' etc....
Seeing Susie with another bloke although initially a shock... was such an erotic experience and like i said, because of Friday night, our sexual desires reached boiling point all weekend... so.. its all good!!!!
Paul and Susie(Paul)
It's pretty reassuring to know that others have had similar experiences to myself. We didn't really expect things to go as far as they did, I guess the fact that we all had a fair bit to drink was probably the reason why it did go as far as it did.
thankyou everyone for your kind words.
And yes.... here's to some more fun encounters....
Paul and Susie(Paul)
thankyou everyone for your kind words.
And yes.... here's to some more fun encounters....
Paul and Susie(Paul)
Hi all,
I would like to know, if like me, anyone in a stable relationship had any doubts 'after' a full swing for the first time. The better half and I had our first 'full swing' encounter last Friday and If i'm honest, momentarily after, I had a little tiny bit of doubt in my mind. This doubt quickly passed and we enjoyed talking about our encounter for the rest of the weekend, as well as being at each other like never before all weekend too!!!
I guess, for me it was maybe the initial shock of my beloved engaged in sexual activity with another guy. After the initial shock of seeing Susie, it quickly passed and i then began to feel aroused at the thought of it all. I'm very happy to say that we've talked this all through and that we are both extremely happy with the way things went and really look forward to our next encounter.
Anyone ever been to Radlett Parties? we're hopefully going on Saturday and just wondered if anyone had ever been.
Paul and Susie (Paul)
I would like to know, if like me, anyone in a stable relationship had any doubts 'after' a full swing for the first time. The better half and I had our first 'full swing' encounter last Friday and If i'm honest, momentarily after, I had a little tiny bit of doubt in my mind. This doubt quickly passed and we enjoyed talking about our encounter for the rest of the weekend, as well as being at each other like never before all weekend too!!!
I guess, for me it was maybe the initial shock of my beloved engaged in sexual activity with another guy. After the initial shock of seeing Susie, it quickly passed and i then began to feel aroused at the thought of it all. I'm very happy to say that we've talked this all through and that we are both extremely happy with the way things went and really look forward to our next encounter.
Anyone ever been to Radlett Parties? we're hopefully going on Saturday and just wondered if anyone had ever been.
Paul and Susie (Paul)
VenusnMars,
I laughed when i saw your latest post. When i was younger chucking out time could've been so much more fun had i been 'educated' about dogging. I don't mind the watchers, be they single guys, couples etc... but i do object to the rise of the boy racers, idiots etc... who think that when a couple turn up at a location, it is almost 'assumed' that the girl is up for a gang bang.....
I mean no disrespect to the genuine single guys who know what to expect, and are very respectful of limits etc.. but if we pull up and are swarmed all over, we just start up the car and leave.
To us, pre-arranged away from the 'usual' locations is a far more erotic experience, and yes, outdoors is SOOooo much more fun than indoors, but indoors, in a club or party, now, that's for us.. yessireeee
Paul and Susie
I laughed when i saw your latest post. When i was younger chucking out time could've been so much more fun had i been 'educated' about dogging. I don't mind the watchers, be they single guys, couples etc... but i do object to the rise of the boy racers, idiots etc... who think that when a couple turn up at a location, it is almost 'assumed' that the girl is up for a gang bang.....
I mean no disrespect to the genuine single guys who know what to expect, and are very respectful of limits etc.. but if we pull up and are swarmed all over, we just start up the car and leave.
To us, pre-arranged away from the 'usual' locations is a far more erotic experience, and yes, outdoors is SOOooo much more fun than indoors, but indoors, in a club or party, now, that's for us.. yessireeee
Paul and Susie
Dogging to some people is far more erotic and exciting than pre-arranged meets or swinging parties.... i guess the 'unknown' factor may have something to do with it.
I know for us, 'dogging' meant easing us into the scene, although our very first experience swinging was a full on party...lol, we've only been dogging a couple of times and i guess it can be exciting but pre-arranged or parties is best for us.
We ourselves would love more pre-arranged meets away from the 'usual' dogging , but that's only because the majority of the places now are full of idiots. Also, far too many single blokes about these days.......
Paul and Susie
I know for us, 'dogging' meant easing us into the scene, although our very first experience swinging was a full on party...lol, we've only been dogging a couple of times and i guess it can be exciting but pre-arranged or parties is best for us.
We ourselves would love more pre-arranged meets away from the 'usual' dogging , but that's only because the majority of the places now are full of idiots. Also, far too many single blokes about these days.......
Paul and Susie
Hi all,
We are an attractive Kent couple who are looking to meet like-minded adults for fun this weekend. Couples preferred , only replies with photo's will be answered.
