Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Phoenixcouple
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
Bisexual Female, 48
0 miles · Leicestershire

Forum

Trouble with that is recently logged in does not mean genuine, active, swingers.
Surely it would be better to go the opposite way and have an advert de-activate after a month so the user has to actively re-activate it. Also don't force everyone that joins to place an advert that way atleast we stand a chance of actually finding genuine adverts instead of 'Hey look we have a gazillion adverts on our site!' oh yeah but only 100 are actively looking for meets by the way!
WoW.
Spanking I get, ok fair do's, but really should have given some sort of signal before hand or talked about it or started off less firmer and asked if she wanted it harder.
Same for biting...
But spitting & Asphyxiation!?
Ok so some get off on that sort of thing fair enough. But to do it without knowing that or at least mentioning it before....
I consider myself chilled out and relaxed when we play but i'm not sure how I would react if someone spat on my wife or started to Asphyciate her!
For us this is about being able to relax and have fun.
The above to us shows really bad form on the guys part.
Luckily we have never had this, but then we have only met couples upto now and they have all been really cool and relaxed.
Erm doesn't this mean that we're just going to get old adverts rolling over and over?
Why will it encourage people to update them? Most will just ignore them and let them roll over and over and over again.
Wondered why the amount of adverts seemed to have jumped in the last few days...
All those expired adds on profiles that haven't been deleted are now going to re-activate!
Just had a nose at the adds out of interest...
*Wanted... Fun on the 8th of December* ??
and
*6th March fun..???*
Somehow can't see this new system working in favor of genuine people looking for meets.
Just going to be loads of out dated rubbish.
*EDIT*
Ok having looked further this is going to wreck the whole advert system...
Dammit! Just booked VA for that night or we would be there aswell.
Please do keep us in mind for next time..
Have fun everyone!
Xxx
We have booked a room in the hotel at Vanilla Alternatives for the 24th September and we're looking for other couple/couples or single girly/girlies who would like to join us and maybe make a weekend of it.
Possibly meet in a pub beforehand for abit of a drink and a giggle then onto the club in the evening for even more fun and games.
Maybe it'll be your first time like us and you have been thinking about going but reluctant to go on your own? Well come join us and we'll all have someone to hide behind! wink lol. Or you could be a regular that fancies hooking up with our growing group.
The more the merrier!
For those that, like us haven't been before details of the club can be found here:
Please note the 24th is a couples and single females only night...
Drop us a msg or post up here if your interested after checking out all the info on our profile....
Party time is here!!!
Xxx
P.S. For those that are traveling a distance to the club we'll post here which Pub we are going to (when we figure it out) so you can meet us there if you wish for a pre-party warm up :wink:
No phone number = No meet.
No face picture = No meet.
It's not being paranoid or unreasonable! It's having common sense.
Anyone who is reluctant to give either we'd not be interested in meeting anyway as we are only interested in genuine, honest play friends...
Xxxx
Google: Literotica
Goto: Howto
Find: Please release me let me flow.
Read it, practice that technique.
You will never do it if she doesn't know what you are trying to achieve.
Even better get her to read it to.
Once she does it once it's easier next time round.
Hope that helps......
To be fair, we think there's alot of people on her that could do with a serious dose of honesty! Included in that would be the omissions from certain profiles aswell!
We have met and made some great friends on her and the ones we stay intouch with are always the ones that are simply totally honest and open and prepared to except honesty in return. (which far to many can't handle either)
For example we always used to reply to every msg received, even if it was a polite 'thank you very much for your msg but we feel that your not for us' then having received a reply of 'Why?' and then proceeding to argue the point we gave up. Just except the no thanks!
Single girls... We are coming to believe they are a myth on here! Lol. We have met several couples and would love to meet a single girl as it's something we have not tried yet. However every one we have spoken to never seems to work out. Maybe meeting face to face in a club will sort that out. But on here they either seem to be not playing alone atall, male, only want to talk/cam, or something else lol.
Then there's the couples that omit things like the fem is happy for another fem to go down on her but doesn't like to return the gesture. If that's your thing then cool. Just say so before a meet! (Mainly because Mr P is sick of hearing Mrs P moan about it on the way home!) lol
Then there's the 'couples' where the male wants a couple to help 'surprise' his Mrs. Puuuuulease! Get real!
Hmmmmm well that turned into abit of a rant lol.... Sorry redface
:thumbup:
Quote by wild rose and the stag
:thumbup:Forget spending all that money on a rabbit. Hitachi Magic Wand is where the big 'O' happens!! You can get one online for about the same price as your rabbit wink
Quote by HugsnKisses
I like to look nice and would choose something because I like it and it looks and feels good on. I wouldn't spend more because of the venue costing more, that would be silly .

We'll second that....
£200! Lol must be professionals involved?
Quote by HugsnKisses
I like to look nice and would choose something because I like it and it looks and feels good on. I wouldn't spend more because of the venue costing more, that would be silly .

