I am happily married but every so often as a treat my husband grants me permission to play.... To find a man, men or a woman I like and have a good time with them. Husband is always present but is 100% straight and will not play with men but does enjoy watching me being taken. I don't play with just anyone, there must be a mutual attraction,  no bi or gay men, sorry not our thing. Swinging with couples is complicated as all 4 involved must have a connection otherwise its a non starter, hence why I occasionally get granted permission. 

We have been on the scene around 7 years so were not novices but by no means hardened swingers, just when the mood takes us but we know all the traits of time wasters and fantasists so please don't waste our time. Its precious.