Paul is 5'10, muscular build, dark hair, blue eyes and straight
Susie is 5'5, size 12, 34ff bust, blonde hair, blue eyes and also straight.
We are extremely adventurous with each other and are seeking to broaden our sexual horizons with other like minded adults.
PM's only please, lookforward to hearing from you.
Paul and Susie
We are an attractive Kent couple who are looking to meet like-minded adults for fun this weekend. Couples preferred , only replies with photo's will be answered.
Paul is 5'10, muscular build, dark hair, blue eyes and straight
Susie is 5'5, size 12, 34ff bust, blonde hair, blue eyes and also straight.
We are extremely adventurous with each other and are seeking to broaden our sexual horizons with other like minded adults.
PM's only please, lookforward to hearing from you.
Paul and Susie
Young attractive couple out and about this weekend in kent seek other couples for fun times!!! Not really interested in the usual locations as these seem to attract a fair few idiots and too many single guys!!! (no disrespect to all the genuine single guys)
any genuine couple, new to the scene or seasoned please email us with pix, you'll get ours by reply
Paul and Susie
any genuine couple, new to the scene or seasoned please email us with pix, you'll get ours by reply
Paul and Susie
Hiya people,
Bit short notice but what the hell.
Very sexy Kent couple looking for some fun friday night with other genuine People. Not sure what to expect of the response, we haven't had a great response to our posts before now but we thought we'd give it another go. We are newish to the scene but are very horny. We are looking for another attractive couple, single males maybe, but you'll have to be exceptional and very respectful of what we want. contact us with face pics only, via PM.
Paul and Susie
Bit short notice but what the hell.
Very sexy Kent couple looking for some fun friday night with other genuine People. Not sure what to expect of the response, we haven't had a great response to our posts before now but we thought we'd give it another go. We are newish to the scene but are very horny. We are looking for another attractive couple, single males maybe, but you'll have to be exceptional and very respectful of what we want. contact us with face pics only, via PM.
Paul and Susie
Hiya All,
Susie and I are new to the scene, as most of you will know. We had our first 'experience' of dogging a few weeks back and thoroughly enjoyed it. My question to regular doggers and users of the forum is this;
With all the rubbish that is going on regarding dogging, what shall we, newcomers to the scene, do about it?
Pre-arranged meets seem to be the only safe way of ensuring things are OK, but it kind of defeats the object of dogging. We aren't averse to pre-arranged, but it just seems so clinical, whereas dogging, the unknown, the excitement etc.. is being ruined by idiots.
I do worry a little, but not too much but i wonder what/how i would react to some idiots. If being followed, pressured etc..
Susie's safety is of paramount importance to me, as I'm sure it is of the utmost importance to all members regarding partners etc.. I regularly hear all the time that the woman is the boss, is this really true in certain situations?
thoughts please
PaulnSusie (Paul)
Susie and I are new to the scene, as most of you will know. We had our first 'experience' of dogging a few weeks back and thoroughly enjoyed it. My question to regular doggers and users of the forum is this;
With all the rubbish that is going on regarding dogging, what shall we, newcomers to the scene, do about it?
Pre-arranged meets seem to be the only safe way of ensuring things are OK, but it kind of defeats the object of dogging. We aren't averse to pre-arranged, but it just seems so clinical, whereas dogging, the unknown, the excitement etc.. is being ruined by idiots.
I do worry a little, but not too much but i wonder what/how i would react to some idiots. If being followed, pressured etc..
Susie's safety is of paramount importance to me, as I'm sure it is of the utmost importance to all members regarding partners etc.. I regularly hear all the time that the woman is the boss, is this really true in certain situations?
thoughts please
PaulnSusie (Paul)
Hi Jomu,
We are a new couple to the scene and therefore any titbits(no pun intended) of information like this is totally invaluable to us. We had our first 'dogging' experience last Sunday and found it highly erotic, however, being new, we didn't know if there were was any 'code' etc.. that basically said, you can watch us etc...
We've since had a very informative 'tutorial' PM so to speak from a very respectful and friendly guy, whom i know is very popular on the site(you know who you are and thanks a whole bunch)
Paul and Susie
We are a new couple to the scene and therefore any titbits(no pun intended) of information like this is totally invaluable to us. We had our first 'dogging' experience last Sunday and found it highly erotic, however, being new, we didn't know if there were was any 'code' etc.. that basically said, you can watch us etc...