We'll second that....
£200! Lol must be professionals involved?
Quote by two-4-more
Ooh I dunno it's a vimto lolly... You may have to wrestle her for it lol

Vimto you say.... Hmmmm we're in for the tag team! Lol
Might even have to bring some extra lolly's....
Quote by skinny
The two guys should meet first and alone...have a chat whatever..Then not only will mr. feel more comfortable, his wife too will presumably feel confident that her other half has her best interests at heart.

This is what I would do if I was trying to sort something out for Mrs P like this.
If the guy is genuine he will have no issue meeting you for a beer so you can see him face to face and have a chat about what you both want.
If I were the guy I'd have no issue with this. It'll also let you know he is genuine and is a swinger rather than a single bloke looking for a free f*ck.
To my way of thinking it is perfectly understandable that you want to know you are not meeting a nutter with your wife after all if you are going to hand your wife over then you need to be able to trust him aswell.
Quote by SinSi
Naked ski jumping on a Wii balance board

Mmm lots of fun! Lol
Something about sticking the bum out when a girl jumps! Lol
Quote by SinSi
Naked ski jumping on a Wii balance board

Mmm lots of fun! Lol
Something about sticking the bum out when a girl jumps! Lol
Our postcode is on our profile to and even if some others have got it on theirs or the distance calculator enabled surely it should do something? lol
Quote by Funlovers2009
It may be just us but the distance filter doesn't seem to be working? No matter wether we select that option all we get when we 'hover' over a username is the name in a little popup box by the curare arrow...

I thought the distance funtion just put them in order of who was closest. Either way it didnt work!! dunno
Errrm that maybe the case lol.
But as you say it's still not working.
Also now seems that if we have any filters set and change rooms it doesn't show the new user list in the new room. We can see them chatting but not who's in the room!
How an earth are we supposed to 'research' profiles when this happens! wink
It may be just us but the distance filter doesn't seem to be working? No matter wether we select that option all we get when we 'hover' over a username is the name in a little popup box by the curare arrow...
That moment just before orgasm! Both feeling it in yourself and trying to prolong it and if it goes just right recognising it in your partner and being able to hold them just at that point. Through experience the longer either of you spend in that 'zone' the bigger the orgasm that follows..... Mmmmmmmmm brings back fond memories!
We have had loads lol.
Then ended up getting a wand, still buy different ones that take our eye and always end up 'cuming' lol back to the wand.
Our other most commonly used one is the Slimline - G, G-spot vib. Most of the rest tend to end up staying in the cupboard now... X
Quote by Funlovers2009
The couples used some very sweeping statements "its not about looks" etc. Speak for yourself!!! If we go to a club and bump into a couple with a great personality it doesn't mean that we would shag them. There has to be a physical attraction. Don't get me wrong, we don't just look for pretty people, some people do have attractive personalities but it takes time to recognise this, not one weekend in a swinging club. I know for a fact that a lot of swingers look at this in the same way. We have had this conversation with lots of people and most agree that if they want to meet and play then they have to find someone physically attractive. However when you get to know people and although you may not have wanted to play with them when you first meet, you grow to fancy them because they are lovely people with lovely personalities.

Have to agree with this Fun. Whats the point if there is no attraction?
Also we thought the same about the STI part aswell. Ok so there are some irrisponsible people in the scene like any other part of life but generally most practice safe sex don't they?
Lol of course we want to know!
Mrs P likes to lay on her front and actually have a massage with ours to. That's before merciless teasing with it lol
I think itshows you as online under your profile pic on your profile home page. Tho I just checked your profile and couldn't see it. But I am on my iPhone so it maybe that I'll check again on the laptop later unless someone else can confirm.
It also comes up on adverts I believe aswell as we had the same problem as you so I went through and turned most of them off.
If no one else jumps in this thread I'll check later and let you know.
X
This is an interesting topic. We can see where you are coming from Gurly and can see why alot of girls would feel that way.
We are active in the scene with other couples and have made some good friends who we continue to see.
We'd love to meet a single girl for some fun as its something we have never had the opportunity to try and believe in treating others as we would want to be treated ourselves however as yet we haven't had a girl agree to meet us.
So we'd like to ask if there is anything you look for in particular that would make you feel better about meeting a particular couple?
We have tried everything we can think of to show we are genuine and not a shag and forget type. So I guess we're curious if we are missing something from a girls perspective?
Xxx
We set ours up on the profile privacy settings. You have to choose where it is visible you are online to others.
For example you can set it so it shows you offline to someone randomly preving your profile. If it's set to on then everyone can see you are online and msg you. Alot of people seem to turn it off now as it gets annoying when random people msg you and you are say typing a msg.
Also it seems to randomly choose when it shows you online of it's own accord. Oh and it likes to shut down while you are using it lol