We've since had a very informative 'tutorial' PM so to speak from a very respectful and friendly guy, whom i know is very popular on the site(you know who you are and thanks a whole bunch)
Paul and Susie
Hiya redhead,
No, we're definately not into swapping... same room fun, but not the full swing!!! we're sill real newbies at the moment, but we are quick learners ;-p LOL
Oh, and by the way, thankyou very much to all of the seasoned, regular peeps on here for making us feel very welcome and a few in particular who have advised us on numerous issues... boy, it's a jungle out there. you know who you are!!!!
Paul and Susie
No, we're definately not into swapping... same room fun, but not the full swing!!! we're sill real newbies at the moment, but we are quick learners ;-p LOL
Oh, and by the way, thankyou very much to all of the seasoned, regular peeps on here for making us feel very welcome and a few in particular who have advised us on numerous issues... boy, it's a jungle out there. you know who you are!!!!
Paul and Susie
Hiya,
We're both really new to the scene and this site so our comments may not be of any worth!!!!
I really do think it's a choice you have to make and not let others decide for you. i think there are merits for both cases. In our case, we will definately be leaving ours as a joint account, because we are a couple, we do things as a couple and we are in 'the scene' as a couple. Apart from the odd turd with the most un- imaginative PM to us, or Susie, i should say, most of the messages have been sent to us as a couple and not as individuals,(albeit the odd turd described above) I tend to agree with Daz and Lou's posting. But, if you feel that having your own seperate identities will benefit your use in the forum, then go for it. It's just not for us!!
Paul and Susie (Paul)
We're both really new to the scene and this site so our comments may not be of any worth!!!!
I really do think it's a choice you have to make and not let others decide for you. i think there are merits for both cases. In our case, we will definately be leaving ours as a joint account, because we are a couple, we do things as a couple and we are in 'the scene' as a couple. Apart from the odd turd with the most un- imaginative PM to us, or Susie, i should say, most of the messages have been sent to us as a couple and not as individuals,(albeit the odd turd described above) I tend to agree with Daz and Lou's posting. But, if you feel that having your own seperate identities will benefit your use in the forum, then go for it. It's just not for us!!
Paul and Susie (Paul)
Hiya,
Don't know if anyone from here was there this Sunday, but if you were there, thanks for making this a very erotic experince for Susie and I. As first timers we didn't know what to expect, but we certainly enjoyed ourselves.
Loved having a bit of an audience, we were both as horny as hell and can't wait for the next time.
Paul and Susie
Don't know if anyone from here was there this Sunday, but if you were there, thanks for making this a very erotic experince for Susie and I. As first timers we didn't know what to expect, but we certainly enjoyed ourselves.
Loved having a bit of an audience, we were both as horny as hell and can't wait for the next time.
Paul and Susie
Well folks,
Although completely new to 'the scene' Susie and I actually made it to our first party last night, we enjoyed ourselves to a certain extent. Although we didn't 'play' with any others, don't think we are ready for that, who knows, we may never be, but we did enjoy each other, and with an audience. W were really horny really on in the party and we really wanted to get it on then, looking back, we both agreed that we should have...LOL
I don't know what it was, maybe it was just the party we went to, but i was a little disappointed with it, don't get me wrong, it was nice enough, some really nice people we chatted to, but there were some pillocks that made me especially VERY uncomfortable. It really put a dampener on the evening.
So, we aint first timers no more, but we still have so much to learn!!!!
Paul and Susie
Although completely new to 'the scene' Susie and I actually made it to our first party last night, we enjoyed ourselves to a certain extent. Although we didn't 'play' with any others, don't think we are ready for that, who knows, we may never be, but we did enjoy each other, and with an audience. W were really horny really on in the party and we really wanted to get it on then, looking back, we both agreed that we should have...LOL
I don't know what it was, maybe it was just the party we went to, but i was a little disappointed with it, don't get me wrong, it was nice enough, some really nice people we chatted to, but there were some pillocks that made me especially VERY uncomfortable. It really put a dampener on the evening.
So, we aint first timers no more, but we still have so much to learn!!!!
Paul and Susie
Hiya Majik,
Thanks for the info.... we aren't too disappointed now, we've had a bit of a response, but i guess that trust thing needs to work both ways, once we become regulars to the forum, i'm sure we'll begin to be trusted that we aren't just here for the cheap thrills etc...
Sorry we missed u in chat last night, maybe tonight,
take care
Paul and Susie
Thanks for the info.... we aren't too disappointed now, we've had a bit of a response, but i guess that trust thing needs to work both ways, once we become regulars to the forum, i'm sure we'll begin to be trusted that we aren't just here for the cheap thrills etc...
Sorry we missed u in chat last night, maybe tonight,
take care
Paul and Susie
